Deeper meaning?
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What does it mean if a girl told you she is not ready for a relationship when you said you like her? Is there still hope?
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Yes. It depends on how hard you want to force her. In sales, we learn to make decisions for the customers not the customers make decsions for themselves
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Wouldn't that piss a person off?Originally posted by shade343:Yes. It depends on how hard you want to force her. In sales, we learn to make decisions for the customers not the customers make decsions for themselves So see how well you want to "sell" yourself to her. -
if she says she's not ready yet, it means two thing. you'll have to watch her next moves. if she's still actively seeking your company (as in she still likes to hang out with you, like usual times), she might like you (even if it means you're a friend to her, you still got chance). but if she lessens her contacts with you, she doesn't like you. back off.
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it's not that she isnt ready
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i dunno if this will work nowadays...Originally posted by shade343:Yes. It depends on how hard you want to force her. In sales, we learn to make decisions for the customers not the customers make decsions for themselves So see how well you want to "sell" yourself to her. 
remember that now nearly all working people are intellectuals, have basic education and can think independently, no doubt no perfect information or knowledge though.
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4 words: look for greener pasture
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Yah. I never really agree with hardcore sales tactic like making decisions for the customer and all that. Its just Plain rude.Originally posted by nightzip:i dunno if this will work nowadays...
remember that now nearly all working people are intellectuals, have basic education and can think independently, no doubt no perfect information or knowledge though. 
So best approach is..let the other party decide for themselves In this way, both parties will be happy. Although you dont get what you want, at least you take comfort in the fact that the other person is happy -
There is hope but not at the current moment.
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Sales is not Emotional hence does not involve Attraction or (Love, if present).Originally posted by shade343:Yah. I never really agree with hardcore sales tactic like making decisions for the customer and all that. Its just Plain rude. So best approach is..let the other party decide for themselves In this way, both parties will be happy. Although you dont get what you want, at least you take comfort in the fact that the other person is happy
You need more differences between Love(?) and sales...or do you wish to reconcile between the two?
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sometimes things may just be as easy as it was said.Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:What does it mean if a girl told you she is not ready for a relationship when you said you like her? Is there still hope?
However sometimes it's not.
Humans are never easy to understand.
Update us on your next course of action.
P.S Remember to go slow, do not rush and force things thru.
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Some girls think that this is a way to see if u really love them...
Some girls use this as an excuse to reject you...
You got to really see the character of the person you are talking to and the situation you are in.. -
got hope.. i am 1 living example.. when i was in poly i told this girl tat i like her.. then she told me tat she not ready for a r/s becos she nvr had a bf b4.. since then i waited, sometime it can be v v depress n sad when u see hre.. but we maintain contact, sms etc. for abt 2 years.. after we graduated for a month, we were together.. and till now, we are together for ard 9++ months.. still as loving and sticking to each other...Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:What does it mean if a girl told you she is not ready for a relationship when you said you like her? Is there still hope?
hehe, so dun worry, u still have hope!!! jia you!! -
2 yrs is kinda long. i really wonder. yes if she contacts u wants to go out with u, no if she avoids u.. but wad if none of both?
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Go catch "Hitch".
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Haha, humans are unpredictable...Originally posted by M©+square:sometimes things may just be as easy as it was said.
However sometimes it's not.
Humans are never easy to understand.
Update us on your next course of action.
P.S Remember to go slow, do not rush and force things thru.
Cheers
Thanks... I'm taking it slow now... just having little chats here and there... Now, I just feel great i let it all out... instead of keeping it inside myself. -
Sometimes?Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:Wouldn't that piss a person off? -
yeah.. chances are she really isn't ready for a relatinoship. just bid your time... and wait for further signals ....
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I know of people who pester all day long until the girl scared of him...Originally posted by Devil1976:Sometimes?
randomalien: Yeah, that's kinda what i'm doing now... except contact has dropped a little... will wave an ocassional hi when i run into her... -
There are alot of factors to be considered, it's difficult to judge much based on what you've told us alone...Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:I know of people who pester all day long until the girl scared of him...
randomalien: Yeah, that's kinda what i'm doing now... except contact has dropped a little... will wave an ocassional hi when i run into her... -
When she says not ready, then continue as friends.
She may need time to assess whether u possess the qualities of a good bf.
As long as u maintain the contact, u still have a chance.
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Judge what?Originally posted by Devil1976:There are alot of factors to be considered, it's difficult to judge much based on what you've told us alone...
Anyway, i'm just letting it go slowly now... i don't wish to be an irritant... -
To judge what it actually means when she's not ready for a relationship... It can actually means quite ALOT of different things...Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:Judge what?
Anyway, i'm just letting it go slowly now... i don't wish to be an irritant... -
I believe she's really not ready... considering it's a major timeframe for me and her... i'm taking my Os this year and she is taking hers next year... so i guess its really not time yet... i'll just wait 2 years...Originally posted by Devil1976:To judge what it actually means when she's not ready for a relationship... It can actually means quite ALOT of different things... -
COOL. 'O' levels can be a bad time to be in a relationship. Let alone STARTING one....Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:I believe she's really not ready... considering it's a major timeframe for me and her... i'm taking my Os this year and she is taking hers next year... so i guess its really not time yet... i'll just wait 2 years...