am i thinking too much?

• ~Numb~

  2 Mar 05, 14:47

  i noe this gal for about a week or soon now...she's smart pretty and very friendly. she's unlike the gals i haf knew b4.
  So been smsing her pretty much, chattin on the phone a couple of times.
  And yesterday we went out on a date, eating dinner n watched a movie.
  During the movie...she leaded her head on my shoulder afew times....i didn't do anything of cos...just keep quiet n watch the show...
  so wat does that mean?? am i supposed to dp anything when she lead her head over?? i'm not those touchy touchy kind of guy. a bit blur....
  any comments??? TIA ppl
• smoke

  2 Mar 05, 15:24

  I think you already missed the chance.
  
  But if it happens again, put your arms around her. Don't start roving your fingers though.
• tan_william

  2 Mar 05, 15:27

  then you just let her rest her head on your shoulder..then you can also rest your head on top of hers..normally girls do that if they are comfortable with the guy they are with..
• parn

  2 Mar 05, 15:38

  Originally posted by ~Numb~:

  i noe this gal for about a week or soon now...she's smart pretty and very friendly. she's unlike the gals i haf knew b4.
  So been smsing her pretty much, chattin on the phone a couple of times.
  And yesterday we went out on a date, eating dinner n watched a movie.
  During the movie...she leaded her head on my shoulder afew times....i didn't do anything of cos...just keep quiet n watch the show...
  so wat does that mean?? am i supposed to dp anything when she lead her head over?? i'm not those touchy touchy kind of guy. a bit blur....
  any comments??? TIA ppl

  You can gently hold her hand (AND that's all). IF she allows you to do so, you can always hold her hand again when both of you are getting out of the cinema.
• shinta

  2 Mar 05, 15:55

  Originally posted by parn:

  You can gently hold her hand (AND that's all). IF she allows you to do so, you can always hold her hand again when both of you are getting out of the cinema.

  and continue holding her hands while u guys walk.. continue holding her hands when u guys cross the road??
  
  can??
• gerrykoh

  2 Mar 05, 16:11

  Ask if she is feeling cold, give u an excuse to hold her hand.
  Just act natural & be a gentleman
• parn

  2 Mar 05, 16:16

  Originally posted by shinta:

  and continue holding her hands while u guys walk.. continue holding her hands when u guys cross the road??
  
  can??

  Give her hands a break please? Unless you have a weird fetish for girl's hands.
  
  Show her that you are in love with her and not with her hands please.......
• FeowFeow

  3 Mar 05, 12:08

  Ahhh, the flush of young love, somethg I've prettie much lost touch wif Actually, Not really lah, I still feel tt flush of young love wif my guy
  
  Anywayz, it differs from girl to girl. Some can lean on u cosh u're their closest buddy. Some dun, even tho u're their best pal, & only lean on a guy whom they like.
  
  So it's really difficult to tell...
  
  FeowFeow
  
  

  Originally posted by ~Numb~:

  i noe this gal for about a week or soon now...she's smart pretty and very friendly. she's unlike the gals i haf knew b4.
  So been smsing her pretty much, chattin on the phone a couple of times.
  And yesterday we went out on a date, eating dinner n watched a movie.
  During the movie...she leaded her head on my shoulder afew times....i didn't do anything of cos...just keep quiet n watch the show...
  so wat does that mean?? am i supposed to dp anything when she lead her head over?? i'm not those touchy touchy kind of guy. a bit blur....
  any comments??? TIA ppl

• Nelstar

  3 Mar 05, 13:07

  Twist her head away and see what happens.
  
  
• RSP

  3 Mar 05, 14:10

  Originally posted by ~Numb~:

  i noe this gal for about a week or soon now...she's smart pretty and very friendly. she's unlike the gals i haf knew b4.
  So been smsing her pretty much, chattin on the phone a couple of times.
  And yesterday we went out on a date, eating dinner n watched a movie.
  During the movie...she leaded her head on my shoulder afew times....i didn't do anything of cos...just keep quiet n watch the show...
  so wat does that mean?? am i supposed to dp anything when she lead her head over?? i'm not those touchy touchy kind of guy. a bit blur....
  any comments??? TIA ppl

  VERY friendly in what sense?
  
  Tacky situation you're in, I can feel your confusion. Is she the more open, less reserved kind of person? If she is , then leaning her head over onto your shoulders could be very normal to her. Then you're thinking too much. But if she is'nt, then ..... you know.
• icepole

  3 Mar 05, 15:10

  stroke her hair in return.. heh~
  
  well, think you got a pretty good chance. don't give up!
• pie

  3 Mar 05, 15:47

  Originally posted by icepole:

  stroke her hair in return.. heh~
  
  well, think you got a pretty good chance. don't give up!

  give it a tug or two while you're at it!
• icepole

  3 Mar 05, 18:43

  Originally posted by pie:

  give it a tug or two while you're at it!

  bet she'll simply love it and beg you for more..
• hopy

  3 Mar 05, 19:25

  i think she likes u
• SMAPLionHeart

  3 Mar 05, 22:24

  Now that she likes you , don't be a jerk..and make her pregnant if not we'll
  hunt you down..
  
• Gackt247

  3 Mar 05, 23:49

  Simple.. u tan dio.. u have some chance..