Am I too late....
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After 2 years i still think about her and sometimes get depressed because never had a chance to tell her my true feelings. We worked in the same company.She asked me once whether I had a girlfren but foolishly I said "Yes" because then I was not sure how I feel about her. After that, we became close frens till one day she left for further studies. She even asked for my opinion on her decision. I told her that her studies should come first. The hardest decision was letting her go. I did not tell her how i feel then because i did not want to disturb her studies.
Last week, my colleague told me that she is going to finnish her course soon. Got her e-mail address from her fren. Now i don't know what to do.......should I forget about her?...Am I too late?...I still have strong feelings for her.
After 2 years will a girl give guys like me a second chance...should I court her???????? -
There is someone perfect for you (^_^)b!!! Just don't give up hope!!!!
Isn't this familiar? that's your siggie! Go for it. Any idea whether she is attached? If u duno how to grab the chance, do u think love will automatically come and knock on your door? Yes but possibility is very low.
Be frens first..people do change over time..and talk about love later.
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Is she still single? If she is then I don't see why it's too late.Originally posted by Young Stallion:After 2 years i still think about her and sometimes get depressed because never had a chance to tell her my true feelings. We worked in the same company.She asked me once whether I had a girlfren but foolishly I said "Yes" because then I was not sure how I feel about her. After that, we became close frens till one day she left for further studies. She even asked for my opinion on her decision. I told her that her studies should come first. The hardest decision was letting her go. I did not tell her how i feel then because i did not want to disturb her studies.
Last week, my colleague told me that she is going to finnish her course soon. Got her e-mail address from her fren. Now i don't know what to do.......should I forget about her?...Am I too late?...I still have strong feelings for her.
After 2 years will a girl give guys like me a second chance...should I court her????????
Take it easy, go slow and don't rush into anything too quickly since you have'nt spoken to her for 2 yrs. I'm sure she'll still remember you and that if the connection and chemistry still exist, it won't take too long to click again. Friendship first then decide if there is space for development?
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I already sent her 01 mail....never mentioned how i feel about her. Just her how's she doing and what are her plans for the future.
She replied that she is surprised to hear from me after 02 years and that she will be starting work soon. She asked me whether I'm married and how am I doing at work?
I don't want to scare her off by telling my feelings straight away so I just asked her whether she has a boyfren and whether she has any wedding plans. I even gave her my hp no. if she wants to talk to me when she is free.
So far she has not reply my mail
.......If she's attached I willl be a gentleman and let her go. Hardest thing now is waiting. Few words make a world of difference. I hope she does not leave me hanging. -
My advice is: Ask her if she has a boyfriend or not and then if she says no,meet up one day and talk to her and then tell her your feelings
I think she likes you and went to further studies (could be a time to rethink) and now that she is back and now that a chance is in front of u,grab it.
You are lucky,2 years and she still remembers u and reply to ur e-mail..For me,its a diffrent story even I waited for her for 2 years,due to my stupid lack of confidence.[/i] -
just ask her out as a friend and then catch up on the friendship. By then, you should get a clearer picture.Originally posted by Young Stallion:I already sent her 01 mail....never mentioned how i feel about her. Just her how's she doing and what are her plans for the future.
She replied that she is surprised to hear from me after 02 years and that she will be starting work soon. She asked me whether I'm married and how am I doing at work?
I don't want to scare her off by telling my feelings straight away so I just asked her whether she has a boyfren and whether she has any wedding plans. I even gave her my hp no. if she wants to talk to me when she is free.
So far she has not reply my mail .......If she's attached I willl be a gentleman and let her go. Hardest thing now is waiting. Few words make a world of difference. I hope she does not leave me hanging. -
When a girl ask you whether you have bf , it could subconsciously mean that..Originally posted by Young Stallion:After 2 years i still think about her and sometimes get depressed because never had a chance to tell her my true feelings. We worked in the same company.She asked me once whether I had a girlfren but foolishly I said "Yes" because then I was not sure how I feel about her. After that, we became close frens till one day she left for further studies. She even asked for my opinion on her decision. I told her that her studies should come first. The hardest decision was letting her go. I did not tell her how i feel then because i did not want to disturb her studies.
