Originally posted by brownie22:
hi people, hows everyone here?..
I'm in a long term relationship and i would like to find out how i can be sure that my partner isnt a liar (which is an attribute i hate most in a person)..
I know this is a ridiculous qn to ask here but i cant help but wana pen down some lines jus to heed some of your advices..
Pls help!!!
Everybody is a liar in some ways. You can't have be absolutely 100% sure of your partner in any relationship, there are bounds to be doubts arising.
A relationship is about how you learnt to handle the doubts (by learning to trust each other), tolerating each other's bad behaviour (by spending a lot of time together), and finding out for yourself if he/she is the ONE (by living together before marriage).
Have more confidence in yourself and feel better. Cos there must be something really good in you that another person chooses to be with you and not any other people.

Good luck and live better.
