Career-minded women
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Hi guys, just want urs opinion. If a girl told u she is ont attached and would not do as she wants to have a stable career first, do u think its still possible to woo that girl?? Is she giving a hint that she does not to have that kind of relationship with u??
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Not necessarily against you. Possible to woo the girl, but likelihood of it turning out to be a good relationship would not be high.Originally posted by SpeedStar:Hi guys, just want urs opinion. If a girl told u she is ont attached and would not do as she wants to have a stable career first, do u think its still possible to woo that girl?? Is she giving a hint that she does not to have that kind of relationship with u?? -
Thanks for the reply. Since like its better to maintain as friends.Originally posted by Devil1976:Not necessarily against you. Possible to woo the girl, but likelihood of it turning out to be a good relationship would not be high.
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I tot guys also say that... and its an excuse which translate to: "You are just too Ugly for me to be seen with"
JOKE!!! Don't be Sensitive!!! -
haha that can be true in most of the case...Originally posted by mistyblue:I tot guys also say that... and its an excuse which translate to: "You are just too Ugly for me to be seen with"
JOKE!!! Don't be Sensitive!!! -
She must be young & has time on her side.
Her work must be very demanding & if she has to work long hours, no time to spend with bf.
It may also be an excuse if she is not 'in' to u.
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If you really want to, can just drop a few very mild 'hints'... If it would be, she'll just let it happen... No point pinning any hope when things may not be quite likely?Originally posted by SpeedStar:Thanks for the reply. Since like its better to maintain as friends. -
slowly, bun bun lai... Girls will:
1. play hard to get
2. duno wat she wants.
3. like you but duno how to handle if real relationship comes along.
first one easy... to settle... Since Gov urges creative thinking, think...
2nd one, convince her ushe need ur kind of guy...
3rd one, means she got other guys going aft her at the moment... -
Ur explaination quite zhun. She is young,has to work long hours, but has broke up with bf already. She told me she dun want to start a relationship first cos she want a stable career. But to me sounds like a way of rejecting. I will get to know her better before confessing to her since up to now she and I are still communicating quite comfortable, might still have a little chance. Anyway no try will regert later...Thks for the feed back.Originally posted by gerrykoh:She must be young & has time on her side.
Her work must be very demanding & if she has to work long hours, no time to spend with bf.
It may also be an excuse if she is not 'in' to u.
Just treat her as a friend, time will tell if she has a change of heart
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Wat u say is very true. But she is like sometime v friendly sometime v cold, may me wonder wat is her intention. Up to a certain time when I think I comfortable, I will confess to her. No matter wats the end result, will still remain friend with her. Thanks for ur sincere feed back.Originally posted by Devil1976:If you really want to, can just drop a few very mild 'hints'... If it would be, she'll just let it happen... No point pinning any hope when things may not be quite likely? -
Not everybody's willing to stay as friends like used to after a confession... If you don't wanna take the chance of having to lost her totally even as a friend, you might wanna just drop hints and use more indirect ways...?Originally posted by SpeedStar:Wat u say is very true. But she is like sometime v friendly sometime v cold, may me wonder wat is her intention. Up to a certain time when I think I comfortable, I will confess to her. No matter wats the end result, will still remain friend with her. Thanks for ur sincere feed back. -
Obviously you dont have chemistry with this gal la...drop it and move on. If got chemistry, can even have relationship when one of you is behind bars.
Dont look too hard for relationships, e e lai, sure backfire and regret.
But if what she says is true, you got to understand the female bio and psyche....when they are young they feel that they can take on the world several times over, then when they hit 28 onwards, they will start to feel the little aches and pains crawling in (faster than guys), the turmoil in their hormones related to the mensural cycles, then mindset will start to change, then they are ready.