i marry a wood husband
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i marry a wood husband,yesterday we quarel again ,he shout at me.sometime i feel very lost.Now i got 2 kids.he never help me at all,he will eat first,after eat he will read,search net.When i got problem he will never help me.I think ur ask me go to hell.so stupid marry a lousy husband still can have 2 kids.what kind a woman am i.
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My dear...what is happening?
Well, just vent out... -
Sigh...
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Sigh... I know what she mean... One of my ex-project mates from my class is like this. The wife quite poor thing... My dad and brother is still like this. I understand my dad cause its his generation plus he's the sole breadwinner but my brother is really useless and my mom cleans up after him (used to be my job where I cleaned up after him, his wife and his daughter, till i oved out). You can't really change your husband (believe me on this) but you can only mold your kids (are they old enough to help). Or if there are somethings that you can relax and take it easy, don't do loh ... you'd burn out very fast ... -
First of all, I have to ask you what you really want in life? What was the quarrel about? What is your background and his? Help you with what?
There are so many question marks, so how do you want us to help you?
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Hi sorry to hear that such a guy still exist. Well I nvr b someone husband b4 and dont hv much advice to U. Jus wana tell U to to b strong and for the sake of your kids try to talk to your husband and let him know your situation. Take care.
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Typical married husband?Originally posted by limcony:i marry a wood husband,yesterday we quarel again ,he shout at me.sometime i feel very lost.Now i got 2 kids.he never help me at all,he will eat first,after eat he will read,search net.When i got problem he will never help me.I think ur ask me go to hell.so stupid marry a lousy husband still can have 2 kids.what kind a woman am i.
Maybe you shall go to marriage consultant, as I heard they will help to pass your message of having problem to your husband and see how to improve situation. -
Nice women?
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yeah you should seek counsel from the professional. We men do see things from differently from women. Professional should be able to narrow your differences. Besides, you have two little bundle of joys to look forward to.
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=====Originally posted by limcony:i marry a wood husband,yesterday we quarel again ,he shout at me.sometime i feel very lost.Now i got 2 kids.he never help me at all,he will eat first,after eat he will read,search net.When i got problem he will never help me.I think ur ask me go to hell.so stupid marry a lousy husband still can have 2 kids.what kind a woman am i.
That's why I am a 40+ yrs bachelor. There are too many things that can go wrong in a marriage. I guess I am not the married type I don't condone and accept the behaviour of your husband. He is too chauvinistic, selfish and lazy......
That's why young people should increase the length o the fdating period
in order to get to know each other better. I have a friend who dated
for more than 8 yrs b4 settling down.
I think the thread starter rushed into marriage and ONLY NOW realised that married life is never a rose garden. Everybody got to be responsible for their actions.
Don't marry for the wrong reasons such as all the woolly airy fairy romance stuff or ......fear of losing out... or want to follow the crowd reasons....
That's why divorces are increasing. AND ULTIMATELY, it's the man who lose out according to the Woman's Charter....
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Talk to him nicely & tell him not to shout.
Don't nag at him, tell him he has to do his part in helping out with housework cos u have 2 young kids.
Suggest he entertains them instead of surfing internet, so he can build the bond with them. -
touchwood.Originally posted by limcony:i marry a wood husband,yesterday we quarel again ,he shout at me.sometime i feel very lost.Now i got 2 kids.he never help me at all,he will eat first,after eat he will read,search net.When i got problem he will never help me.I think ur ask me go to hell.so stupid marry a lousy husband still can have 2 kids.what kind a woman am i.