I am smiling as I type this. Please read.
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Firstly, thank you everyone for all the encouragng posts. I am moving on well. There is an article that really hits the spot on how I feel now. It's found here,
http://www.friendathon.com/free.htm
For point 2, I think it's not only on the context of friendship but also on relationship. I've broken up and I've broken free. He is just one guy. I have thousands of other guys to look forward to.
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Good for you.Originally posted by qwertsthing:Firstly, thank you everyone for all the encouragng posts. I am moving on well. There is an article that really hits the spot on how I feel now. It's found here,
http://www.friendathon.com/free.htm
For point 2, I think it's not only on the context of friendship but also on relationship. I've broken up and I've broken free. He is just one guy. I have thousands of other guys to look forward to. 
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Another person who is feeling free right now! Yay!
Hope you will continue to feel this way...it is a feeling to be cherished. Doesn't come easily...
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yar... Trees are everywhere... even Singaapore got nature reserve...Originally posted by qwertsthing:Firstly, thank you everyone for all the encouragng posts. I am moving on well. There is an article that really hits the spot on how I feel now. It's found here,
http://www.friendathon.com/free.htm
For point 2, I think it's not only on the context of friendship but also on relationship. I've broken up and I've broken free. He is just one guy. I have thousands of other guys to look forward to.
Sure got good and suitable guys for you.
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Correct, there are good guys everywhere. I believe in that. It does take a previous experience to open my eyes bigger. Now, I cheerfully look for that good guy who is out there.
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Hi Qwerty,
It's true... It's when u've gone thru the bad thgs tt u learn to cherish the gd thgs tt come along : ) And tt's wat's happened to me...
Hang in there, u'll be fine : )
FeowFeowOriginally posted by qwertsthing:Correct, there are good guys everywhere. I believe in that. It does take a previous experience to open my eyes bigger. Now, I cheerfully look for that good guy who is out there. -
Thanks Feow,
In fact, I am fine and enjoyng. Think many people say that moving on is hard. It may be true but try staying on in something that doesn't work, wouldn't that be harder? -
Yoz...
Fate will come soon...
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Hi everybody,
Just a little minor update. Somehow things are getting very blissful after the 'escape'. Really happy doing what I love to do now. What's funny is that he sms me asking for a return of all the gifts that he has given me before. Anybody find that hilarious? -
I think that's being very xiao qi of him...Originally posted by qwertsthing:Hi everybody,
Just a little minor update. Somehow things are getting very blissful after the 'escape'. Really happy doing what I love to do now. What's funny is that he sms me asking for a return of all the gifts that he has given me before. Anybody find that hilarious?
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Originally posted by qwertsthing:
Hi everybody,
Just a little minor update. Somehow things are getting very blissful after the 'escape'. Really happy doing what I love to do now. What's funny is that he sms me asking for a return of all the gifts that he has given me before. Anybody find that hilarious?
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If you can, why not just return them back to him? But make it a short and quick meet up? So that things would be cleared off from there on... Alternatively, you can just choose to ignore him as their gifts and already of your possessions...Originally posted by qwertsthing:Hi everybody,
Just a little minor update. Somehow things are getting very blissful after the 'escape'. Really happy doing what I love to do now. What's funny is that he sms me asking for a return of all the gifts that he has given me before. Anybody find that hilarious? -
Hi Devil1976,
Agreed. Both methods work well. First one would give him the excuse to see me and open up an oppurtunity for a getback. I am quite curious though, to some people, are gifts a means to 'bribe' the relationship? Meaning to say that as long as I have something to give you, you'll have the incentive to stay with me. But once we are no longer together, everything should be given back. I don't like saying this but it seems like gifts to some people are not actually given away but pretended to be given away. -
Yes. There is a possibility that he might see it as a chance to meet you up during the collection, and possibly even to try and patch back with you.. So if you're an uninterested party, you'll have to be caution of that...Originally posted by qwertsthing:Hi Devil1976,
Agreed. Both methods work well. First one would give him the excuse to see me and open up an oppurtunity for a getback. I am quite curious though, to some people, are gifts a means to 'bribe' the relationship? Meaning to say that as long as I have something to give you, you'll have the incentive to stay with me. But once we are no longer together, everything should be given back. I don't like saying this but it seems like gifts to some people are not actually given away but pretended to be given away.
'Giving gifts' hold different meanings to different people... Some want it back because they can't stand the idea that 'they still have some things with you...'... While others of various different reasons... Personally, I think it's really no point guessing their intention especially when you've already want nothing to do with them.... -
I wish to alert some ladies of particular soft spots that we have. In my case, my ex worked on my soft spots of fear, guilt and sympathy. It hasn't been a month since our breakup and he has been trying to work on all three areas to get back again. I used to submit to his work but not anymore today. The soft spot of fear is when he threatens you with abuse. The soft spot of guilt is when he reminds you on how nice he treats you and what he has given you. The soft spot of sympathy is when he begs and cries, saying that he'll take his life. Just be aware of these few soft spots and guard them with care. -
hmmm the website rocks..but den..ani more betta 1? im shy to makin new frens and sayin hi...
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Oh really? I'm shy too. Haha.. I mean, I'm more shy now. When I was younger, my skin was much thicker. Guess it's because I'm older now and know what's shame. LOLOriginally posted by -mist-:hmmm the website rocks..but den..ani more betta 1? im shy to makin new frens and sayin hi... -
*psst* wats ur number?
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Yes, this is very true. Ladies usually have soft spots, and thus, they allow themselves to be exploited at times. Guys who work upon the soft spots are actually despicable. Oh, and I hate the "If you leave me, I'm gonna kill myself" attempt.Originally posted by qwertsthing:I wish to alert some ladies of particular soft spots that we have. In my case, my ex worked on my soft spots of fear, guilt and sympathy. It hasn't been a month since our breakup and he has been trying to work on all three areas to get back again. I used to submit to his work but not anymore today. The soft spot of fear is when he threatens you with abuse. The soft spot of guilt is when he reminds you on how nice he treats you and what he has given you. The soft spot of sympathy is when he begs and cries, saying that he'll take his life. Just be aware of these few soft spots and guard them with care.
If the guy has balls, he'd just throw himself off a skyscraper, and not come up with such threats of death. Haha..
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Originally posted by fabiaN__:
weird weird weird..thought shld be the other way round?
Oh really? I'm shy too. Haha.. I mean, I'm more shy now. When I was younger, my skin was [b]much thicker. Guess it's because I'm older now and know what's shame. LOL[/b]