wot 2 do??
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i have a girl frd who is very close 2 me since abt 3yrs ago.... we had feelings wif each other but somwhw we nvr end up 2gether.... n since we both haf our relationship we start 2 contact less n less.... recently both of us broke up almost at the same time n got 2 be close 2gether again.... guess our feeling 4 each other is still there but we nvr say anything... wot shd i do? shd i go after her or izit tt we juz got hurt in relationship n wanna each other 4 company?
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mai tu liao! go for it!
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Few possibilities but one decision.Originally posted by edi_77777:i have a girl frd who is very close 2 me since abt 3yrs ago.... we had feelings wif each other but somwhw we nvr end up 2gether.... n since we both haf our relationship we start 2 contact less n less.... recently both of us broke up almost at the same time n got 2 be close 2gether again.... guess our feeling 4 each other is still there but we nvr say anything... wot shd i do? shd i go after her or izit tt we juz got hurt in relationship n wanna each other 4 company?
It could be rebound from a failed relationship and both needed one another. Or unseen connection between two could draw you two together after this incident. 'Unfinished business' maybe?
Take small steps and ultimately seek yourself and get a hold of your thoughts before any actions.
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why are you waiting for the cows to come home?
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try things out first, like holding hands, hanging out together. (no sex or kissing first) if both of u are ok with it then y not start a relationship? but both of u must be willing to be truthful to each other even if it means hurting one another. slowly as the 2 of u gets closer together, u won even notice that u are a couple already.
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sound easy loh... but hard leh.... esp when both of us r so gd frs nw
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How long did both your relationship lasted? How did hers end?Originally posted by edi_77777:sound easy loh... but hard leh.... esp when both of us r so gd frs nw
How long was the duration you two stopped seeing each other and got back together as close again?
These are important points to note.
It could be certain details you didn't consider that leads to this stagnant stage.
Lastly, how close are you guys now? details pls?
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More Kino and more EC. Are u good looking? If not, C&F comes in.
Least doing these the gal will be attracted/comfort with u. -
C&F seemed unnecessary due to the fact they have known each other for many years. I think a sudden change to C&F will turn her off.Originally posted by Oyathatsme:More Kino and more EC. Are u good looking? If not, C&F comes in.
Least doing these the gal will be attracted/comfort with u.
Agreed on the part of Kino and EC?
Really depends on situation.
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mine abt a yr while hers close to 2yrs..... though we did meet up when both r attached but once a while onli.... itz like these couple of mths we r very close... meet almost everyday.... sometimes juz both of us n sometimes wif a grp of frds........ how close? super close.... we share almost everything.... no sex though... hahaOriginally posted by M©+square:How long did both your relationship lasted? How did hers end?
How long was the duration you two stopped seeing each other and got back together as close again?
These are important points to note.
It could be certain details you didn't consider that leads to this stagnant stage.
Lastly, how close are you guys now? details pls?
Cheers -
wad's about the C&F thing?? do you read David DeAngelo?? dun tell me you ARE him...
since you are good friends, stay that way for the time being. let the rocky parts fade away first, then make your move. if not you might spoil the friendship. -
hmm... dunno lah.... stay single bestOriginally posted by starblue:wad's about the C&F thing?? do you read David DeAngelo?? dun tell me you ARE him...
since you are good friends, stay that way for the time being. let the rocky parts fade away first, then make your move. if not you might spoil the friendship.