having mixed feelings
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my ex-bf is married now, having mixed feelings...
though i was the one who gave him up.. feeling now is un-explained -
There is nothing to explain.. since everything is already in the past.Originally posted by bEaNspRoUt:my ex-bf is married now, having mixed feelings...
though i was the one who gave him up.. feeling now is un-explained
Wish him the best and Just move on.
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Don't worry, I've been through that too. Gave up my ex-gf 2 years back and just got to know recently she got married not long after I left her. It felt a little shitty since we were together for 4 years.Originally posted by bEaNspRoUt:my ex-bf is married now, having mixed feelings...
though i was the one who gave him up.. feeling now is un-explained
Don't worry, you'll be feeling fine after a week or two.
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My ex juz got engaged last Sat... *sigh*
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Your ex and you have already became an item in the past. What you should do now is not to dwell over the past (or even as to who gave up the other).
He has found his happiness. Likewise you're able too. Allow the inexplicable mixed feeling to fade away. Begin a new chapter of your own. Fill the white sheet with colors and visuals you desire. -
Y regret?Originally posted by bEaNspRoUt:my ex-bf is married now, having mixed feelings...
though i was the one who gave him up.. feeling now is un-explained
u remind me of a warrior who kept mentioning about past victories... tts not gona help him now... of in da future...
Move on. Life is too short to live in regret. What can you do since he's married? There are better future for you. in fact, if you stayed together with him, he may not be a good one for you.
Y did u give him up? not suitable? if tts the case... den i tink you really lucky to have given him up. coz he is more suitable for his wife now i guess.
There will be a suitable one for you. no worries.
coz its not wat u want in a guy, its who's more suitable for you.
cheerios -
Reminds you of a past in your life...? Probably also reminds you that part is now behind you and drifting away of its own... So the question should be... "What's next?"Originally posted by bEaNspRoUt:my ex-bf is married now, having mixed feelings...
though i was the one who gave him up.. feeling now is un-explained -
(WHO'S NEXT TO THINK OF PAST ROMANCES?!Originally posted by Devil1976:Reminds you of a past in your life...? Probably also reminds you that part is now behind you and drifting away of its own... So the question should be... "What's next?" 
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You?Originally posted by cooleo:(WHO'S NEXT TO THINK OF PAST ROMANCES?! )
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Feelings of the past may rekindle...Originally posted by bEaNspRoUt:my ex-bf is married now, having mixed feelings...
though i was the one who gave him up.. feeling now is un-explained
But it is only for the moment...
Sooner or later, same old problems or troubles will come back again...
Take it easy and move on with your life...
What is in the past, leave it in the past...
If you keep looking back, you will never move on...
It may seem worth it but in a long run, it wouldn't... -
Dear BeanSprout (yummy!),
It may be a case of, "I dumped him, yet he's doing better than before I dumped him". A sense of inadequacy may be present, or perhaps a sense of wistfulness, like "I dumped him, yet he's married but I'm Not" or "He has children but I haven't yet", etc.
There's a tendency to compare in some pple, this is Not abnormal. Know tt there're pple out there who think like u do, & haf the same doubts.
It takes awhile, but the best thg to do is to accept it & move on. Afterall, if the r'ship din last, both of u wld've been better off wif other pple. If he's meant to be urs, later in time, he might be.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by bEaNspRoUt:my ex-bf is married now, having mixed feelings...
though i was the one who gave him up.. feeling now is un-explained -
na de qi, fang de xia...
cheerios! -
yup n forget ur ex fully b4 u engage in ur next r/s.Originally posted by icepole:Your ex and you have already became an item in the past. What you should do now is not to dwell over the past (or even as to who gave up the other).
He has found his happiness. Likewise you're able too. Allow the inexplicable mixed feeling to fade away. Begin a new chapter of your own. Fill the white sheet with colors and visuals you desire.