Err if it was the same scenerio I was in before, it's a girl's way of telling you, there is someone else and that she really has no energy to want to carry on with you anymore.Originally posted by javacly:My girl breakup with me last wk, saying that she no longer love me. The problem is that last time i hurted her alot... she been thru alot of shit for me... that's main reason that cause her to go away.
Then after a big fight she agree to let me try to convince her that I am the one till end of apr. During the quarrel, she mentioned that she is giving another guy chances as well.
Is she really giving me a chance or because of the fight where ugly words are used... then she is forced to give me a chance? or is it she is still in love with me?
Well, I don't know how bad your situation got to. Maybe not as bad as what I was in before but seriously it is difficult to regain the love you once had. It is going to be very difficult. You really have to know what went wrong and fix it once and for all and not fix it just to get her back and after a while, things just slide back to how it was.Originally posted by javacly:elindra, yep. I agreed with you. Her heart is dead liao...
But somehow i still have the slightest hope.
Dun know wat to do to convince her.
maybe u can write her a letter or email on how you feel and what caused you to act the way you did and how r u going to remedy the situation.Originally posted by javacly:Haiz... she refused to meet me...
only can msg / sms / call her.... dun know wat to do....
Agreed. That was what I been through as well and he is now my husband.Originally posted by shirurinu:When a gal has given up all hope.. its over.. especially when a new guy is in the picture who is definitely better in the way u treat her.. chances for u.. negative..
Thats what i've been through... and i'm still very happy with my current bf..
Its always like that ma... coz they dunno what treasure they have got until they lost it... my ex... just told me few days back... he still felt i was the best and he can't help comparing the current gfs with me... but all has been too lateOriginally posted by elindra:Saying that you're suffering don't help, coz she should be used to your begging and crying.
If she said "Serves you right".... Sorry mate things do look very bleak for you.
I'm always wonder why is it when a girl is so nice to a guy, he doesn't appreciate her till it is too late?
Agreed!Originally posted by elindra:Actually I think the girl mentioned she has other options because she is already seeing that option on the side and is telling him to lay-off in an indirect way.
Honestly, the last thing you need to do is beg, cry and act pathetic because that act should be older than blue cheese.Old, Mouldy and Cheesy.
If there is still a tiny spark of chance, you really have to be pro-active and show her that you are serious about fixing the problems. Empty promises won't help.
maybe she "zui ying xin ruan"?Originally posted by javacly:I wrote her long emails.. saying tat i m suffering now and etc..
i just asked how she feels about it. Just one word "huo kai / deserve it"... wat's u guys think?
Originally posted by javacly:Guys... Thanks for all your comments.
I am thinking since she already have someone in mind, I just have to let it go coz i dun wan her to struggle again.
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