another inequality equation of lifeOriginally posted by ~joy~:It's like when girls flirt/cheat, the guys wil find it super hard to forgive, start scolding #$%#$%,calling ugly names... but when Guys do the same, they expect understanding, forgiveness.. Ever give a thought to the other party before u start? Why guys haf the "right" to hurt their supposedly beloved?
When girls flirt, they expect understanding and forgiveness too. When guys flirt with other girls, they get abused by their gfs as well. So i guess maybe u have over-generalized? It's just plain misfortune to have such a demanding bf who insists on his 'right' to cheat yet at the same time would withhold such 'right' from his gf.Originally posted by ~joy~:It's like when girls flirt/cheat, the guys wil find it super hard to forgive, start scolding #$%#$%,calling ugly names... but when Guys do the same, they expect understanding, forgiveness.. Ever give a thought to the other party before u start? Why guys haf the "right" to hurt their supposedly beloved?
ai ya .. nt all like tat wat ... jus tat u suay .. got some jerk .. peel off eye's stamp .. next time take mag glass examine next bf to be lor ..Originally posted by joai28:well, i do understand your frustration in this issue, but may i beg to differ that not all guys do claim that its not their fault to flirt around. Its definately wrong to flirt regardless of what gender you are, but it depends on age group like what M©+square said. My frenz has this mentality that you only live once, n you are only young once, so what waste your youth?? Its a selfish opinion from our pt of view but one has to be selfish to the best of his own interests. I may be wrong if i say this, but i think perhaps when the person has grown more mature and older, he would eventually get sick n tired of flirting and wants to settle down with his gf. I think people tend to make use of their youth to flirt when they are young. Well, i firmly believe in what comes around goes around. But that doesn't mean your partner wun flirt if you don't. I'm such a victim too but i have since moved on and accepted this fact....
those are irresponsible people. tell him not all guys are like that!!!Originally posted by ~joy~:precisely! once wrong is wrong! so guys shldn't be so ego and demanding.. when u hurt someone admit it.. when promise not to hurt anymore keep it.. no excuse saying all guys are like dat... just because of irresponsibility and playfulness, lots of pple got hurt in the process... not dat i'm saying girls aren't wrong but just dat once a guy cheat in a relationship, the majority dun find it a big mistake.. they will say all guys are like dat so?[/quote]
It doesn't give men more 'rights' to cheat and flirt, but scientifically speaking.. Men tends to have a higher 'explorative' nature and especially in sexual gratifications... This is all in the hormones... A more minority of the girls can face such a problem too... The rest like most of you have already mentioned, would be balanced off by mentality...Originally posted by ~joy~:It's like when girls flirt/cheat, the guys wil find it super hard to forgive, start scolding #$%#$%,calling ugly names... but when Guys do the same, they expect understanding, forgiveness.. Ever give a thought to the other party before u start? Why guys haf the "right" to hurt their supposedly beloved?
Originally posted by ~joy~:It's like when girls flirt/cheat, the guys wil find it super hard to forgive, start scolding #$%#$%,calling ugly names... but when Guys do the same, they expect understanding, forgiveness.. Ever give a thought to the other party before u start? Why guys haf the "right" to hurt their supposedly beloved?
interesting how people always relates cheating with Sex.Originally posted by ShutterBug:Again, there is a simple truth. In fact, a fact; GUYS are lustful animals.
I'm a guy, and I know how SEX, is almost always on our minds.
It's nature. But as we grow older, we see further beyond sex. And sex becomes just a luxury, and not an addiction or lifestyle.
We seek more for intangible values in life and in partnerships.
Yoz...Originally posted by ~joy~:It's like when girls flirt/cheat, the guys wil find it super hard to forgive, start scolding #$%#$%,calling ugly names... but when Guys do the same, they expect understanding, forgiveness.. Ever give a thought to the other party before u start? Why guys haf the "right" to hurt their supposedly beloved?