Help!! My best friend is confused about her sexuality!?
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HELP!!!
I'm bisexual, and my best friend who 'is/was/isnt really very sure any more' straight, has just told me that she has had her first lesbian experience.
Anyway, it appears to her that i'm going to be very helpful in this matter, and i really dont know what to tell her, i think she expects me to diagnose her! I think she wants me to either reassure her that shes not a lesbian or tell her she is?! Argh! I cant do that! I really cant think of anything helpful to say!
All i've managed to say so far is that its not what she did with this girl, its how she feels about it, and that one experience doesnt make her lesbian. However im not sure it was particularly reassuring.
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How old is your best fren? If she is still young, than its pre mature to "diagnose" her yet....
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What is the difference?Originally posted by claire_p:HELP!!!
I'm bisexual, and my best friend who 'is/was/isnt really very sure any more' straight, has just told me that she has had her first lesbian experience.
Anyway, it appears to her that i'm going to be very helpful in this matter, and i really dont know what to tell her, i think she expects me to diagnose her! I think she wants me to either reassure her that shes not a lesbian or tell her she is?! Argh! I cant do that! I really cant think of anything helpful to say!
All i've managed to say so far is that its not what she did with this girl, its how she feels about it, and that one experience doesnt make her lesbian. However im not sure it was particularly reassuring.
Help!
Whether you are straight, bisexual, gay, lesbian etc...
Honestly, it makes not much of a difference...
Some can accept while others can't...
You only live once on this earth, just do whatever you want or feel like it but just don't regret it later on in life!
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Please tell her that she is straight or her sexual orientation is man! That is the best thing you can do for her as a friend. The lesbian experience is just out of curiousity and fun.
Do not stumble someone to doubt about her sexuality. -
this sexual issue will grow... weather towads where it takes experiance & time to be sure. Not to be told by someone or it was be determine ...
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Are you all saying that ...your best friend who is a girl had a lesbian experience?
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Actually hor, sometimes I find lesbians/gays v. poor thg oso... They can't help who they love
Can u imagine a different world in which girls loving girls & guys loving guys is the rite thg to do, & u fell in love wif a guy??? Then u haf the whole world judging u on how morally wrong u r...
Dunno lorr, I juz feel sorree for them sometimes, & they can be really nice pple.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by Waterapple:Please tell her that she is straight or her sexual orientation is man! That is the best thing you can do for her as a friend. The lesbian experience is just out of curiousity and fun.
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I have some friends who are gays and they are really good people. I don't reject them during the first time we met when they are already gay, in fact we are good friends at this while. However, to those who are confuse about their sexuality and come to talk to me about it; i would certainly advise them to remain as per their biological sexuality and not to have any ideas to change to the other gender.Originally posted by FeowFeow:Actually hor, sometimes I find lesbians/gays v. poor thg oso... They can't help who they love Can u imagine a different world in which girls loving girls & guys loving guys is the rite thg to do, & u fell in love wif a guy??? Then u haf the whole world judging u on how morally wrong u r...
Dunno lorr, I juz feel sorree for them sometimes, & they can be really nice pple.
FeowFeow
That is really to help them as a friend.