how would girls feel if they....
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receive flowers from a guy on V-Day?
this is my 1st time giving flowers to a gal, dun know what to do. 
1) just go up & give it to her
2) ask a friend to pass it to her on my behalf
3) place it on her table when she's not around
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i choose (1), tat the best. if u r shy, choose (3), but add a card or wat to let her know tat it is from u. (2) will be a bad choice.Originally posted by epImetheus:receive flowers from a guy on V-Day? this is my 1st time giving flowers to a gal, dun know what to do.
1) just go up & give it to her
2) ask a friend to pass it to her on my behalf
3) place it on her table when she's not around
please help. -
If she's interested in u, she b extremely happy n keep the flowers as long as possible. If she's not interested in u, yr flowers either end up being distributed 2 other girls or in her wastebasketOriginally posted by epImetheus:receive flowers from a guy on V-Day? this is my 1st time giving flowers to a gal, dun know what to do.
1) just go up & give it to her
2) ask a friend to pass it to her on my behalf
3) place it on her table when she's not around
please help.
4th option: place a special order with the florist, specified the time 2 send 2 her + add a v-day card 2 the flowers so as 2 let her know its from u -
disagree. girls generally are happy when they receive flowers, regardless who gives them the flowers. keeping the flowers does not equate interest in any case at all.Originally posted by starExcaliblur:If she's not interested in u, yr flowers either end up being distributed 2 other girls or in her wastebasket
as reply to the original post, give her the flowers directly. what better way is there to toughen up your skin? beside the "pai-seh-ness" is on both parties so no worries + you get to see her reaction (i believe you will not regret seeing her smile
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cheers
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Number 1
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Give it to her personally.
U ask a fren, sekali she falls for the fren instead.
Show some sincerity mah. -
hmmm i choose 1 or 3... cos 2 later like the one above me said, ur friend betray u... .tehehehehe
but option 4 is abit exp lorz...
accepting flower dun mean interest, accepting flowers = i like the flower, very pretty... tehehehehe -
You have to pass any gift that you wan to give to someone personally. That is what someone taught me a long time ago, and I still remember it until today. I have always followed that principle ever since, cos it shows more sincerity that way...
Plus isn't it a good thing to be able to see her initial response to it? To be able to see the smile light up her face?
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Dis shld come from a gal rite?
For me, if it comes from the guy dat i've been eyeing on.. of coz happy like siao. So in watever way he surprises mi or pop mi the flower.. doesn't matter.
But if he's a secret admirer whom i've never spoken much to or even look him in the eye b4.. i'll probably go "HUH?"
So b prepared for awkward/embarrassing (eg.some gals can go to the extreme like running away) response from her ya? Stay cool @ all times.
Good luck & Happy Valentine's! -
Hmmm so I guess its a bad idea to sent flowers on V-day to a girl who rejected you, right?
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ermmm...i had wanted to pass someone a present by leaving it at the door coz i did not think it's appropriate to meet up but your post had planted some doubts in my mind...Originally posted by icyprincess:You have to pass any gift that you wan to give to someone personally. That is what someone taught me a long time ago, and I still remember it until today. I have always followed that principle ever since, cos it shows more sincerity that way...
Plus isn't it a good thing to be able to see her initial response to it? To be able to see the smile light up her face?
i.c.y
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Well, it is really up to you. But by giving the gift to her personally, you have learned another lesson of courage.Originally posted by simulacrum:ermmm...i had wanted to pass someone a present by leaving it at the door coz i did not think it's appropriate to meet up but your post had planted some doubts in my mind...
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not unlikely, the RPs would no allow it.Originally posted by starExcaliblur:4th option: place a special order with the florist, specified the time 2 send 2 her + add a v-day card 2 the flowers so as 2 let her know its from u -
everyone, thanks for the advice.
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pass the flowers to that girl personally...
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Dun waste money.Originally posted by epImetheus:receive flowers from a guy on V-Day? this is my 1st time giving flowers to a gal, dun know what to do.
1) just go up & give it to her
2) ask a friend to pass it to her on my behalf
3) place it on her table when she's not around
please help.
If she likes u she likes u... And if u know she likes u... u would have chose option (1) and wouldnt be asking us these questions..
If she doesnt likes u... All the options will just end up in the dustbin.
I guess frm the way u are asking is that.. u secretly admired the girl and u wanted to give her the flowers cos its V-Day. Its really not effective. Machiam like some stalker like that... -
i'm a failure.
when i gave her the flowers, she accepted it & told me not to bother her again.
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1. is e best la....
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dun give up so easily... maybe she too shocked just ask her if u 2 can still be friends lor.... then slowlyOriginally posted by epImetheus:i'm a failure.
when i gave her the flowers, she accepted it & told me not to bother her again. 
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well, since she make herself so clear to u already. u jus have to accept the fact lor. no point dragging it on. tin u should jus move on from this moment onward.Originally posted by epImetheus:i'm a failure.
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wowOriginally posted by epImetheus:i'm a failure.
when i gave her the flowers, she accepted it & told me not to bother her again.
tt`s so insensitive of her
since u already made ur intentions clear to her and her to you
then make sure u choose a correct path to take ya??
always rem..
no regrets
now that u know her feelings
move on or persist...
at least u know how she felt ya? -
Ouch.. so harshhhh. But its ok, *pat pat* good try! Its not often u'll get lucky with the gal u admire lah. Nmind la.. Guys mah.. nothing to lose! Next target pls~
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WAh lau eh!!!!! want me to punch her for u?????Originally posted by epImetheus:i'm a failure.
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wow, that gal reali got problem.... bobian lor... at least u tried... dun worry, there r more better gals out... they'll come... chill....Originally posted by epImetheus:i'm a failure.
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WaLau!Originally posted by epImetheus:i'm a failure.
when i gave her the flowers, she accepted it & told me not to bother her again. 
She did tis to u! If I were u, upon hearin tis, I'll take back e flowers n Dump it into a Rubbish Bin in front of her n Say in to her face, "Kan Ni Mei Cai Kei Ni Hua, Bu Yao, SHUWA!!" 