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There is this girl i am attracted to for 2 years but during this period, i was still young and stupid... wasn't ready to get into a r'ship.
As this year passed, the feelings became greater and the desire to know her went deeper... But the fear of rejection is holding me back...
Her b'day is coming soon and i intend to get to know her on this day... Qn. is will she freak out if a guy(quite a high profile in school i guess) sends her a stalk of rose with a gift (either a crystal or some 'synthetic' diamonds... forgot the name for it) just to get to know her...
You are probably wondering why a stalk... from http://www.prince.com.sg/Info_MeaningOfFlower.asp it generally means love at first sight or "I still love you" i won't exactly say at first sight... probably 365x2 +- 100 sights...
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OMG!!!! Girls only know the meaning of 3 roses
Wana give juz give..shocked? Unless she dun have gd impression of u..if not i think that will be a surprise.
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i see... so its a... "Damn the world and just go on!" ?Originally posted by browniebaobao:OMG!!!! Girls only know the meaning of 3 roses
Wana give juz give..shocked? Unless she dun have gd impression of u..if not i think that will be a surprise.
i'm just afraid she is going to freak out and then begin avoiding me... so anyway... i'll just give it a try...
I would rather have tried and failed then to never try at all... or something close to that
PS: what you mean good impression? -
Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:i see... so its a... "Damn the world and just go on!" ?
i'm just afraid she is going to freak out and then begin avoiding me... so anyway... i'll just give it a try...
I would rather have tried and failed then to never try at all... or something close to that
PS: what you mean good impression?
U said u are high profile mah...either high profile in gd wat or bad way lor.. -
As of what i know.. don't have to spend so much money to buy such expensive gifts.. is good that you can make something out by yourself.. that would be even better.. Is not how expensive the gift that makes you look cool great and unforogettable.. is the thought tat counts..Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:There is this girl i am attracted to for 2 years but during this period, i was still young and stupid... wasn't ready to get into a r'ship.
As this year passed, the feelings became greater and the desire to know her went deeper... But the fear of rejection is holding me back...
Her b'day is coming soon and i intend to get to know her on this day... Qn. is will she freak out if a guy(quite a high profile in school i guess) sends her a stalk of rose with a gift (either a crystal or some 'synthetic' diamonds... forgot the name for it) just to get to know her...
You are probably wondering why a stalk... from http://www.prince.com.sg/Info_MeaningOfFlower.asp it generally means love at first sight or "I still love you" i won't exactly say at first sight... probably 365x2 +- 100 sights...
edit: might get 7 roses for her also... dilemma!
All you need is to let the girl leave a good impression of you.. IMPORTANTLY.. be yourself at all times!! Try not to do stupid things to get her attentions.. she might get turn off by your doings.. though you feel is alright..
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Now that's pretty subjective... i'm a performer in school... is that good or bad? hahaOriginally posted by browniebaobao:
U said u are high profile mah...either high profile in gd wat or bad way lor..
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I see... thx for advice... i'll go consider my options during the hols...Originally posted by SunRisE:As of what i know.. don't have to spend so much money to buy such expensive gifts.. is good that you can make something out by yourself.. that would be even better.. Is not how expensive the gift that makes you look cool great and unforogettable.. is the thought tat counts..
All you need is to let the girl leave a good impression of you.. IMPORTANTLY.. be yourself at all times!! Try not to do stupid things to get her attentions.. she might get turn off by your doings.. though you feel is alright..
CHeers..
Running low on time... going bonkers about this... -
You know what...? You could be right about freaking her out...? As the ancient had said... "Do not fight a battle without a knowledge of your chance in winning it...." Why not try and find out more about how she feels about you or at least her impression of you...? What you're doing now might just let you leap into things or simply cast you into the shadows... Don't say I didn't warn you... Don't come crying only after that...?Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:i see... so its a... "Damn the world and just go on!" ?
i'm just afraid she is going to freak out and then begin avoiding me... so anyway... i'll just give it a try...
I would rather have tried and failed then to never try at all... or something close to that
PS: what you mean good impression?
No point rushing into things just for the sake of rushing into things... And 'shortcut' is often not recommended in courtship unless you're pretty sure that she'll accept you or you have quite a level of confidence in yourself...? -
if 3 roses = I love u
wat 12 roses mean??
99 roses = love u forever??
damn... just post me the meaning of the roses from number 1 to number . Thank you thank you!!Originally posted by browniebaobao:OMG!!!! Girls only know the meaning of 3 roses
Wana give juz give..shocked? Unless she dun have gd impression of u..if not i think that will be a surprise. -
She is definitely 100% going to freak out...unless she likes you too.Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:There is this girl i am attracted to for 2 years but during this period, i was still young and stupid... wasn't ready to get into a r'ship.
As this year passed, the feelings became greater and the desire to know her went deeper... But the fear of rejection is holding me back...
Her b'day is coming soon and i intend to get to know her on this day... Qn. is will she freak out if a guy(quite a high profile in school i guess) sends her a stalk of rose with a gift (either a crystal or some 'synthetic' diamonds... forgot the name for it) just to get to know her...
You are probably wondering why a stalk... from http://www.prince.com.sg/Info_MeaningOfFlower.asp it generally means love at first sight or "I still love you" i won't exactly say at first sight... probably 365x2 +- 100 sights...
edit: might get 7 roses for her also... dilemma!
Don't waste your money to buy her gifts, she's probably going to dump it in the dustbin unless she can stare at your gifts without thinking of you.
