very tired and traumatised..
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last evening had this paper which i had ample time to study..
but the moment i started the paper...brain crashed.. after answering 1 question with ease. the rest all.....
can tell from the faces of those who left early. so dejected. me too.
anyway..the whole day i havent flipped my notes at all. still got 1 paper left.
feeling extremely tired and bruised trying to study for it. it's not sleep not enuf then tired or something. it's just mentally so tired and stressed out i feel nauseous trying to think abt it.
and my parents?
dad:
mom: ok.
it's plain ironic my friends are more concerned abt me than them.
it;s tiring spending 3 years studying something of no interest to me at all.
now they tell me if i fail, they wont blame me. thanks alot. does it matter ? blame is just an external interpretation of the matter.
it's just like carving a sculpture. u make a booboo. ppl laugh or dont blame u. but hole is there...forever...
thought that there will be some changes or difference after talking to my mum.
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i am feeling pretty depressed last night too. most prob due to the stress of exams. lossen up pal. i when for a midnight jog followed by a cone of chocolate ice cream and after that, i am back on track. try doing things that will take you away frm ur school work for a while. hope u'll feel better and dont give up... remember, its your future!!
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I'm also having my exams fever now. Don't worry, I think it's pretty common to feel stress,tired and confused. *sigh*..it seems to take a whole day just memorise one page of my geog handbook.
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just that i feel really scared of studying only to forget everything. it's the fear of forgetting everything and blanking out at the exams even though u study so hard u make the class genius look stupid. ppl can encourage u etc. but when u cock up in the exams, no one is going to like pity me. that;s why i always hate my parents' so called advices that it's ok.
it's not f.ucking ok
it';s not that i dont want to study but i dont like studying for something that i dont like for 3 years, 6 sems already. i've always hated it. yet my parents despite my repeated pleas for help, dont bother at all. -
quit poly and sign on armyOriginally posted by bismarck:just that i feel really scared of studying only to forget everything. it's the fear of forgetting everything and blanking out at the exams even though u study so hard u make the class genius look stupid. ppl can encourage u etc. but when u cock up in the exams, no one is going to like pity me. that;s why i always hate my parents' so called advices that it's ok.
it's not f.ucking ok
it';s not that i dont want to study but i dont like studying for something that i dont like for 3 years, 6 sems already. i've always hated it. yet my parents despite my repeated pleas for help, dont bother at all. -
hmmm.. i assume u are in poly huh? now your aim should be getting good results so that u can choose the course u like in uni.
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looks like no change. at all. my dad even scolds me. this explain why my mum is all smiles.
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Studying for exams can be stressful... just do your best... I failed subjects in important exams before... but guess if you tried your best, you have done your part... we all excel in different ways...
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i like study!!
becoz got something to kill time!!! 
my exam finish liao..now nth to do
me no $$ so also dunno wad to do -
exams are like that. no big deal abt a piece of white paper, its the marks we attain tts constantly there to harrass, haunt and taunt us.Originally posted by bismarck:just that i feel really scared of studying only to forget everything. it's the fear of forgetting everything and blanking out at the exams even though u study so hard u make the class genius look stupid. ppl can encourage u etc. but when u cock up in the exams, no one is going to like pity me. that;s why i always hate my parents' so called advices that it's ok.
it's not f.ucking ok
it';s not that i dont want to study but i dont like studying for something that i dont like for 3 years, 6 sems already. i've always hated it. yet my parents despite my repeated pleas for help, dont bother at all.
just screwed up in my exams. sigh. i understand your feelings perfectly. jux rem tt no one's there to pity you. nobody pitied me when i got my sucky results. told me dat results weren't everything. how comforting. whn i called up my friend, she said "you did your best! and we're proud of you!" like it didn't help at all. such is the secret place of sorrow when you fail to live up to your expectations, nobody is able to enter into it.
