Do you encounter girls who don't pay?

• caramon

  20 Mar 05, 03:59

  There seems to be a new term for Singaporean women: "dinner wh0res" - They only go out with you if you take them somewhere fancy, classy and expensive for dinner.. Yet unlike guys, they will never offer to share the bills, often sitting there and waiting for you to settle the bills..
  
  Beggar is define as someone who wants something for free.. dinner wh0res is define as someone who wants something for free and treat them as equal..
  
  Go around any pubs or disco and you will discovered most if not all bills are settle by guys.. Women wants to be treated as equal, but when it comes to payment, they are not gentleman enough.. For the poor guys who always pay and pay, you will always be at the receiving end.. End of the day, those dinner and drinks wh0res will lament " why you always no money" ? How to marry me in future..
  
  Can the intellectual wh0res tell me, why the double standard?
• HENG@

  20 Mar 05, 04:01

  another whiney post. LOSER!!!
• icyprincess

  20 Mar 05, 04:16

  Originally posted by caramon:
  There seems to be a new term for Singaporean women: "dinner wh0res" - They only go out with you if you take them somewhere fancy, classy and expensive for dinner.. Yet unlike guys, they will never offer to share the bills, often sitting there and waiting for you to settle the bills..
  
  Beggar is define as someone who wants something for free.. dinner wh0res is define as someone who wants something for free and treat them as equal..
  
  Go around any pubs or disco and you will discovered most if not all bills are settle by guys.. Women wants to be treated as equal, but when it comes to payment, they are not gentleman enough.. For the poor guys who always pay and pay, you will always be at the receiving end.. End of the day, those dinner and drinks wh0res will lament " why you always no money" ? How to marry me in future..
  
  Can the intellectual wh0res tell me, why the double standard?

  It is not that we dun wan to pay leh...but sum guys really dun wan to let us pay.
  
  i.c.y
• caramon

  20 Mar 05, 04:23

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  It is not that we dun wan to pay leh...but sum guys really dun wan to let us pay.
  
  i.c.y

  Then don't marry him.. cause most probably he don't have any savings after getting ripped off by those intellectual dinner wh0res..
• Joshua1975

  20 Mar 05, 04:33

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  It is not that we dun wan to pay leh...but sum guys really dun wan to let us pay.
  
  i.c.y

  i am 'sum' of the guys but hey, if she insist, i'll let her pay her own share.
  
  
• ubermagicseller

  20 Mar 05, 07:27

  We will go dutch.
• icyprincess

  20 Mar 05, 08:22

  Originally posted by caramon:

  Then don't marry him.. cause most probably he don't have any savings after getting ripped off by those intellectual dinner wh0res..

  i do not base my decision to marry someone based on how much saving he has in his bank.
  
  i.c.y
• lwflee

  20 Mar 05, 09:02

  Actually no. Mostly they pay for me
  
  And yes, i think going dutch is the best.
• Bloop...

  20 Mar 05, 09:16

  Originally posted by lwflee:

  Actually no. Mostly they pay for me
  
  And yes, i think going dutch is the best.

  True.. most of the women I go out with offer to pay for dinner as well...
  
  I thought about it once and came to the conclusion that it makes them feel in control, so when we end up doing what comes naturally after that, they don't feel like they're being made use of.
  
  Could be wrong... probably am... but hey!? It solves the mystery of why my women friends insist on paying for my dinner and it helps me sleep better at night
• lwflee

  20 Mar 05, 09:27

  Originally posted by Bloop...:

  True.. most of the women I go out with offer to pay for dinner as well...
  
  I thought about it once and came to the conclusion that it makes them feel in control, so when we end up doing what comes naturally after that, they don't feel like they're being made use of.
  
  Could be wrong... probably am... but hey!? It solves the mystery of why my women friends insist on paying for my dinner and it helps me sleep better at night

  Or...Gosh...They dun want to make it seem like a date!
  
  .......................
  
  Sobs.
• binZ

  20 Mar 05, 10:03

  Originally posted by lwflee:

  Or...Gosh...They dun want to make it seem like a date!
  
  .......................
  
  Sobs.

  ha ha. i totally agree on this!
  ^ ^
• simulacrum

  20 Mar 05, 14:05

  Originally posted by lwflee:

  Or...Gosh...They dun want to make it seem like a date!
  