Instead, I would suggest a card together with...probably a hand-drawn picture of some characters that she likes...be it pooh bear, garfield, snoopy or whatever. At least it will really make her think thrice before dumping your hand-drawn picture in the bin?
In short, don't waste your money or your parent's money on a girl who isn't your girlfriend yet. Think about it, your parent's probably slogged days and nights every month to earn those blood money, you really going to spend it on a stranger? Use your own blood money please......
If she likes you, she will like whatever subjectively moral stuffs that you are going to give her.
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if she really likes you.. there's no need for you to think or do anything.. she still will like you.. unless you did something terrible.. ahhahaOriginally posted by WoShiNoobie:I see... thx for advice... i'll go consider my options during the hols...
Running low on time... going bonkers about this...
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Point noted... shall try and get to know her on her b'day...Originally posted by Devil1976:You know what...? You could be right about freaking her out...? As the ancient had said... "Do not fight a battle without a knowledge of your chance in winning it...." Why not try and find out more about how she feels about you or at least her impression of you...? What you're doing now might just let you leap into things or simply cast you into the shadows... Don't say I didn't warn you... Don't come crying only after that...?
No point rushing into things just for the sake of rushing into things... And 'shortcut' is often not recommended in courtship unless you're pretty sure that she'll accept you or you have quite a level of confidence in yourself...? -
After what you said... it makes me reconsider everything... i'll consider your suggestion but... my drawing looks like a 3-year old scribble.Originally posted by parn:She is definitely 100% going to freak out...unless she likes you too.
Don't waste your money to buy her gifts, she's probably going to dump it in the dustbin unless she can stare at your gifts without thinking of you.
Instead, I would suggest a card together with...probably a hand-drawn picture of some characters that she likes...be it pooh bear, garfield, snoopy or whatever. At least it will really make her think thrice before dumping your hand-drawn picture in the bin?
In short, don't waste your money or your parent's money on a girl who isn't your girlfriend yet. Think about it, your parent's probably slogged days and nights every month to earn those blood money, you really going to spend it on a stranger? Use your own blood money please......
If she likes you, she will like whatever subjectively moral stuffs that you are going to give her.
Good luck.
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Go watch the movie HITCH together
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http://www.prince.com.sg/Info_MeaningOfFlower.aspOriginally posted by Boo777:if 3 roses = I love u
wat 12 roses mean??
99 roses = love u forever??
damn... just post me the meaning of the roses from number 1 to number . Thank you thank you!!
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That would be a little... too suggestive for a start... was intending to actually... but then... scrapped it...Originally posted by deathscythe99:Go watch the movie HITCH together -
Yeap.
What the others said are true.
Unless she's been harbouring a crush on you for a long time...
The first thing she does when she gets the flowers will be like "what the..??"
And depending on how shell-shocked she is, may either reject the flowers, take them with a little blush, blush furiously and run away, or her bf will take the flowers and crush them infront of you before bashing you up ^^
Talk to her as a friend first, and know more about her before saying anything like " I love you lot lot. " I believe that should be reserved for when you're in a relationship, for some time at least.
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I see what you mean... but i'm still going for it... maybe a little slower pace... i'm not going to give myself anymore false hopes in life... i've had enough. 2 years of waiting is just not normal... i sought my fren's advice and they told me im a freaking moron to wait this long...Originally posted by _Aaron_:Yeap.
What the others said are true.
Unless she's been harbouring a crush on you for a long time...
The first thing she does when she gets the flowers will be like "what the..??"
And depending on how shell-shocked she is, may either reject the flowers, take them with a little blush, blush furiously and run away, or her bf will take the flowers and crush them infront of you before bashing you up ^^
Talk to her as a friend first, and know more about her before saying anything like " I love you lot lot. " I believe that should be reserved for when you're in a relationship, for some time at least.
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Glad that you have finally come to your senses, overcoming the fear of rejection and uncertainty is the hardest part. At least now you are doing something about it. Stop wondering and just go for it. Take it slow and hope for the best.
Actually, I'm in the same dilema as you except that the girl is not in Singapore which makes things a lot harder. I just can't call her up and meet her.
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I actually popped the qn. already... but i kinda got 'rejected' because she says she isn't ready...
besides... i have my Os to worry for this year... or so she says...
EDIT: this topic was stale... haha thx for the encouragement Young Stallion... good luck to you too -
i don't think roses is appropriate if she doesn't really know you on a personal level yet... better option would be to just give her s card and a not very expensive simple gift. a soft toy might be ok. but definitely not flowers, IMO. good luck!
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Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:There is this girl i am attracted to for 2 years but during this period, i was still young and stupid... wasn't ready to get into a r'ship.
As this year passed, the feelings became greater and the desire to know her went deeper... But the fear of rejection is holding me back...
Her b'day is coming soon and i intend to get to know her on this day... Qn. is will she freak out if a guy(quite a high profile in school i guess) sends her a stalk of rose with a gift (either a crystal or some 'synthetic' diamonds... forgot the name for it) just to get to know her...
You are probably wondering why a stalk... from http://www.prince.com.sg/Info_MeaningOfFlower.asp it generally means love at first sight or "I still love you" i won't exactly say at first sight... probably 365x2 +- 100 sights...
edit: might get 7 roses for her also... dilemma!
Devil is right; never do something simply for the sake of doing something. You will probably fail without realising why.
In my opinion, all 'romance instruments' have a cause and a general pre-requisite before it could be useful in whatsoever aim it's used for. Employing roses in such a case would be overly dramatic and significiant for she will definitely NOT share the same intense feelings as you would to her and 'freak' out.
You will slip in a dis-advantage mode.
You should reconsider your method.
Cheers