By Chance or By Choice
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When we meet the right person to Love
when we're at the right place at the right time,
That's a chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to,
that's not a choice.That's a chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot
of couples who get together because of this)..
is not a choice.That's also a chance. -
The difference is what happens afterwards.
When will you take that infatuation, that crush,
that mind,blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back,you sit down
and contemplate whether you want to make this
into a concrete relationship or just a fling.If you
decide to Love a person,even with his faults,
That's not a chance.
That's a choice.
When you choose to be with a person,
no matter what,That's a choice. -
Even if you know there are many people out
there who are more attractive, smarter, and
richer than your mate,and yet, you decide to
Love your mate just the same,that's choice.
Infatuation...
crushes...
attraction...
comes to us by chance.
But,
True Love...
that lasts...
is truly a choice.
A choice that we make. -
Regarding soul mates,
there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is
so true about this "Fate brings you together,
but it's still up to you to make it happen."
I do believe that soul mates do exist.
That there is truly someone made for you.
But it's still up to you to make the choice if
you're going to do something about it or not.
We may meet our soul mates by CHANCE,
but loving and staying with our soul mates is
still A CHOICE we have to make. -
We came to the world not by finding someone
perfect to Love...
BUT to learn how to Love an imperfect person
Perfectly... -
[Conclusion]
It is not the matter how to find someone
perfect to love...
but how to love someone imperfect
perfectly ..... -
When we meet people, it's by chance. Fate brings you to that someone.
When we get get together with someone, it's by choice. We feel, we care, we adore for that special one. It's an option to allow the person into your life. -
By choice..
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first must have chance then make the choice.
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Hmm... Nice...?
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NIce....
Basically, the underlying idea is it take chance (or some call it fate) to meet someone. But what happens aft that requires choice (pro active)... -
Personal opinion, it's all choices.
Thousands of people we met in our everday life, we choose who will caught our eye. consciously or unconsciously.
Love at first sight - we made the choice immediately.
Friendship grows to love - we make the choice only after some time
Just frienship, nothing happens - b'cos we chose not to.
'Chance' is used for the romantic. -
but without chance..you wouldn't even get to see the person that you choose to love at 1st sight..the most compatible person for you might be just sitting 2 seats away from you..but you feel asleep during the ride..thus missing the chance to spot her/him..the most compatible person for you might be walking just by your side..but your attention is on the 10 dollar note on the floor..thus chance don't allow you both to meet..without chance you wouldn't get to choose anything..
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we get to meet someone by chance~ and whether to be together with he/she is a choice...so i simply think that a r/s needs chance and choice~
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Originally posted by Magnus:Personal opinion, it's all choices.
Thousands of people we met in our everday life, we choose who will caught our eye. consciously or unconsciously.
Love at first sight - we made the choice immediately.
Friendship grows to love - we make the choice only after some time
Just frienship, nothing happens - b'cos we chose not to.
'Chance' is used for the romantic.Originally posted by tan_william:but without chance..you wouldn't even get to see the person that you choose to love at 1st sight..the most compatible person for you might be just sitting 2 seats away from you..but you feel asleep during the ride..thus missing the chance to spot her/him..the most compatible person for you might be walking just by your side..but your attention is on the 10 dollar note on the floor..thus chance don't allow you both to meet..without chance you wouldn't get to choose anything..