Last week, my colleague told me that she is going to finnish her course soon. Got her e-mail address from her fren. Now i don't know what to do.......should I forget about her?...Am I too late?...I still have strong feelings for her.
After 2 years will a girl give guys like me a second chance...should I court her????????
she likes you and she wants to know if your attached..haiz your dumb! -
No need to be so harsh dude.Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:When a girl ask you whether you have bf , it could subconsciously mean that..
she likes you and she wants to know if your attached..haiz your dumb!
Not really. it could just be a casual question. Don't assume too much when feelings are concerned. -
Go for it.. u made a mistake once.. dun commit it again.. good luck..
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After 2 years many things can be changed.. or still stay the same.. Firstly, now don't think about goin into a relationship with her.. You need to build up your friendship again.. You both have lost contact for so long.. i bet there's a lot of things to catch up.. Try to understand and know more about her..Originally posted by Young Stallion:After 2 years i still think about her and sometimes get depressed because never had a chance to tell her my true feelings. We worked in the same company.She asked me once whether I had a girlfren but foolishly I said "Yes" because then I was not sure how I feel about her. After that, we became close frens till one day she left for further studies. She even asked for my opinion on her decision. I told her that her studies should come first. The hardest decision was letting her go. I did not tell her how i feel then because i did not want to disturb her studies.
Last week, my colleague told me that she is going to finnish her course soon. Got her e-mail address from her fren. Now i don't know what to do.......should I forget about her?...Am I too late?...I still have strong feelings for her.
After 2 years will a girl give guys like me a second chance...should I court her????????
Then slowly you can plan your route and chase her if she isn't attached..
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Originally posted by Young Stallion:I already sent her 01 mail....never mentioned how i feel about her. Just her how's she doing and what are her plans for the future.
She replied that she is surprised to hear from me after 02 years and that she will be starting work soon. She asked me whether I'm married and how am I doing at work?
I don't want to scare her off by telling my feelings straight away so I just asked her whether she has a boyfren and whether she has any wedding plans. I even gave her my hp no. if she wants to talk to me when she is free.
So far she has not reply my mail .......If she's attached I willl be a gentleman and let her go. Hardest thing now is waiting. Few words make a world of difference. I hope she does not leave me hanging. 
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Just recieved mail from her.....She did not answer my question on whether she is seeing someone. She even attached her picture of heself. After seeing her again after 2 years, all the memories began to resurface. I still have the same feelings for her 2 years ago.
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Did u ask clearly?If so,I think she shy or wat but den try to get to know her better,I think she still likes u
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It is never too late.
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she's leaving...i must treat her to a lunch bf she leaves
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After a few e-mails, she still haven't answer my question on whether she attached or not. I had no other option so i went straight to the point .
She reply that she will tell me about her BF depending on her mood.
The question is I still don't know whether she is available or not?I don't know what else to do. She is studying in Malaysia and i'm here in Singapore. I will be going for reservist soon after that if she give any hints i will meet up with her over there.
Gals/Guys what is she trying to say/do.......I know I let her down once but this is tearing me apart -
Be a little patient... Meaning if she wants to tell you, she would... The crucial point now is not whether she's attached or not... The crucial point now is whether she wants to tell you...Originally posted by Young Stallion:After a few e-mails, she still haven't answer my question on whether she attached or not. I had no other option so i went straight to the point .
She reply that she will tell me about her BF depending on her mood.
The question is I still don't know whether she is available or not?I don't know what else to do. She is studying in Malaysia and i'm here in Singapore. I will be going for reservist soon after that if she give any hints i will meet up with her over there.
Gals/Guys what is she trying to say/do.......I know I let her down once but this is tearing me apart
Meanwhile, just keep an open mind about things okay..? It's not like she owe you anything or she cannot be attached? If you feel that you can't wait, then don't.... -
Ur brain working on slew?Originally posted by Young Stallion:After 2 years i still think about her and sometimes get depressed because never had a chance to tell her my true feelings. We worked in the same company.She asked me once whether I had a girlfren but foolishly I said "Yes" because then I was not sure how I feel about her. After that, we became close frens till one day she left for further studies. She even asked for my opinion on her decision. I told her that her studies should come first. The hardest decision was letting her go. I did not tell her how i feel then because i did not want to disturb her studies.
