My GF bo chup me
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What a way to start off the Chinese New Year!
Called up gf last night to tell her that i am making reservations at an Irish Pub. Ok some bros may think this is a crappy place, but the fact is, the pub is rather classy and the meals there ain't cheap. There are nice seats by the balcony overlooking outside at the top level.
Anyway, she replied saying that she is on shift the whole of Feb till 8pm (she told me that a month ago). Then she has to go home at 10+. She kinda reluctantly say "ok lor if u dun mind having dinner with me for 2 hours plus".
Btw she is not some school girl who has to report to her mum every night. Her parents could be a little strict, but that's all.
Lastly, she hasn't been calling or smsing me for these few days. Previously, she will call me or sms me everyday.
Why on earth is my gf behaving this way? She really messed up my mood for the CNY! -
Hmm, don't you think she'll be in a much better position to know than us?
From the looks of it, she could be tired out. And besides, its always better to sms/call once every 2-3 days then everyday. It does get stale...
You should talk this out to her when you eventually get her out on a date.
But just remember... its better to take a forgiving and relaxed stance, then to be worked up at everything she does/or not.
Just relax, everything will work itself out somehow.~ -
well... perhaps ur gf need some space and time alone. That's wat my bf is doing... But she doesn't calls u or sms u doesn't mean she doesn't love u. If its feeling lousy the way she treats u.. mayb u shud let her know. Even she might not be giving u any explaination, dun hope for 1 in the first place. At least she will know she's treating u shallowly now. She will reflect on what she had done. Let her know it's hurting u. Wat u feel, say it out. Dun hide.
In the meantime, wait patiently. Well, if u really love her. Thats wat i have to say. It will pay off -
find new girl
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Originally posted by Pea brain:
What a way to start off the Chinese New Year!
Called up gf last night to tell her that i am making reservations at an Irish Pub. Ok some bros may think this is a crappy place, but the fact is, the pub is rather classy and the meals there ain't cheap. There are nice seats by the balcony overlooking outside at the top level.
Anyway, she replied saying that she is on shift the whole of Feb till 8pm (she told me that a month ago). Then she has to go home at 10+. She kinda reluctantly say "ok lor if u dun mind having dinner with me for 2 hours plus".
She's too tired.
Btw she is not some school girl who has to report to her mum every night. Her parents could be a little strict, but that's all.
Lastly, she hasn't been calling or smsing me for these few days. Previously, she will call me or sms me everyday.
Could be due to the lag or anything which mess up the sms network during the CNY period?
Why on earth is my gf behaving this way? She really messed up my mood for the CNY!
Have you try to find out about her mood
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Give her a break dude!Originally posted by Pea brain:What a way to start off the Chinese New Year!
Called up gf last night to tell her that i am making reservations at an Irish Pub. Ok some bros may think this is a crappy place, but the fact is, the pub is rather classy and the meals there ain't cheap. There are nice seats by the balcony overlooking outside at the top level.
Anyway, she replied saying that she is on shift the whole of Feb till 8pm (she told me that a month ago). Then she has to go home at 10+. She kinda reluctantly say "ok lor if u dun mind having dinner with me for 2 hours plus".
Btw she is not some school girl who has to report to her mum every night. Her parents could be a little strict, but that's all.
Lastly, she hasn't been calling or smsing me for these few days. Previously, she will call me or sms me everyday.
Why on earth is my gf behaving this way? She really messed up my mood for the CNY!
She's on a shift and it's for the whole bloody month! She's definitely tired or somehow exhausted due to her own schedules. Just be a little understanding in this area okay? Give her some time to settle herself down and let her clear her own mind. Relax dude. Don't pressurize her further. It may poison your relationship.
About the SMS, relax... it may be due to some lags or maybe she's too tired to SMS u. She may be SMSing u everyday previously, then starts to cut it down a little, perhaps, she's testing ur reaction??
U'll never know!
If u react in a way that u portray yourself as clingy towards her, then u r going to fail the test IMMEDIATELY!!!
What should u do then? Act cool man. Ai Zai. COOL. Get that?
Doesn't matter if she stops SMSing for a while. Always wait and see what happens. Don't imagine things. Be cool. Don't act like u'll die without getting her SMSes...
I hope u get it.
Happy Lunar New Year.
S.H.I.N.