nah...i get the point that i'm deadweight with them.....as much as i try to fit in....they'll be them and i'll just be me....like some sorta social meritocracyOriginally posted by the Bear:you just have a low self-esteem, i'm thinking...
hey.. do more stuff with them.. be a little bit more pro-active, they're friends.. you can get away with stuff with them around
have more confidence in yourself.. start by saying: "i can!" and believe it!
Originally posted by sidestep1984:its like a case of 'its nice while it lasted'
now its like theyre bz..
and when i ask them out or talk to them...they bring up alot of excuses...but if they ask themselves out..it'll be ok...that kinda thing..'on short notice' works among them but when i use 'on short notice'..they just couldnt be bothered
Originally posted by the Bear:just like in love, you wanna find the prince, you gotta kiss a lotta frogs
u guys mind a malay in those eventS?Originally posted by the Bear:start by joining us when we have open invitations to events in the forums
Originally posted by sidestep1984:u guys mind a malay in those eventS?
i feel closer to the chinese but from experience majority of chinese dont prefer malays ard them arh..Originally posted by the Bear:what has being a malay person gotta do with anything?
Originally posted by sidestep1984:i feel closer to the chinese but from experience majority of chinese dont prefer malays ard them arh..
I guess nothing...Originally posted by the Bear:maybe the immature lot
again, what has it got to do with anything
Originally posted by sidestep1984:I guess nothing...
*cough cough*Originally posted by the Bear:only thing is, sometimes we go to pubs.. but can order non-alcoholic drinks right?
here's an insane recipe which tastes pretty good.. 1/2 glass of orange juice + 1/2 glass of coca cola... pretty good and you'll not get the runs too!
Originally posted by sidestep1984:*cough cough*
did i hear alcohol?
*cough cough*
feeling like a freak on a leash...... you wanna feel alive......Originally posted by sidestep1984:Ever had the feeling that u are deadweight among ure frens?
like u dont really have frens
but then u manage to make a group of new close frens...
as years pass.....
feels like u are deadweight when around them...
and makes u feel damn terrible like a pariah...