What shd u do if u are being bullied in sch?
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It started off as a real nasty mirc chat, we exchanged vulgars and scolded each other. then her best/close friends helped her in the chatroom. they whole channel was in chaos at that time. But since then, i dun use mirc already.
Then a close frd of her came to approached me in school, a poly btw. All he did was threatened me and kept pointing at me. Then on the following day, a group of students taking the same course came down and bomb vulgars at me. that was aso the day i knew that it was her frds thru frdster.
Initially i dunno the grp whom cam after me, i really dun recognise them. But since they were in the same course, i managed to find out slowly.
time passed.. and the group were still occasionally bullying me whenever they see me.
what shd i deal wif them?
and the gal in my class? she avoids me whenever possible, i dunno if she feels guilty for commiting a stupid mistake or wat.
pls note that it was me who disturb her in mirc whenever she chats, but apology has been made, she still decides to call for backup.
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Threaten legal action and approach the sch/poly management. Strongly threaten to take action against them if they do not stop hurling abuse.
Threaten to take them to court, submit police report for their actions.
But then again.
My advice: Ignore la, not physical abuse wat... -
dun spam leh
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kids ma.Originally posted by kopiosatu:dun spam leh
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tamade... must tell 2 forums about one incidentOriginally posted by Nelstar:kids ma. -
hmm..... being bullied in poly?
Just keep apologisin to her......
or just hang out with your own friends and ignore them....
Seriously ah, dunno what all you said to each other but i think this sorta childish stuff shoulda stopped long time ago.... like in sec sch...... -
sorry, i dun meant to spam..
i just wanna talked my heart out and feel better faster... -
Go up to her and apologise to her one more time. Both on IRC and in real life.
And tell her that if she and her friends were to continue harassing you, you would go down to both the poly administrators and the police. Even if there is no physical abuse involved, they have no right to subject you to such mental strain.
Make sure you really go down to the poly admin/cops if they continue harassing you.... Send out the message that no one can kick your butt without having a really big one up theirs in return. Otherwise, you would be sending out the signal that your resolve is too weak and any further threats of bringing the long arm of the law down on them would not mean anything.
Once all this has blown over and passed, be smarter. Don't insult anyone anywhere, especially on the Internet. No point getting harassed over some words on cyberspace.
Sheesh.... even poly students are still engaging in all this childish behaviour of bullying and picking on others. Like that are they ever going to grow up?
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WTF?I guess those poly students must be in year 1.You know,some sec 4 kids are still very immature and loved to act like a 3 yr old kid.When they go to poly,they bring along that kind of 'childish spirit' into the poly.
You are childish too.You know it man. -
Confront them...
Who really cares if you die in the process? I guess you probably started the whole IRC bullsh!t with them in the first place... -
another n00b ya?Originally posted by kopiosatu:dun spam leh