Originally posted by Pea brain:
What a way to start off the Chinese New Year!
Called up gf last night to tell her that i am making reservations at an Irish Pub. Ok some bros may think this is a crappy place, but the fact is, the pub is rather classy and the meals there ain't cheap. There are nice seats by the balcony overlooking outside at the top level.
Anyway, she replied saying that she is on shift the whole of Feb till 8pm (she told me that a month ago). Then she has to go home at 10+. She kinda reluctantly say "ok lor if u dun mind having dinner with me for 2 hours plus".
Btw she is not some school girl who has to report to her mum every night. Her parents could be a little strict, but that's all.
Lastly, she hasn't been calling or smsing me for these few days. Previously, she will call me or sms me everyday.
Why on earth is my gf behaving this way? She really messed up my mood for the CNY!
Give her a break dude!
She's on a shift and it's for the whole bloody month! She's definitely tired or somehow exhausted due to her own schedules. Just be a little understanding in this area okay? Give her some time to settle herself down and let her clear her own mind. Relax dude. Don't pressurize her further. It may poison your relationship.
About the SMS, relax... it may be due to some lags or maybe she's too tired to SMS u. She may be SMSing u everyday previously, then starts to cut it down a little, perhaps, she's testing ur reaction??
U'll never know!
If u react in a way that u portray yourself as clingy towards her, then u r going to fail the test IMMEDIATELY!!!
What should u do then? Act cool man. Ai Zai. COOL. Get that?
Doesn't matter if she stops SMSing for a while. Always wait and see what happens. Don't imagine things. Be cool. Don't act like u'll die without getting her SMSes...
I hope u get it.
Happy Lunar New Year.
S.H.I.N.