Mom Control - ARGH!!!!
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I'm quite quite sick of my mum cos she always forces me to do things I don't like.
Like, she controls my computer access (Win XP) with a password so that only my brother and herself knows the password which means they can access my account and internet.. Which is not fair at all because my brother is younger than me and then again he is sooo bossy and such a goody-two-shoes.
And then this year (because it's after my O's) she let me have my way about going to HK in April, yet it's only a pathetic 3 days! She said it's the FIRST and LAST time she'd bring me there. My main reason for going there is to fill up my idol collection.. Yet I think she'd nag all the way there so I can't get a peaceful trip?! And it's not like she has to sponsor my expenses on the idol stuff?? Since my brother is going there too.. She can treat it as a holiday.. But there is already a 'hidden boundary' to the places I can visit within HK!
From now til the HK trip (provided I find a good tour package and I don't know where, Kowloon or HK Island, and which hotel to stay in and also the budget my mum is willing to part with) I HAVE to find a part-time job and she's badgering me to search the internet and the classified for jobs!!!!!!!
OMG I THINK I'M GOING TO DIE I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER!!!! -
Be grateful that u got a chance to go HK. I nv went overseas with my family before. Wat's the big deal abt looking for part time job>? Dun expect ur mum to feed u till u die ok? It's time to learn to be independent. At least u are not one of the victims being abused by parents. Talk so much, go reflect ba.
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How old are you now? Do you have to be working for now? If you have to, then you would have to? I would rather see the job search as a separate issue from the trip....Originally posted by lesliehow:I'm quite quite sick of my mum cos she always forces me to do things I don't like.
Like, she controls my computer access (Win XP) with a password so that only my brother and herself knows the password which means they can access my account and internet.. Which is not fair at all because my brother is younger than me and then again he is sooo bossy and such a goody-two-shoes.
And then this year (because it's after my O's) she let me have my way about going to HK in April, yet it's only a pathetic 3 days! She said it's the FIRST and LAST time she'd bring me there. My main reason for going there is to fill up my idol collection.. Yet I think she'd nag all the way there so I can't get a peaceful trip?! And it's not like she has to sponsor my expenses on the idol stuff?? Since my brother is going there too.. She can treat it as a holiday.. But there is already a 'hidden boundary' to the places I can visit within HK!
From now til the HK trip (provided I find a good tour package and I don't know where, Kowloon or HK Island, and which hotel to stay in and also the budget my mum is willing to part with) I HAVE to find a part-time job and she's badgering me to search the internet and the classified for jobs!!!!!!!
OMG I THINK I'M GOING TO DIE I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER!!!!
Hmm... HK trip and she's not even sponsoring your idol stuff...? Well... My mum won't even wanna bring me to Genting when I was young... Bringing almost the whole family along except me and my dad whom she really disliked... Do you know what 'hate' is...? I think you're still far from understanding what it is.... Meanwhile, why not be more appreciative of what you've got? -
be happy already... y must always depend on parents $$$ to fufill the things u want? your mum is nice enough to suggest this trip and u hate her for it...Originally posted by lesliehow:I'm quite quite sick of my mum cos she always forces me to do things I don't like.
Like, she controls my computer access (Win XP) with a password so that only my brother and herself knows the password which means they can access my account and internet.. Which is not fair at all because my brother is younger than me and then again he is sooo bossy and such a goody-two-shoes.
And then this year (because it's after my O's) she let me have my way about going to HK in April, yet it's only a pathetic 3 days! She said it's the FIRST and LAST time she'd bring me there. My main reason for going there is to fill up my idol collection.. Yet I think she'd nag all the way there so I can't get a peaceful trip?! And it's not like she has to sponsor my expenses on the idol stuff?? Since my brother is going there too.. She can treat it as a holiday.. But there is already a 'hidden boundary' to the places I can visit within HK!
From now til the HK trip (provided I find a good tour package and I don't know where, Kowloon or HK Island, and which hotel to stay in and also the budget my mum is willing to part with) I HAVE to find a part-time job and she's badgering me to search the internet and the classified for jobs!!!!!!!
OMG I THINK I'M GOING TO DIE I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER!!!!
she want to u to know that its not easy to earn $$$ and giving u the responsibility to plan and schedule... and finding the parttime job is not gonna kill u... u r no longer primary school... -
U must have abuse the use of computer that is why she controls your usage.
U are very lucky u get to go HK.
Thank your lucky stars.
Your mum wants u to know how hard to earn money that's why she is encouraging u to take up part-time work.
Instead of wasting time at home, go & earn some pocket money & gain some work experience. -
fill up ur idol collection? wah lau u really bai4 jia1 loh
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I never went overseas with my family b4..
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OMFG! You must be like, 13-14? below 16 presumeably?
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I know how u feel.. u cant be as bad as me.. anyway.. if u want to fight for ur own freedom.. u had better be independent.. if u cant even handle small matters such as looking up on the NET for ur trip n look for a job on ur own.. nobody will treat u seriously.. esp ur mum..
For me.. i dun care.. my mum cant run my life.. she's not happy i dun care.. but one thing u have to rem.. make sure u can afford to strike out on ur own..it's not tt easy to get out on this harsh pragmatic world we live in.. ideals is far from reality.. Strict parental control comes with sense of security n dependence..
Maybe u should wait alittle older b4 u consider leaving parental protection (or control)..