Last week, my colleague told me that she is going to finnish her course soon. Got her e-mail address from her fren. Now i don't know what to do.......should I forget about her?...Am I too late?...I still have strong feelings for her.
After 2 years will a girl give guys like me a second chance...should I court her????????
Go for her laaaa -
Before going for reservist i decided to call her to apologise and tell her to forget about the whole thing.
I was suprised when we talked on the phone, i thought she would be angry and just keep silent instead she was giggling and laughing. I asked her whether she was angry because i was disturbing her, instead she said that she was happy. At this moment my mind went blank, so i asked her why she was happy?
She said she's happy because after such a long time I still remember her. I felt so relieved after hearing this. I apologised for disturbing her and said that i wasn't myself when sending those e-mail. I said that it was work related stress......then she started to tease me on my boss or job promotion.
I wished her all the best on her studies and bid goodbye. When she said goodbye i could sense a tint of sadness in her voice.
During the conversation i did not asked her whether she is attached or how i felt about her. I don't want to rush into it.
I know she is the girl for me...after so long my feelings for her is still the same. I'll wait for her to finnish her studies and see where fate leads us. -
ya, if you continue to WAIT... maybe she'll send you a wedding invitation.
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Yoz...
JUZ GO FOR HER...DUN WAIT LIAO...GO GO GO...
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GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Seriously, what do you have to lose...? Sighhhhhhhh...if you don't want to make the move, then you can go on with your life wondering 'what if'.
If she rejects you, it just means that now you can stop wasting your time on her & start focusing on other gals.Seriously, don't waste your time coz the longer you procrastinate to tell her your feelings, the higher are the chances tt she might just fall for someone else.
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Don't push things too hard... Then again, can always keep an open mind about things....Originally posted by Young Stallion:Before going for reservist i decided to call her to apologise and tell her to forget about the whole thing.
I was suprised when we talked on the phone, i thought she would be angry and just keep silent instead she was giggling and laughing. I asked her whether she was angry because i was disturbing her, instead she said that she was happy. At this moment my mind went blank, so i asked her why she was happy?
She said she's happy because after such a long time I still remember her. I felt so relieved after hearing this. I apologised for disturbing her and said that i wasn't myself when sending those e-mail. I said that it was work related stress......then she started to tease me on my boss or job promotion.
I wished her all the best on her studies and bid goodbye. When she said goodbye i could sense a tint of sadness in her voice.
During the conversation i did not asked her whether she is attached or how i felt about her. I don't want to rush into it.
I know she is the girl for me...after so long my feelings for her is still the same. I'll wait for her to finnish her studies and see where fate leads us.
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Your eagerness to know if she have had a bf already quite clearly shown to her you're interested.Originally posted by Young Stallion:Before going for reservist i decided to call her to apologise and tell her to forget about the whole thing.
I was suprised when we talked on the phone, i thought she would be angry and just keep silent instead she was giggling and laughing. I asked her whether she was angry because i was disturbing her, instead she said that she was happy. At this moment my mind went blank, so i asked her why she was happy?
She said she's happy because after such a long time I still remember her. I felt so relieved after hearing this. I apologised for disturbing her and said that i wasn't myself when sending those e-mail. I said that it was work related stress......then she started to tease me on my boss or job promotion.
I wished her all the best on her studies and bid goodbye. When she said goodbye i could sense a tint of sadness in her voice.
During the conversation i did not asked her whether she is attached or how i felt about her. I don't want to rush into it.
I know she is the girl for me...after so long my feelings for her is still the same. I'll wait for her to finnish her studies and see where fate leads us.
Who would suddenly send a email and asking her about her personal life on every of the the subsequent mails?
It would be too Obvious for the reader to imagine what you're driving at.
The phone call came at the right time. It ended on a positive note.
ADvice:
Like Dev have posted, do not rush into things.
Most importantly is to pre plan every single details and create as much surprise as possible.
I would reserve the remaining advice for the next round.
Meanwhile, enjoy your reservice!
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eh pls r u a guy? be a man!
i hope its short and direct enough for u to understand. Gd luck!