Marriage should be counted as a disease.
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............most women once they have obtained status of Mrs....sex goes downhill all the way. I got a friend who is facing this problem. His wife doesn't like / enjoy sex.
Any comments?
No flaming pls. -
people who go into marriage thinking it's a disease should not do so in the first place..
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not really a disease, cos not every marriage will become like that... when in marriage they may feel that the priority lies on other stuff rather than giving their partner more love... again, it doesnt apply to all.... as for your fren, maybe is him who not performing as good liao ma...Originally posted by Manager433:............most women once they have obtained status of Mrs....sex goes downhill all the way. I got a friend who is facing this problem. His wife doesn't like / enjoy sex.
Any comments?
No flaming pls. -
Chances are he is not good at it.
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Maybe because it is of this thought... Same env
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thot u r saying it's a contagious disease
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Love is not Equal to sex for women
while some men (some only ok) equate them...hence the clash...
women's heart/emotion must firstly be quenched before any sex... -
haha,don't know why your friend love to pinpoint at minor flaws and then conclude that marriage is a disease.(or was it you?)
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Originally posted by Manager433:
what's flamming?
[b]............most women once they have obtained status of Mrs....sex goes downhill all the way. I got a friend who is facing this problem. His wife doesn't like / enjoy sex. Any comments?[b]
1) I think for starters, did anyone tell your friend that he doesn't have to get married to have sex? I'm not promoting pre-marital sex; I'm just saying that sex should not be the reason 2 people get married.
2) Maybe she didn't like/enjoy sex before marriage anyway.
3) Maybe your friend isn't any good in bed, so the missus is not interested...
4) Maybe he should find out FROM HER why she's not interested...
5) Maybe then, your friend can put in some effort to make her interested...
6) If not, it's inconciliable differences... Maybe he should have found out about it in the first place... -
Hmmmm.......will ask him this tomorrow
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keep us posted, i'm curious.Originally posted by Manager433:Hmmmm.......will ask him this tomorrow
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is it statistically proven that women's sex drive falls after marriage?
my guess is, maybe she's just kinda sick just seeing the kinda laudry she has to do for him. lolz. -
and maybe his nose-picking, proud-farting, eager burping, melodious snoring .....................
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couples should be together till old but not get married.............. in tis way the feelings will not fade that fast, n if they do eventually they can go their seperate ways without too much stuff to deal with...
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hmm..sort of true. marriage is just a piece of paper, a legal contract that's like a business transaction, ensuring the losing party in not losing out in case of any thing going wrong in the future...Originally posted by loseagain:couples should be together till old but not get married.............. in tis way the feelings will not fade that fast, n if they do eventually they can go their seperate ways without too much stuff to deal with... -
Maybe your friend didn't help with the housework so his wife is too tired to have sex.
Suggest that he brings his wife for a romantic getaway, pamper her with spa treatment etc -
I disagree : )
Marriage is the exchanging of vows, to be together thru sickness & health, wealth & poverty, etc. It's Not like bf/gf whereby, "U dun buy me flowers ah? U struggling wif ur work, No time to meet me ah? I break up wif u!". Marriage means being understanding, supportive & willing to be there for tt person, & tt person only, thru thick & thin, & having the same done to u.
Perhaps I'm an idealist, but marriage to me means so much more than a piece of paper.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by loneconfuser:hmm..sort of true. marriage is just a piece of paper, a legal contract that's like a business transaction, ensuring the losing party in not losing out in case of any thing going wrong in the future... -
I feel that marriage is a HUGE undertaking. It becomes a responsibility and you must be committed to it.
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totally agreeOriginally posted by the Bear:people who go into marriage thinking it's a disease should not do so in the first place.. -
i guess i didn't make myself clear, yes, it's vowing to be together tru sickness, health, wealth, poverty, etc., but i believe that if a couple really believe in that, they can still vow without getting married. The cert just provides more security to the vow. Likewise, a person can vow all that, but only for material gains, and not abiding by those vows.Originally posted by FeowFeow:I disagree : )
Marriage is the exchanging of vows, to be together thru sickness & health, wealth & poverty, etc. It's Not like bf/gf whereby, "U dun buy me flowers ah? U struggling wif ur work, No time to meet me ah? I break up wif u!". Marriage means being understanding, supportive & willing to be there for tt person, & tt person only, thru thick & thin, & having the same done to u.
Perhaps I'm an idealist, but marriage to me means so much more than a piece of paper.
FeowFeow
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sex might be impt... but i think the most impt thing in keeping a marriage interesting is to put the effort in maintaining it and keeping the relationships alive. Marriage isn't disease, really depend on how you see it.
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Oh, then I agree wif u
I still kinda like having the marriage cert thg Knowing tt I'm officially Mrs XXXXXXXXXXX is kinda nice I'd stare @ the thg all wk
FeowFeowOriginally posted by loneconfuser:i guess i didn't make myself clear, yes, it's vowing to be together tru sickness, health, wealth, poverty, etc., but i believe that if a couple really believe in that, they can still vow without getting married. The cert just provides more security to the vow. Likewise, a person can vow all that, but only for material gains, and not abiding by those vows. -
The man has to do some of the housework... The women is not a robot that can do housework w/o being tiredOriginally posted by starblue:is it statistically proven that women's sex drive falls after marriage?
my guess is, maybe she's just kinda sick just seeing the kinda laudry she has to do for him. lolz. -
can you tell this to my bf?Originally posted by sbst275:The man has to do some of the housework... The women is not a robot that can do housework w/o being tired -
Originally posted by loneconfuser:
What happens when the couple wishes to start a family? Or when a new family member comes along unexpectedly?
i guess i didn't make myself clear, yes, it's vowing to be together tru sickness, health, wealth, poverty, etc., but i believe that if a couple really believe in that, they can still vow without getting married. The cert just provides more security to the vow. Likewise, a person can vow all that, but only for material gains, and not abiding by those vows.
Marriage is the outward expression of a commitment -- commitment towards an internal arrangement between two people to live together and to start a family. It may seem a formality, but a formality that seals and strengthens the commitment nonetheless.
And there are too many irresponsible people out there for us to let such an important commitment be built on verbal vows, mere words promising dreams of happy ends, freely given in moments of lust and passion and just as easily forgotten once the heat abates.