for me, the looks must be a pleasant to me, but most imptly she must have a good heart and a willingness to work out all matters and not keep all things to herself...cant read minds yet leh..haha
a willingness to communicate is of prime importance and hopefully not taking most things, be it said or done, personally and defensively...wah..cant stand that!!
Once there's communication, all things are possible...then lastly there must be feeling and chemistry la...hahaha
Often time, we are looking for the ONE..but the best thing to do is to be THE ONE ourself first and the other ONE for you will comes naturally..

2cent's worth...