!!!Need Help Regarding Relationship Matters!!!
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I need help and advice on what to do. I met my ex girlfriend about 3 years ago and we gone out for about 6 months. but after that due to some misunderstanding, we broke up and she refuse to talk to me from then on. i try ways of apologising to her but seem that she doesn't really want to forgive me.
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Forget her and move on
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What did u do that is so unforgivable?
If she cannot forgive u, there is nothing u can do about it.
No use forcing her -
Question.. if this has happened about 2 years ago. Why do you still care?
Both of u should have moved on already!
if you haven't.. then it's really sad (IMO)
Anyway what's there to forgive.. if she doesn't want to be friends with you, there's no point lurking around. -
Thanks people... but sadly i still cant really forget about her
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now she may not talk to u. but who knows? maybe in the future the both of u are frens again. buden must na de qi fang de xia. lidat then man mah...
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Just forget her.... if she doesn't want to even talk to you. WHy bother to salvage anything.....Originally posted by Siberian:I need help and advice on what to do. I met my ex girlfriend about 3 years ago and we gone out for about 6 months. but after that due to some misunderstanding, we broke up and she refuse to talk to me from then on. i try ways of apologising to her but seem that she doesn't really want to forgive me.
Wat should I do?
There are many girls out there.... You sound young but don't waste your youth on this one girl. -
So what's happening today...? Why suddenly mentions it...?Originally posted by Siberian:I need help and advice on what to do. I met my ex girlfriend about 3 years ago and we gone out for about 6 months. but after that due to some misunderstanding, we broke up and she refuse to talk to me from then on. i try ways of apologising to her but seem that she doesn't really want to forgive me.
Wat should I do? -
I really do understand how u feel.. i took yrs to get over my 1st.. but u have to find a way to move on.. u have to.. life is too b|oody short to dwell in matters tt r impossible to rekindle..Originally posted by Siberian:Thanks people... but sadly i still cant really forget about her
N wat did u do to piss her tt bad?
If u want.. u can PM me.. cheer up pal..
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Cos was looking at her photo, make me remember of her. quite difficult to forget her as she is my 1st. Actually the breakup might be due to comparing myself and her ex as one of the factors.Originally posted by Devil1976:So what's happening today...? Why suddenly mentions it...?
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what happened? why she suddenly don't want to talk to you? you must find out the reason first. ok after that then see lor. tell us more about it we might be able to help...i think
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Siberian, the past is haunting you but what the both of you had is over... I've had a few exs in the past and I have to admit that I still feel something when I look at their photo. However, all I have with me are just memories... It is time to move on
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Haiz... understand how ya feel.. i muz admit i havent 100% forgotten my 1st.. but one has to move on whether u like it or not.. initially it's real hard n painful.. but afterall awhile.. the momentum will make it alot easier to handle.. trust me.. move on..Originally posted by Siberian:Cos was looking at her photo, make me remember of her. quite difficult to forget her as she is my 1st. Actually the breakup might be due to comparing myself and her ex as one of the factors.
But den.. u havent disclose to us wat u did to piss her off so badly? -
if she doesn't want to.. then let her be.. no point you keep apologizing.. and be so persistant.. she'll feel even more irritated by you.. let things cool off after a period of time..Originally posted by Siberian:I need help and advice on what to do. I met my ex girlfriend about 3 years ago and we gone out for about 6 months. but after that due to some misunderstanding, we broke up and she refuse to talk to me from then on. i try ways of apologising to her but seem that she doesn't really want to forgive me.
Wat should I do?
then maybe you contact her again.. but try not to talk about the past.. and no more sorry.. she will forgive you by then..
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Well. It's OVER. Just try not to repeat the same mistake again?Originally posted by Siberian:Cos was looking at her photo, make me remember of her. quite difficult to forget her as she is my 1st. Actually the breakup might be due to comparing myself and her ex as one of the factors.
The photo is yours to keep. But if you feel that you can't even handle a photo, I would better advise you to throw it away or keep it somewhere where you'll never get to see it again? -
his balls itchy...Originally posted by Devil1976:So what's happening today...? Why suddenly mentions it...?
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Yoz...Originally posted by Siberian:Cos was looking at her photo, make me remember of her. quite difficult to forget her as she is my 1st. Actually the breakup might be due to comparing myself and her ex as one of the factors.
Juz forgt abt her...n gt on with Ur life...U will meet someone better...
Juz tk it as an experience...dun repeat the same mistake...be a better lover next time...
Its tks time to resolve misunderstandings...it may tk abit too long...for one of my cases...it took 5 yrs...dun rush it...
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A lot of times, when a relationship is broken, it suddenly looks much better than it really is.
I've known people who've taken years to sulk over a broken relationship. Deep inside, they're not just nursing their hurts, they're also secretly nursing hopes that what they had will one day be reinstated and restored. BUT, they forget about all the bad things, choosing only to idealise the good times.
It's time to let go and move on. It's been three years already. There are so many people out there to know and one of them might actually reciprocate your affection.
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fr mine case.. the memories Still goes on.. bt have to move on.. else.. whole life will suffer............ ahhaha
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you can't repair a broken heart. it'll never be the same even if anything comes out of it. make it an effort to think about her less. time will not heal wounds, but it sure does make them feel better.
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sorri error... life realli msut go on.. she is nt what she is.. anymore
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Really...?Originally posted by mahai102:his balls itchy... 
But not as ITCHY as YOURS..??
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Ppl thanks for ur advice... I am trying to pull myself back... Hope can do it within the next few day
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No hurry!Originally posted by Siberian:Ppl thanks for ur advice... I am trying to pull myself back... Hope can do it within the next few day
Good luck!