HeLp!
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This girl in my class , likes me, but i used to get rejected , when i was in secondary school , but now this girl in my class , quite pretty , but i don't have
any feelings for her~ She's been trying to get close to me , but i don't want to dissapoint her , so i want to tell her that it's impossible between us, how do i reject a gal since i have never done it before?
Signing off,
H.Chen -
heartbreaker
how can u say u feeling, y dun u try to go out for a while, unless u can say i know her damn well and u dun like her...
if that the case juz tell her straight forward to her face... no point beating round the bush -
wa kao.... u have girl dowan... i no girl lor....
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Sorry xxxx, but I'm not ready to be comitted in a r/s. Please give me a little more time and lets see what works out.
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erm..kinda difficult unless you tell her that you are already attached or maybe just act kinda irritated when you are ard her?
I also have one classmate just like her..kept pestering a guy,but he didn't retaliate.I think they are not together maybe 'cause the guy kept sticking to his friends whenever he sees her and try & act busy. Well,in the meantime..just bask in her affections for you
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As my army buddies have said, being borned with more then average looks ,
might not be good after all.
Cheers,
H.Chen -
Whatever you do, don't tell her she is irritating. You'll really damage her self-esteem for years to come. And in the future when she does find someone else, she'll label you a bast@rd, that is if you don't mind.
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is this a very common excuse that men uses?Originally posted by ditzy:Sorry xxxx, but I'm not ready to be comitted in a r/s. Please give me a little more time and lets see what works out.
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Show me a better one.Originally posted by browniebaobao:is this a very common excuse that men uses? 
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I'm gay.Originally posted by ditzy:Show me a better one. -
I can't gib u happiness...real "happiness"....i'm The Singapore Last Eunch....Originally posted by ditzy:Show me a better one. -
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Why don't you spend some time with her first? Go on a date with her, before deciding whether you wish to know her more, or tell her its better to continue on as friends..
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Originally posted by ditzy:Show me a better one.
Oh ya..a better one.."I'm sorry, I'm not good enough for you. You deserve someone better than me...someone who truly appreciates you and accept you for what you are." -
if someone appreciates you, but you dont want the r/s.
Say this:
"Please do not waste time on me, unless you sincerely think it's worth it and that you believe you can win my heart. Give it up already. I treat you as a friend now. Please respect me and yourself. If you persist, I won't stop you but I'll avoid you." -
Thats too typical, usually only the girl would go like that.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
Oh ya..a better one.."I'm sorry, I'm not good enough for you. You deserve someone better than me...someone who truly appreciates you and accept you for what you are." -
Say u are not ready for a r/s and u rather remain friends.
Remember - Put the blame on yourself not her.
Stress that u want to mix around first than be tied to a r/s. -
erm.....dun tell her anything,let her read ur body language...when she approach u ,u move further away,she'll get the hint wifout "losing her face"
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sounds v kiam pa. Pls respect the girl.Originally posted by Nelstar:if someone appreciates you, but you dont want the r/s.
Say this:
"Please do not waste time on me, unless you sincerely think it's worth it and that you believe you can win my heart. Give it up already. I treat you as a friend now. Please respect me and yourself. If you persist, I won't stop you but I'll avoid you." -
Originally posted by gerrykoh:Say u are not ready for a r/s and u rather remain friends.
Remember - Put the blame on yourself not her.
Stress that u want to mix around first than be tied to a r/s.
Another one..haiz...
So men are not truthful afterall. -
Is your post in poem form? Made no sense with the comas when I first read it.Originally posted by HenryChen:This girl in my class , likes me, but i used to get rejected , when i was in secondary school , but now this girl in my class , quite pretty , but i don't have
any feelings for her~ She's been trying to get close to me , but i don't want to dissapoint her , so i want to tell her that it's impossible between us, how do i reject a gal since i have never done it before?
Signing off,
H.Chen -
I like 2 modified this as follows:Originally posted by ditzy:Sorry xxxx, but I'm not ready to be comitted in a r/s. Please give me a little more time and lets see what works out.
Sorry xxxx, but I'm not ready to be 4 a r/s. Let's continue 2 be frens n know each other better. In the meantime, pls give me more time n see what works out.
sometimes, feelings 4 a person developed when u least expected it 2 happen (ri jiu sheng qing)
Generally speaking, dun reject a girl outright, u won't b able 2 mend her fragile heart back -
It's the only way to make her go away.Originally posted by browniebaobao:sounds v kiam pa. Pls respect the girl.
Sometimes u have to be bad. Trying to be good u will only give her false hopes. She deserved better.
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Originally posted by Nelstar:It's the only way to make her go away.
Sometimes u have to be bad. Trying to be good u will only give her false hopes. She deserved better.
perhaps the words will hurt her so badly tat demoralise her or make her can't move on.
Guys always assume that this is the best way ar, for the better of the girl etc..but have u ask the girl wat she really wants? -
I rather be bad... because i once give someone hope... drag the time around.. and when i shattered it, it was horrible... it's better to let me be the evil man, than to be real nice.Originally posted by browniebaobao:
perhaps the words will hurt her so badly tat demoralise her or make her can't move on.
Guys always assume that this is the best way ar, for the better of the girl etc..but have u ask the girl wat she really wants? -
just find chances to tell her that you actually treat her like a sister lor...and tell her a lie that you fallen in love with a girl may also helps~Originally posted by HenryChen:This girl in my class , likes me, but i used to get rejected , when i was in secondary school , but now this girl in my class , quite pretty , but i don't have
any feelings for her~ She's been trying to get close to me , but i don't want to dissapoint her , so i want to tell her that it's impossible between us, how do i reject a gal since i have never done it before?
Signing off,
H.Chen