  .......................
  
  Sobs.

  since when is the definition of "date" defined by who picks up the tab?
  
  if she allows you to foot the bill, it doesnt mean that it's a date and vice versa
• shade343

  20 Mar 05, 14:24

  I like it if both parties go dutch
• starblue

  20 Mar 05, 18:59

  i think the first date with any guy/gal, it's nice for the guy to insist to pay. subsequent meals and dates is up to you loh. if you dun like a girl who never offer to pay, dun go out with her lah, what's your problem dude??? and besides, you can always treat it as a form of "investment". you never know if she's keeping all these things you're doing for her in her heart. she might repay it all with a sensual bath just for the two of you.
• HENG@

  20 Mar 05, 19:04

  nowadays lots of guys very petty mah. so must come here n complain about gals who dun offer to pay.
• duotiga83

  20 Mar 05, 19:05

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  another whiney post. LOSER!!!

  i was thinking abt that also though i'm guy......
• HENG@

  20 Mar 05, 19:08

  Originally posted by duotiga83:

  i was thinking abt that also though i'm guy......

  dun worry. as long as u dun be petty can liao. i really dunno what is more petty about caramon. his unwillingness to pay during a date, or his having to come here to whine about it.
• fabiaN__

  20 Mar 05, 19:25

  Eh? I think... there's nothing wrong in the guy footing the bill during a dinner date. Haha.. no doubt, it might not be cheap. But it reflects how gentlemanly one is.
  
  Or perhaps if the other party wanna pay, I think you should allow her to. Because it's also a form of respect for the fairer sex. Once in a while, footing the bill isn't any issue, IMO. *shrugs*
• caramon

  20 Mar 05, 19:28

  All the time, we(men) get bashed from those feminist-pig... Its not about women-bashing, but the retaliation that we(men) finally did after tolerating all these years.. so those feminist wants equality.. but cried foul when guys back-lash at them..
  
  Girls likes to assume being in a stronger position, but when presented in such a situation, they find those guys as wimps or not assertives enough.. when going for a date, they like guys to treat them as their equals, but when it comes to payment, they expects guys to pay.. It's officiate as 'correct' or a must, but when urge their counterparts to foot the bills, girls lament them as 'stingy and 'ungentlemen'.. comments like this have become so common place that nobody stops and thinks how 'unequal' or 'unfair' this is..
  
  I wish I can logically explain this phenomenon, but it's beyond my ability to fathom what's going on in their pea size brain.. They have no problem to treat men as their equals, but they got a big problem in behaving like a gentlemen..
  
  Apparently, we guys are supposed to take insults 'like a joke' or 'like a man', but when a guy says something about girls, he's label as 'sexist' or a chauvinist.. Girls like to project themselves as independent when around with guys, but when in the presence of ang moh, singapore women turn into submissive sl_uts.. All that 'modern independent woman' crap goes out of the window the moment they start licking the boots of the ang moh..
  
  But one thing I can do, is say that the phenomenon doesnÂ’t last forever.. As more local guys are marrying overseas, its only time before those feminists, intellectual wh0res finally woke up to find themselves in a 'solace' situation and realise they should remain less vocal and in less unassuming position.. Until then, I propose a toast to all the guys.. You know who you are, and I know you are sick of the double standards thats been practising by the local ladies.. Fear not, as your well deserved vindication is coming..
  
  
• Joshua1975

  20 Mar 05, 19:33

  why jin jin ji jiao.
  
  ... what come around goes around leh...
  
  hahaaa... you pay she goes on top she pay you go on top lor...
  
  
  
  
• HENG@

  20 Mar 05, 19:46

  Originally posted by caramon:

  All the time, we(men) get bashed from those feminist-pig... Its not about women-bashing, but the retaliation that we(men) finally did after tolerating all these years.. so those feminist wants equality.. but cried foul when guys back-lash at them..
  
  Girls likes to assume being in a stronger position, but when presented in such a situation, they find those guys as wimps or not assertives enough.. when going for a date, they like guys to treat them as their equals, but when it comes to payment, they expects guys to pay.. It's officiate as 'correct' or a must, but when urge their counterparts to foot the bills, girls lament them as 'stingy and 'ungentlemen'.. comments like this have become so common place that nobody stops and thinks how 'unequal' or 'unfair' this is..
  
