im the most... most.. hum ji kia in the world..
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believe it or not...
the gal of my dreams was just in front of me... sitting together on the place just like a few inches away...
she lay her head onto my shoulders... and i just stunned there for a couple of minutes....
its not the first time le... incidents whereby... i just wanted to grab her hand while on a night stroll with her.. but i dare not... i dunno y... BUT I JUST FREAKING CANT!!!!!!!
its like... shes so fragile and delicate... im afraid tat any slightest movement from me would shatter her into pieces.. any stupid mistake i do would jeoperdise our r/s....
but i seriously dunno wad am i so afraid of... talked to friends and all.. they just tell me go ahead and do it.. cause even if i failed... i will not regret or.. hate myself for not even trying... but.. i just cant.. -
wah .. really wasted sia.. pls make ur feelings known to her. she hav already made the 1st move, pls dun let ur fate pass u by or else u'll regret forever.
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Hmm, she prolly has initiated her first move, so, get the hint and all e best to ya
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my feelings to her are already known.. just that.. it does not haf a definate answer... i think maybe thats wad is stopping me?? i dunno... maybe..
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actually u r not the most hum ji kia...i am
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u 2??...Originally posted by bratpig:actually u r not the most hum ji kia...i am
ha... i seriously feel like punching myself right here.. right now... everytime i told myself to change.. to just do it... but when it happens again... i just... hide back into my shell.... ironic and contradicting.. but its happening to me right now. -
Hmm yea... You need a change... You are really really fortunate to already have the girl to make the first move....
If you really dont dare to tell her all these face to face, maybe through other methods like sms or letter? Tell her how much u love her and just that you are not good with words or anything... your explainations... To make her feel more secured =) good luck dude -
If u know that your feelings are true to her, then say it!Originally posted by tir4misu:u 2??...
ha... i seriously feel like punching myself right here.. right now... everytime i told myself to change.. to just do it... but when it happens again... i just... hide back into my shell.... ironic and contradicting.. but its happening to me right now.
What's stopping ?
As for the post above mine, yea you ARE very very fortunate to have the lady make the first move -
thx all.. think.. i shall juz go for it ba!! =) thx lotz
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good luck dudeOriginally posted by tir4misu:thx all.. think.. i shall juz go for it ba!! =) thx lotz -
Gogo ! the world need more brave heros!
all the best of luck! -
it happens.. don't think about it anymore..
COURAGE!! dude, COURAGE!!
just initiate it this time
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Hey,don't be afraid dude! Don't let your present hostility affect her or you will stand to lose!
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You should have just KISSED her... Then there shall be no more 'what should I do's... And NO RETURNING BACK...Originally posted by tir4misu:believe it or not...
the gal of my dreams was just in front of me... sitting together on the place just like a few inches away...
she lay her head onto my shoulders... and i just stunned there for a couple of minutes....
its not the first time le... incidents whereby... i just wanted to grab her hand while on a night stroll with her.. but i dare not... i dunno y... BUT I JUST FREAKING CANT!!!!!!!
its like... shes so fragile and delicate... im afraid tat any slightest movement from me would shatter her into pieces.. any stupid mistake i do would jeoperdise our r/s....
but i seriously dunno wad am i so afraid of... talked to friends and all.. they just tell me go ahead and do it.. cause even if i failed... i will not regret or.. hate myself for not even trying... but.. i just cant..
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*slap you left right up down centre*Originally posted by tir4misu:believe it or not...
the gal of my dreams was just in front of me... sitting together on the place just like a few inches away...
she lay her head onto my shoulders... and i just stunned there for a couple of minutes....
its not the first time le... incidents whereby... i just wanted to grab her hand while on a night stroll with her.. but i dare not... i dunno y... BUT I JUST FREAKING CANT!!!!!!!
its like... shes so fragile and delicate... im afraid tat any slightest movement from me would shatter her into pieces.. any stupid mistake i do would jeoperdise our r/s....
but i seriously dunno wad am i so afraid of... talked to friends and all.. they just tell me go ahead and do it.. cause even if i failed... i will not regret or.. hate myself for not even trying... but.. i just cant..
till now you still pondering over this ?? Tell yourself that this is not a problem.. Don;t make it seems like one.. This is your psychology barrier.. You cant break thru this small things.. Then what about the others? No matter how much we say we advice.. we tell you wat to do.. also no use.. you have to depend on yourself.. ACTIONS ACTIONS ACTIONS!!
Don't just say empty words.. With nothing done.. i oso dunno how to help you.. everyone here has given their best advices to help.. well perhaps.. this is what you have to go thru for this r/s.. something that challenge you.. but if your next r/s were to come.. you will not or never be like this time again..
Girls need affections.. Jus a simple hug.. holding of hands for awhile makes a diff.. they jus wanna feel "being loved".. i hope that you can really break thru.. for JUS ONCE.. JUS AWHILE will do.. especially to her..
Cheers.. -
haha thx all.. there is no need for this topic.. this post le... is it possible to take it down.. thx...
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Originally posted by tir4misu:believe it or not...
the gal of my dreams was just in front of me... sitting together on the place just like a few inches away...
she lay her head onto my shoulders... and i just stunned there for a couple of minutes....
its not the first time le... incidents whereby... i just wanted to grab her hand while on a night stroll with her.. but i dare not... i dunno y... BUT I JUST FREAKING CANT!!!!!!!
its like... shes so fragile and delicate... im afraid tat any slightest movement from me would shatter her into pieces.. any stupid mistake i do would jeoperdise our r/s....
but i seriously dunno wad am i so afraid of... talked to friends and all.. they just tell me go ahead and do it.. cause even if i failed... i will not regret or.. hate myself for not even trying... but.. i just cant..
/me kicks tir4misu.
And of course, although we have discussed this before liao and you being my most mei you yong de tudi...
/me still kicks tir4misu.
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come on man..sometimes u have to push urself to do it..
jia you -
i juz send one mail to u-.- dunno y.. like cannot.. so i resending now...Originally posted by Yunhaier: /me kicks tir4misu.
And of course, although we have discussed this before liao and you being my most mei you yong de tudi...
/me still kicks tir4misu.
Cheers
ha.. well.. it takes time for one to evolve, grow and to mature rite? its gonna be my turn now =P... see when u free ba then call u again to '38 38' abit hahaha u so bz.... busily watching tv.. slacking arnd... staring at the ceiling.. bounded away from the 'mortal world' hee -
HahahaA... you have to understand that he don't come home often!!!Originally posted by tir4misu:i juz send one mail to u-.- dunno y.. like cannot.. so i resending now...
ha.. well.. it takes time for one to evolve, grow and to mature rite? its gonna be my turn now =P... see when u free ba then call u again to '38 38' abit hahaha u so bz.... busily watching tv.. slacking arnd... staring at the ceiling.. bounded away from the 'mortal world' hee
and also.. his mailbox storage is CMI!!!!!
Yes it takes time.. but after so long.. you still havent take any moves.. Is that taking a bit too long?? -
ya i guess so... but.. now.. no more chance le... ha.....Originally posted by SunRisE:HahahaA... you have to understand that he don't come home often!!!
and also.. his mailbox storage is CMI!!!!!
Yes it takes time.. but after so long.. you still havent take any moves.. Is that taking a bit too long??
if ever.. theres another r/s tat crosses my path... it wont turn out this way liao.. i gurantee!
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yeah!!! you BETTER!!!!!Originally posted by tir4misu:ya i guess so... but.. now.. no more chance le... ha.....
if ever.. theres another r/s tat crosses my path... it wont turn out this way liao.. i gurantee!
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