How do you advise your friend?

• caramon

  23 Mar 05, 23:52

  If he's going for a chiobu with stunning figure and a 'B' towards 'C' cup..
  
  Problem is he's not rich, drives a renew COE car and doesn't talk well..
  
  I don't want to hurt him by telling the truth, but chances are 0%..
  
  For him, it's not a matter of "should he" but "can he?" I think he should try
  
  those not so pretty type, ok figure and a 'B' towards 'A' cup.. but how to
  
  break the ice to him?
• ceciltan

  24 Mar 05, 08:24

  Dun need to break the ice to him, the ice will break itself.
  
  Often, learning come with a huge price.
  
  er... is he handsome? some gal dun really mind all this material stuff though, must depend on his luck.
  
  I wonder why CUP B or CUP C gal often get labelled as stunning. CUP A gal not stunning meh?
• deathscythe99

  24 Mar 05, 08:41

  Originally posted by ceciltan:

  Dun need to break the ice to him, the ice will break itself.
  
  Often, learning come with a huge price.
  
  er... is he handsome? some gal dun really mind all this material stuff though, must depend on his luck.
  
  I wonder why CUP B or CUP C gal often get labelled as stunning. CUP A gal not stunning meh?

  Beauty in the eyes of the beholder
• parn

  24 Mar 05, 09:10

  Originally posted by caramon:

  If he's going for a chiobu with stunning figure and a 'B' towards 'C' cup..
  
  Problem is he's not rich, drives a renew COE car and doesn't talk well..
  
  I don't want to hurt him by telling the truth, but chances are 0%..
  
  For him, it's not a matter of "should he" but "can he?" I think he should try
  
  those not so pretty type, ok figure and a 'B' towards 'A' cup.. but how to
  
  break the ice to him?

  I wonder what has all this got to do with you?
  You are only his friend, not his nanny or mother...mind you.
  
  The fact is that he is the one in love right now, and I feel that he deserves to be free when in love. All the other factors...including friends, will not bring fortune to his crush and will definitely hinder him. Do not go and give your self-romantic advice to him unless he asked you for it...which I hope he doesn't if he ever plans to succeed at all.
  
  Instead of worrying about him, why don't you go and get yourself a girlfriend first?
  
  Different girls have different critieria about guys, so he may win over his crush for all you know. I hope he does so...to prove you wrong.
  
  
• gerrykoh

  24 Mar 05, 11:19

  Ya, bottom line is to mind your own business.
  Let him pursue her if he wants.
  
• mahai102

  24 Mar 05, 13:49

  i hope he gets the girl & spits in your face...
• bo liao

  24 Mar 05, 18:55

  Originally posted by caramon:

  If he's going for a chiobu with stunning figure and a 'B' towards 'C' cup..
  
  Problem is he's not rich, drives a renew COE car and doesn't talk well..
  
  I don't want to hurt him by telling the truth, but chances are 0%..
  
  For him, it's not a matter of "should he" but "can he?" I think he should try
  
  those not so pretty type, ok figure and a 'B' towards 'A' cup.. but how to
  
  break the ice to him?

  I dunno its the person you or its really ur fren, but i try anyway...
  
  True friends wun mind the truth, jus quote "Dun mind...No offence...Not trying to swan...etc" cos if tat person also hv "own thinking power" he will also know why u said those.
  
  If u really treasure this fren, tel him the truth...u wun wan see ur friend live in pain should anything happen, yes, he may not listen but at least u did ur part as a friend.
  
  Ultimately,is still wat ur friend want...mayb he can get her also hard to say..
• elindra

  24 Mar 05, 18:59

  Originally posted by caramon:

  If he's going for a chiobu with stunning figure and a 'B' towards 'C' cup..
  
  Problem is he's not rich, drives a renew COE car and doesn't talk well..
  
  I don't want to hurt him by telling the truth, but chances are 0%..
  
  For him, it's not a matter of "should he" but "can he?" I think he should try
  
  those not so pretty type, ok figure and a 'B' towards 'A' cup.. but how to
  
  break the ice to him?

  1. The girl might not be materialistic
  
  2. Some girls find shy guys who stutters cute for some reason
  
  3. If you don't try your chance will always be 0%. Even if it is 0.0000001% it is still a chance.
  
  
• caramon

  25 Mar 05, 02:46

  Originally posted by elindra:

  1. The girl might not be materialistic
  
  2. Some girls find shy guys who stutters cute for some reason
  
  3. If you don't try your chance will always be 0%. Even if it is 0.0000001% it is still a chance.
  
  

  Even if the chance is 0%, I will still ask.. When are you free for dinner?
• elindra

  25 Mar 05, 02:51

  Originally posted by caramon:

  Even if the chance is 0%, I will still ask.. When are you free for dinner?

  As mentioned before. You can even forget about THINKING about it!
  
  
• caramon

  25 Mar 05, 19:40

  My friend was refused a date from her today.. Guess the chances doesn't look too good..
• Imperfect

  25 Mar 05, 19:50

  Originally posted by caramon:

  If he's going for a chiobu with stunning figure and a 'B' towards 'C' cup..
  
  Problem is he's not rich, drives a renew COE car and doesn't talk well..
  
  I don't want to hurt him by telling the truth, but chances are 0%..
  
  For him, it's not a matter of "should he" but "can he?" I think he should try
  
  those not so pretty type, ok figure and a 'B' towards 'A' cup.. but how to
  
  break the ice to him?

  I dont understand what is ur friend's decision to go after a stunning gal to do with his financial status... not all gals are materialistic and only be looking for guys whom they ca show off to...
  
  At least he still owns a renew COE car... i have to take public transport... does that mean i have to be single for the rest of my life???