I have a fear of entering relationships..

• SMAPLionHeart

  27 Mar 05, 17:03

  Im scared of being hurt..haiz so many bad experiences..
  
  anyone who has the same feeling?
  
• M©+square

  27 Mar 05, 17:05

  What kind of bad experiences are you talking about?
  
  Refer to the thread mentioned below.
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=123348
  
  You finished your thoughts in there already?
  
• SMAPLionHeart

  27 Mar 05, 17:22

  Re: mc square.
  
  I am confused..to go or not to go..
  with added fear >.<
• M©+square

  27 Mar 05, 17:31

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Re: mc square.
  
  I am confused..to go or not to go..
  with added fear >.<

  You obviously didn't read up your thread well.
  
  I have much to say to you. But only after you re visit your referance thread again.
  
  p.s: re-read my first question. What bad experience which made you fear so much? You haven't reply.
  
• A Beautiful Mind

  27 Mar 05, 19:02

  me too
  can help me?
• starblue

  27 Mar 05, 19:31

  there will come a time when your need to find a partner will overwhelm the fears. but my policy is, when in doubt, just opt out. you fear a r/s then dun jump into it yet loh. you can't be scared all your life dude. what happened to your Lionheart?
• SMAPLionHeart

  27 Mar 05, 21:34

  Eyy even LionHeart got weakness 1..mine is when it comes to love..
• Yunhaier

  28 Mar 05, 15:56

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Im scared of being hurt..haiz so many bad experiences..
  
  anyone who has the same feeling?
  

  Influence of Saturn... creating series of stagnation that prevent us from advancing.
  
  Do you still remember how a child eventually learns to walk? The number of times he/she has to fall before the child got used to the balance and weight?
  
  You can NEVER hope to have any relationship without first removing that fear.
  
  Are we so emotionally-weakened by love trials, that origincally meant to impart wisdom and make us mature, that we succumb to 'the other side' of the scale and come tumbling down in defeat?'
  
  Have we lost that child-courage we all had once? To face the intangibles now... like Love?
  
  Cheers
• Devil1976

  28 Mar 05, 17:34

  Originally posted by A Beautiful Mind:

  me too
  can help me?

  Open your own thread for better and more specific advices?
• Simple_Bear

  29 Mar 05, 21:42

  Yoz...
  
  Experiences gd or bad makes us better in love or worse...
  
  Ppl nd to know hw to use the experiences for gd use in future relationships...
  
  Always haf faith in Love...
  
  Cheers...
  
  
• alexkusu

  29 Mar 05, 21:44

  amazing...i tot sum1 was saying he got lionheart.... lion I knw no weakness one..Simba!!
• asparagus

  31 Mar 05, 00:22

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Eyy even LionHeart got weakness 1..mine is when it comes to love..

  just masturbate lah. simple.
• kaobeikaobu

  31 Mar 05, 02:23

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Re: mc square.
  
  I am confused..to go or not to go..
  with added fear >.<

  before you fear or get confused, laying out details and thoughts of what happened in the past do help you in reducing your difficulty in making the decision.
• SMAPLionHeart

  31 Mar 05, 03:23

  Originally posted by asparagus:

  just masturbate lah. simple.

  I seldom do that now after my ex advised me against it..
  unhealthy ...
  
  even though it feels good. Im trying to lead a normal life =)
• bo liao

  31 Mar 05, 10:05

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Im scared of being hurt..haiz so many bad experiences..
  
  anyone who has the same feeling?
  

  I agree wid you...but most come here AA will pass certain problems b4...
  
  mayb try to 4get wat happen in the past as if u go again wid other gal, it may not happen again..get more asurrance from her