Talking out their problems, it never stops!!!
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Ah you're just another of those who lack empathy.Originally posted by AntiAnti:I dunno, people in some emotional trouble always cannot stop talking about their problems, even after advising them, they just go back in that loop like a broken recorder, repeating and repeating!!!! I know we are all guilty of that!!! But it sux advising to people when that happens, feel like just record my advise and playback to counteract the looping..............
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If it counts....then consider me one too.Originally posted by LazerLordz:Ah you're just another of those who lack empathy.
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Ah you're just another of those who lack empathy
Probably, i don't know. I mean i can listen to what they are saying, but when they complain to me everyday or everytime i see them. It really drives me nuts!!! Or when i get SMS everyday about the same complain. Or sitting for hours listening to the same problem spoken......
I dunno, everyone got this syndrome once in a while, it's probably stress... but people who keeps showing this trait seems to show this similar personality. They are like complainers rather than problem solvers. Give them a challenging problem, they would give up easily and go around consulting others first before sitting down to think about it....
And i don't know if anyone notice, but complaining is additive, and can be a habit.... and Singaporeans complain a lot!!!! -
Heh~ guess complaint is just another channel to express one's disgruntlement. Faced with such stressful and hectic lifestyle, one can't help but bitch abt many issues faced. Then, life still proceed as per normal. It's like a vicious cycle, ain't it?
That's why one must always learn to relax and think positively. Handle problems rationally and analytically. Find a solution instead of lamenting on the circumstances. After all, we got the power to make a constructive change towards the quality of our lives.
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We can advise but not change their minds.
