New and free.
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Hello,
I'm new. I have been reading this forum for weeks now and now I feel a strong urge to post. Reason for reading previously is because some of the things that happened to you are similar to what happened to me. I read in order to gather some strength and solution. Had been in a hurtful place.
But today, I am happy to say I am free. I break from someone and I break free. And it's easy.
Just want to send a message to everyone who are currently hurt or who had been hurt. You can get out of the hurt because you want to. That's what happen today. I told him I want out because I want to. That's it. I want to. After that, I feel totally free, and I urge everyone to get out of hurt simply because you want to. -
dont quite agree with you. other people will stay on because they want to...Originally posted by qwertsthing:Just want to send a message to everyone who are currently hurt or who had been hurt. You can get out of the hurt because you want to. That's what happen today. I told him I want out because I want to. That's it. I want to. After that, I feel totally free, and I urge everyone to get out of hurt simply because you want to.
i think, get out because you have to.
leave the hurt behind.
because you are worth it. (therefore you have to)
there are greater things waiting for you out there. -
True enough.
I want to stay on too. But I want to be free more. Perhaps the bigger want becomes a need. And I got what I need now. -
congrats on ur newfound `old ` freedom
hopes u`ll be satisfied w ur decision -
well done, jia you...
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gong xi ni~
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Zhe Mo Leng Shuo Fang Jiu Fang Neh? Nv hear b-4 Shen Jia Hu Shen Bu You Ji?
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Congratulations.Originally posted by qwertsthing:Hello,
I'm new. I have been reading this forum for weeks now and now I feel a strong urge to post. Reason for reading previously is because some of the things that happened to you are similar to what happened to me. I read in order to gather some strength and solution. Had been in a hurtful place.
But today, I am happy to say I am free. I break from someone and I break free. And it's easy.
Just want to send a message to everyone who are currently hurt or who had been hurt. You can get out of the hurt because you want to. That's what happen today. I told him I want out because I want to. That's it. I want to. After that, I feel totally free, and I urge everyone to get out of hurt simply because you want to. -
Congrats!!
To let go is better to carry on the unhappiness that you won't see it gng anywhere. -
the way u speak is very fake...jus like when u kana dump by others u will say its his loss when actually its yours.
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Sometimes, in life we need to see things like that or we will be very miserable. Isn't seeing things as the other person's lost better than yours? If there is no more reconcilation.Originally posted by $e@wEeD:the way u speak is very fake...jus like when u kana dump by others u will say its his loss when actually its yours.
It just makes your life feel a little better and let you carry-on.
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It is good to be optimistic. Now is time to reorganize your life, time table and share time with those whom you have neglected during your past relationship.
All the best and there are always people here to listen to you! -
Good for you.
Life is too short to dwell in a hurtful relationship.
Move on. cool!
Still, there is alot of questions in your thread. hmmm Good Luck anyways -
Thank you everyone for all the encouraging posts. Now, what a feeling it is. It's like the feeling of being able to breathe fresh air again. Understandingly, some on this thread may differ. Well, I am the one who is ignoring all the calls and smses from him today. He sms and demands a meet up. I just want to shop for gifts for my cousin. So, go figure if that is a genuine choice to want to be free again. Anyway, it was an abusive relationship with bruises to prove. So getting back is as good as signing up to be a punching bag again.
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What a guy to beat you up! Leave him now and forever! Talk to your father about the beating and can even call the police for protection order, if he keep pestering you.