Im screwed
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I'm 16 and i can't seem to focus as much as i did the previous years in my studies... I can't stop thinking of her...
Should i let go or? -
Dude, your studies are affected! Do you really want to continue to think about someone who is probably NOT going to end up as your wife, and in the process, neglect your studies so that you won't graduate and get a good job in the future?
Your studies and your future is more important than a girl who does not love you anymore (I'm assuming this as you didn't reveal much). Focus on your studies and let that take your mind and energy away from thinking about this person. -
Miraculously, i am able to give my attention to the teacher in lessons. But when faced alone doing my assignments... she just keeps coming into my mind...
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hmmm.. i can understand how u feel. used to been through the same thing over and over again. while forgetting is hard, why not just pursue? maybe u will get a fruitful ending and help u get back to ya main focus again.
at least that works for me. -
maybe the goals you are having are not strong enough to hold you down, that's why you are wavering back and forth. Remember, stay focus!
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that happens becos you're not focused. It takes some (maybe more for you) effort and time for a person to forget a beloved, BUT it can be done. Believe me, I've been through a similar situation before and time is really a great healer but you really on your part need some self-discipline to make it work. So the next time you are doing your assignments alone again, wipe all thoughts from your mind except the task of finishing your assignments.Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:Miraculously, i am able to give my attention to the teacher in lessons. But when faced alone doing my assignments... she just keeps coming into my mind... -
you are still young dude...study hard first before getting into any r/s~
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yah, you're screwed. so unscrew now before u get too deep in...
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All I can say is: WAKE UP!!!
There are more things to achieve and accomplish in Life, rather than just going into a relationship, which might not even last. At your age, you should be studying! Oh yeah, not forgetting, having fun with groups of friends to unwind.
Thinking about being in a BGR will have to depend how well can you balance it with your studies. But judging from your posts, I doubt you can do it. No offence meant here, but I really think you should concentrate on your studies.
When you graduate from the University (ideally) in time to come, you will have your career to worry for. BGRs can wait, IMO. -
Set aside some time for thinking about her, and ENOUGH TIME to do up your assignments and read ups.Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:Miraculously, i am able to give my attention to the teacher in lessons. But when faced alone doing my assignments... she just keeps coming into my mind...
If you don't complete your academic requirements, then start to take away the time you've set aside for thinking about her away. -
go get a screwdriver and Unscrew urself.