asking a gal for phone chat...

• courseclerk

  28 Feb 05, 22:41

  hi all..
  
  let's say u've known this gal for some time, can chat pretty well in reality and online but never had a phone chat b4.....
  
  so if i'm gonna ask her if if she's free tonite for a phone chat, well, if she says sure, tt'll be good..
  
  but if she's not free for watever reason, wat can i do next? ask her when she's free? or stop asking her for phone chats? or simply ask her every few days?
  
  ermm.. not too sure of backup steps to take if she's not free for phone chat..
  
  Any advice? Thx
  
  Oh yah.. i'm kind of interested in the ger..
• ybother

  28 Feb 05, 23:41

  err just sms her saying u will call later
  either she will ask y or she will say ok.
  if she noe u interest and she is ok with u being interested, she will most prob just say ok.
• gerrykoh

  1 Mar 05, 09:25

  Timing is most impt cos both of u must be in relaxed stage.
  Find out what time she sleeps & call her one or two hours before, make sure she dosn't have any outstanding work that got to rush to do.
  Even if she is not free to talk, ask her when is the best time to call.
  
• Fuqua

  1 Mar 05, 09:41

  
  wat's the issue?
  just pick up the phone and talk nice wat.
  it's not like u're asking her to marry you over the phone.
  
  
• parn

  1 Mar 05, 10:15

  Originally posted by courseclerk:

  hi all..
  
  let's say u've known this gal for some time, can chat pretty well in reality and online but never had a phone chat b4.....
  
  so if i'm gonna ask her if if she's free tonite for a phone chat, well, if she says sure, tt'll be good..
  
  but if she's not free for watever reason, wat can i do next? ask her when she's free? or stop asking her for phone chats? or simply ask her every few days?
  
  ermm.. not too sure of backup steps to take if she's not free for phone chat..
  
  Any advice? Thx
  
  Oh yah.. i'm kind of interested in the ger..

  Suggest calling her while both of you are in a online or reality chat. Make sure that she is comfortable with you and she is interested in your upcoming topic. She won't reject your suggestion if she's comfortable chatting with you. Once you have called her before, you can always call her again...but please make sure the conversation ended pleasantly.
  
  Never ask her that out of the sudden, build up the ambience first.