so what if:Originally posted by hopy:hmmm... depends on whether i found it out myself or he confess himself![]()
got.. if he confessed, it shows that he knows that wat he's doing is actually wrong... but if i find it out myself... tt's itOriginally posted by rumie:so what if:
he confessed?
you find out?
got diff meh?
i wld.. but then its harder to build it up again.. takes time n efforts fr both parties.. as the saying goes, no matter how nice u put back the pieces of a broken vase, the cracks will still be there.. so must really make the effort to n most couples wld choose the easy way out..Originally posted by tan_william:but will you trust him again??
what if he breaks up with you first, cos he knows he's wrong and dun wanna hurt you further by staying on.Originally posted by hopy:got.. if he confessed, it shows that he knows that wat he's doing is actually wrong... but if i find it out myself... tt's it
but then other factors into play would be like r u2 married, hv kids anot lah![]()
then u must 1st find out whether the real reason behind the breakup is really bcoz he dun wanna hurt u or he wants to be w/ the other gal...Originally posted by rumie:what if he breaks up with you first, cos he knows he's wrong and dun wanna hurt you further by staying on.
then tell you the truth?
will you still detest him?
assuming he really dun wanna hurt you... then? still detest?Originally posted by hopy:then u must 1st find out whether the real reason behind the breakup is really bcoz he dun wanna hurt u or he wants to be w/ the other gal...![]()
think i wld still give him 1 chance if he really shows sincerity in changing for the better ba..Originally posted by rumie:assuming he really dun wanna hurt you... then? still detest?
if im still online tt isOriginally posted by rumie:wah, the rate of replying for this post, like msn like that... quite instant leh~
Originally posted by rumie:... had cheated on you? As in, double-timing you?
Will you ever talk to him again?
Why yes?
And why not?
Agreed!Originally posted by FeowFeow:It depends on the situation. If I find out on my own & confront him, & he confesses & is truly sorree, I will forgive. The pain will be there for awhile, but if I can see he's truly making an effort, I'll still forgive.
But if it happens again, then No more chances.
FeowFeow
Originally posted by parn:Will forgive him...afterall forgive is divine right?
And I will continue to be loving to him to the point when I'm 110% sure that he is definitely in love with me, then I will dump him absolutely. But before that, have to make sure that he have to make alot of sacrifices for me to forgive him for his two-timing affair.
If a guy can betray you once, he can and will definitely betray you again.
Time to die.![]()
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