G/f cheating on me?
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I'm over suscipicious of my gf...
I think she's cheating on me..
Every time I confront her about something
she always have an excuse...
And suddenly she's not in the "Mood"...
Think anything is happening?
Or is it normal? -
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I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
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I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
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For YOUR LIFE is about the EXISTENCE of....
Your Happiness.... Your Sadness... Your Pain.... Your Pleasure....
Like a painted sky, when it rains... All CEASE to BE... DEVIL PHRASE IV
When Law & Rules are there,
they are NOT about JUSTICE.
While reality & dreams are there,
they are NOT about SURVIVAL..
And Life & Death NOT about LIVING...
Good & Evil NOT about definitions....
IF truly there is EVIL, it is NOT just one of its kind......
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ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
suggest a breakup
and see her reaction -
Wa Devil1976, ur reply best man, i dun even underdtand!!!
too chim already leh... -
I tried breaking up a few times already,
but she always makes it up...
then we're back together again...
does this sound very typical? -
I think you too suspicious lor. Try talking to her and instead of pointing fingers, listen for once.Originally posted by Ruth|E:i guess u love her too much!
shes jus taking ya for granted
You should know by now you can Never Never NEVER win an argument with any girls even if you're right. Maybe something is bothering her, school, work, family, PMS, your behaviour, your attitude. Break up with her if you must. Your call.
Better still, imagine you're in her position and everytime, she point finger at you and say "Wah! You cheat on me, you unfaithful Ba$t@rd!!".
Then you say "Don't have, don't have."
She looks at you "Don't BLUFF! Always no mood! Sure go fool around, right?"
Hahahaha.... get the picture. :p -
perhaps, perhaps...
taken for granted is fer sure...
maybe i should take it day by day?
i'm too tired and too scared of finding out whats really wrong -
YES... Typical.... That's the WHOLE PURPOSE of my POST lah.... Hehheh... Ok...Originally posted by CMI:I tried breaking up a few times already,
but she always makes it up...
then we're back together again...
does this sound very typical?
When you're NOT certain of things, don't act rush OR accuse someone especially your gf.... Once you rise a DOUBT... A TRUST is BROKEN..... Something MUST have HAPPENED or CHANGED to cause your SUSPICION.... When IN DOUBT, don't always SUSPECT others... SUSPECT your surroundings.... YOURSELF.... Find the REAL CAUSE of your DOUBT.....
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In LIGHT I shall FEAR NOT. FOR what I AM is CUT so DEEP inside of ME.
I LIVE my FLESH and SOUL ONLY to BLEED for the OTHERS.
FEAR ME NOT. FOR I AM YOUR 'MASTER'. GIVE YOU STRENGTH. FOR YOU ARE MY 'ENEMY'.
DEVIL PHRASE I
I have no 'friends' nor 'family'.
I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
I don't exist, but I shall live ETERNITY..... DEVIL PHRASE II
In DREAMS you CAN NEVER DIE.....
For YOUR LIFE is about the EXISTENCE of....
Your Happiness.... Your Sadness... Your Pain.... Your Pleasure....
Like a painted sky, when it rains... All CEASE to BE... DEVIL PHRASE IV
When Law & Rules are there,
they are NOT about JUSTICE.
While reality & dreams are there,
they are NOT about SURVIVAL..
And Life & Death NOT about LIVING...
Good & Evil NOT about definitions....
IF truly there is EVIL, it is NOT just one of its kind......
DEVIL'S SEVENTH PHRASE
ße COOL, NOT s¢rr¥.... -
YES... Typical.... That's the WHOLE PURPOSE of my POST lah.... Hehheh... Ok...Originally posted by Devil1976:[QUOTE]Originally posted by CMI:
[b]I tried breaking up a few times already,
but she always makes it up...
then we're back together again...
does this sound very typical?
When you're NOT certain of things, don't act rush OR accuse someone especially your gf.... Once you rise a DOUBT... A TRUST is BROKEN..... Something MUST have HAPPENED or CHANGED to cause your SUSPICION.... When IN DOUBT, don't always SUSPECT others... SUSPECT your surroundings.... YOURSELF.... Find the REAL CAUSE of your DOUBT.....
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WEll saId dude ~ i like your theory ~
Trust is very important in a relationship, sometimes i do lose it too, but she will mend that link back in some ways.. den i feel that i'm just worrying too muCH after knowing the truth.
Stay HappY alwaYs ~
iF it is meant to be. it will be. -
Just to mention... I don't like to be negative, but when something's not meant to be it's probably never meant to be. Do your part in the r/s... should she desert you, it probably means that there's something in you that she don't like or lack of in you in which she admires in the other person. You change for her, then it's not you, you will get tired of the new you and be back to your old self, then you will start shouting, that you did so much for her, yet she don't appreciate it, but actually at that time you did it willingly.. Thus why bother to change yourself for her in the first place just to save a r/s which is not meant to be in the first place.
Probably out of point for the topic here... but it's worth some consideration....
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Hmm... Sort of like Devil's LOGIC? But guess there's really a diffrence here...? Devils can ALLOW for such CHANGES... But in a DIFFERENT manner I should say?Originally posted by Bear:Just to mention... I don't like to be negative, but when something's not meant to be it's probably never meant to be. Do your part in the r/s... should she desert you, it probably means that there's something in you that she don't like or lack of in you in which she admires in the other person. You change for her, then it's not you, you will get tired of the new you and be back to your old self, then you will start shouting, that you did so much for her, yet she don't appreciate it, but actually at that time you did it willingly.. Thus why bother to change yourself for her in the first place just to save a r/s which is not meant to be in the first place.
Probably out of point for the topic here... but it's worth some consideration....
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cover the base n bomb the face
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Originally posted by blackhair:cover the base n bomb the face
Things' not gonna work that way.... It's too superficial...? -
used to be suspicious of my ex, the feeling aint that good, and you know one thing for sure, it's coming to a bad end. either trash it out once and for all, or you will find yourself agonizing over your suspicions.
Then and again, were you being too sensitive over her? Are you being too protective? how did you arrive where you are today, that is, being suspicious of her, think about it.
here's one solution out of many,
get a paper, draw a vertical line separating the paper. on the left, you write why you trust her, on the right, you write down the points why you dont at all.
then get another paper,
draw the same line, on the left, write down what you have contributed in your relationship, on the right side, what your gf have contributed.
be truthful, and look at it yourself, there, you find the answer.
my 2 cents, -
the make-up bang is getting to your head. if you're more or less sure, pull out while you can. you don't want to be sharing snatches with some other diseased lamer. i pulled out of mine too late. got burnt big time. she's just not worth the time if she cheats.Originally posted by CMI:I tried breaking up a few times already,
but she always makes it up...
then we're back together again...
does this sound very typical?
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