Hi, I'm desperate
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15MSG here.Please to meet everyone. Like most teenagers, I have alot of problems. The first of which is I'm not really good at talking to girls, that will explain why i only have 1 really good female while the other 6 or 7 are just casual friends. bASCIALLY i want u guys advice on
1)How to talk to girls(manner,topics...)
2)How to make them laugh
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The most important is to be yourself lor... Bring up topic that u usually speak with your good female friend.
as for how to make them laugh ^_^ this must depend what kind of girl is she, then go and think abt joke tt will make her laugh.... (exactly don need to think lah..., juz make a joke out from the present environment will do)
if u combine the those two point above, maybe they will like u liao lor.. ^_^ -
get a life
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Most important is being yourself. Talk something practical and not rubbish. Jokes might be difficult as u might worry whether the girl with respond correctly to ur jokes or worst, they might respond a HUH!? and the situation is embarrassing and you wish u had kept ur mouth shut.
How to make them like u? hMm.. humour + charm + sincere + style + helpful should be the keys to it i guess. just dun act like a fool or someone irritating. Be a gentleman!!
Just be urself and be natural ~
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don't be nervous andjust be youself. how long can u keep pretending.
i find it useful to read some female stuff ... on mags etc.
there are some articles on http://www.modnoc.com
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BE URSELF...and most important "sui ji yin bian"Originally posted by desperate:15MSG here.Please to meet everyone. Like most teenagers, I have alot of problems. The first of which is I'm not really good at talking to girls, that will explain why i only have 1 really good female while the other 6 or 7 are just casual friends. bASCIALLY i want u guys advice on
1)How to talk to girls(manner,topics...)
2)How to make them laugh
3)How to make them like u(not love)
do watever the girl r pleased...
haha...
and try to talk more...so they will noe wat u tink and feel..-_- -
For me, i think being yourself is the last thing you should do. If you're shy in the first place, being yourself will get you nowhere. Being desperate like your nick suggest will scare away all the girls before you open your mouth. Their senses are that good. hahaha... ok, now that i've slimed the other guys before me, here's something for you to think about.
What you need to do is to build a good and charming character. You have to be comfortable and confident in yourself before you can convince others to like you or make them laugh or talk about matters close to their hearts.
Both men and women speaks different kind of languages. Women wants men to listen, but they don't. Men wants women's attention, but are afraid of being committed, or end up with a whining woman instead.
I'm not doing all your thinking for you. The above is enough for you to get a start on this matter. Read some books like; Allan Pease's "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" or Gray's "Women are from Venus and Men are from Mars". Go scout around, there's lots of materials out there. Don't just read books too, go practise what they teach.
To be a good conversationalist, be ready to listen, read a lot so that you've got lots of content to draw from, and be willing to express your opinions even if they don't agree with you. Lastly, don't be a SNAG. They're too nice and get bullied. OK, shoot me if you don't agree with me. -
*bANg* at Klactovak
sHooTS a fErRO roCher For ur gd opinion lolX -
1) Talk, u mean u dunno how to talk meh? Juz be natural lor, duh. Treat them as a normal fren, not an alien or someone special. They r all juz like u, a human being.Originally posted by desperate:15MSG here.Please to meet everyone. Like most teenagers, I have alot of problems. The first of which is I'm not really good at talking to girls, that will explain why i only have 1 really good female while the other 6 or 7 are just casual friends. bASCIALLY i want u guys advice on
1)How to talk to girls(manner,topics...)
2)How to make them laugh
3)How to make them like u(not love)
2) Make them laugh, be humourous lor. This is a worthwhile trait to be cultivated. Learn to tell jokes, make jokes of everything. Tease them, mjoke abt them, abt words used, or even abt the surroundings. As long as u can find and think of sth funny, juz say it out, dun keep it to urself.
3) Make them like u... Juz like how u make ur frens like u lor. If ur frens dun like u, then they r not frens already rite?
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"1% inspiration, 99% perspiration"
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The Eagle
He clasps the crag with hooked hands:
Close to the sun in lonely lands,
Ringed with the azure world, he stands.
The wrinkled sea beneath him crawls;
He watches from his mountain walls,
And like a thunderbolt he falls.
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YawnYawn, you're an interesting fellow. Thanks for the rocher.Originally posted by YawnYawn:*bANg* at Klactovak
sHooTS a fErRO roCher For ur gd opinion lolX -
I would think its better to be just urself, coz pple normally like u for who u ARE and not what u WERE.