  I wish I can logically explain this phenomenon, but it's beyond my ability to fathom what's going on in their pea size brain.. They have no problem to treat men as their equals, but they got a big problem in behaving like a gentlemen..
  
  Apparently, we guys are supposed to take insults 'like a joke' or 'like a man', but when a guy says something about girls, he's label as 'sexist' or a chauvinist.. Girls like to project themselves as independent when around with guys, but when in the presence of ang moh, singapore women turn into submissive sl_uts.. All that 'modern independent woman' crap goes out of the window the moment they start licking the boots of the ang moh..
  
  But one thing I can do, is say that the phenomenon doesnÂ’t last forever.. As more local guys are marrying overseas, its only time before those feminists, intellectual wh0res finally woke up to find themselves in a 'solace' situation and realise they should remain less vocal and in less unassuming position.. Until then, I propose a toast to all the guys.. You know who you are, and I know you are sick of the double standards thats been practising by the local ladies.. Fear not, as your well deserved vindication is coming..
  
  

  "but it's beyond my ability to fathom what's going on in their pea size brain.. " 1stly, i find that this line applies so true to you
  
  2ndly "They have no problem to treat men as their equals, but they got a big problem in behaving like a gentlemen.. " once again u are more or less using Compton Mackenzie's quote without giving credit where it's due.
  
  3rdly, u're still living in the 1930s because thats when good 'ol compton said his quote.
  
  4thly, once again u're saying the same old Shit u've repeated many times over in other of your equally useless, meaningless, Shitty crappy posts. u're sounding like a broken record and in case u think u're speaking up for men and u didn't actually notice, most guys here think u're a Fuckwit too. maybe u might wanna shut up b4 u scupper your chances with gay men too.
• SMAPLionHeart

  20 Mar 05, 20:11

  i take turns...to pay..what's the fuss
• vito_corleone

  20 Mar 05, 20:32

  well nobody asked those stupid guys to pay....im a guy and everytime i go out with female friends i never pay for any of their stuff
• mach10

  20 Mar 05, 20:48

  Originally posted by caramon:

  There seems to be a new term for Singaporean women: "dinner wh0res" - They only go out with you if you take them somewhere fancy, classy and expensive for dinner.. Yet unlike guys, they will never offer to share the bills, often sitting there and waiting for you to settle the bills..
  
  Beggar is define as someone who wants something for free.. dinner wh0res is define as someone who wants something for free and treat them as equal..
  
  Go around any pubs or disco and you will discovered most if not all bills are settle by guys.. Women wants to be treated as equal, but when it comes to payment, they are not gentleman enough.. For the poor guys who always pay and pay, you will always be at the receiving end.. End of the day, those dinner and drinks wh0res will lament " why you always no money" ? How to marry me in future..
  
  Can the intellectual wh0res tell me, why the double standard?

  Behind every successful man, there is a woman.
  YET . . .
  Behind every loser, there also is a woman.
  Its how u handle the woman dude!!
  Not all girls are the same.
  Good Luck.
  Oh btw, usually i go out with them they will offer to pay...
  
  Cheerios
• bo liao

  20 Mar 05, 20:52

  Originally posted by caramon:

  There seems to be a new term for Singaporean women: "dinner wh0res" - They only go out with you if you take them somewhere fancy, classy and expensive for dinner.. Yet unlike guys, they will never offer to share the bills, often sitting there and waiting for you to settle the bills..
  
  Beggar is define as someone who wants something for free.. dinner wh0res is define as someone who wants something for free and treat them as equal..
  
  Go around any pubs or disco and you will discovered most if not all bills are settle by guys.. Women wants to be treated as equal, but when it comes to payment, they are not gentleman enough.. For the poor guys who always pay and pay, you will always be at the receiving end.. End of the day, those dinner and drinks wh0res will lament " why you always no money" ? How to marry me in future..
  
  Can the intellectual wh0res tell me, why the double standard?

  Wah...true lah....some gals r lik tat , but if u also cannot pay for food den wat for u go out wid gals...U very jia lat lea...u might at well see photo shake out...
  
  It depends on how u see things...
  
  Food is ok lah...But where got gals ONLY go expensive plase/classy place to eat one??
  
  U ah...ai yo...if you meet tis type den dun go out wid them lor..so simply...u post here also lik make ppl shoot u only..lolx