i just name one place
bus
first the aim is not to make her be your gf, it is to strike a conversation, nothing more than that. dun get her number too.
while sitting, a girl see next to you
first, look at her. see whether you can accept her look or not.
the way to look at her is important.
don't try to look for 1/2 sec and quickly turn you eye back.
no one will shoot your head. the govt will not arrest you.
look for at around 2 secs. don't too much. be a brave man loh. admit that i am a guy who likes to see how girl look.
if not bad, and she does not look too much older than you go ahead and strike a conversation with her.
if you know the essence of communication and mature, then talking is easy.
but most people do not know. they fear rejection embarrasation. consequence. they think about the wrong thing.
i will only share one advice. the worse case situation is she rejects you, people sitting behind laughing at you and your friends upon know it also laugh at you.
scary? yes. because you allow it to be scary. you are trained from young to be scary of these thngs.
then how? you must never be affected but what others say, laugh, condemn, scold, warn, snick, spread rumor abt you, tease,
if your intention in the first place is harmless.
i not asking you to go rob bank. i asking you to create a conversation with a lady on a bus.
Yes boss
I know what you're saying.
But it works for lifts, people in the streets too?
But what if you're not looking for a gf, what does this purpose serve?
Just wanting to know more gals? Tasty!