so everytime i get sucky results, i'll just take it as part and parcel of life. we're living beings, prone to failure, unexempted from murphy's law. don't be so hard on yourself. just relax, laugh, take it easy, smile n let everybody wonder what's making you smile despite you gg through such a dark time in your life. if they can't admire you for your results, they'll respect you for your moral strength. -
u have to learn to handle stress.Originally posted by bismarck:last evening had this paper which i had ample time to study..
but the moment i started the paper...brain crashed.. after answering 1 question with ease. the rest all.....
can tell from the faces of those who left early. so dejected. me too.
anyway..the whole day i havent flipped my notes at all. still got 1 paper left.
feeling extremely tired and bruised trying to study for it. it's not sleep not enuf then tired or something. it's just mentally so tired and stressed out i feel nauseous trying to think abt it.
and my parents?
dad:
mom: ok.
it's plain ironic my friends are more concerned abt me than them.
it;s tiring spending 3 years studying something of no interest to me at all.
now they tell me if i fail, they wont blame me. thanks alot. does it matter ? blame is just an external interpretation of the matter.
it's just like carving a sculpture. u make a booboo. ppl laugh or dont blame u. but hole is there...forever...
thought that there will be some changes or difference after talking to my mum.
ha. no.
i think ur parents are doing you a favor for not adding on to the pressure by saying something like 'u better pass or i'll be disappointed.' though we have times of weakness and may need support from others, we also need to bge mentally strong to cope with pressure and stress.
it's the last paper, it's do or die. what will you choose?
from what i went through with my education, taking exams arent stressful at all. -
I more sway ar...I reach the hall... calculator spoil...Then I borrow from my friend...but use wrong formula...about >25 marks fly.... Sway leh.... then I realised that friend sacrifice his calculator for me... Wah Lau...feel so bad...
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u best understand the situation.Originally posted by devoid05:exams are like that. no big deal abt a piece of white paper, its the marks we attain tts constantly there to harrass, haunt and taunt us.
just screwed up in my exams. sigh. i understand your feelings perfectly. jux rem tt no one's there to pity you. nobody pitied me when i got my sucky results. told me dat results weren't everything. how comforting. whn i called up my friend, she said "you did your best! and we're proud of you!" like it didn't help at all. such is the secret place of sorrow when you fail to live up to your expectations, nobody is able to enter into it.
so everytime i get sucky results, i'll just take it as part and parcel of life. we're living beings, prone to failure, unexempted from murphy's law. don't be so hard on yourself. just relax, laugh, take it easy, smile n let everybody wonder what's making you smile despite you gg through such a dark time in your life. if they can't admire you for your results, they'll respect you for your moral strength. -
i am not asking them to threaten me or something.but it's just they dont even say something./.Originally posted by aCid_rAIn:u have to learn to handle stress.
i think ur parents are doing you a favor for not adding on to the pressure by saying something like 'u better pass or i'll be disappointed.' though we have times of weakness and may need support from others, we also need to bge mentally strong to cope with pressure and stress.
it's the last paper, it's do or die. what will you choose?
from what i went through with my education, taking exams arent stressful at all. -
1. Like it or not, you have exams to take and you better do well...Originally posted by bismarck:just that i feel really scared of studying only to forget everything. it's the fear of forgetting everything and blanking out at the exams even though u study so hard u make the class genius look stupid. ppl can encourage u etc. but when u cock up in the exams, no one is going to like pity me. that;s why i always hate my parents' so called advices that it's ok.
it's not f.ucking ok
it';s not that i dont want to study but i dont like studying for something that i dont like for 3 years, 6 sems already. i've always hated it. yet my parents despite my repeated pleas for help, dont bother at all.
2. Be INDEPENDENT. Want GOOD RESULTS? Be RESPONSIBLE for YOURSELF. Be a GROWN UP. Be ADULT. STOP depending on others for what YOU wish to achieve. And least to speak, blaming others for your own incompetence.
3. If you think your friends can give better consoles than your parents, look for your friends then?
If you're afraid that you may forget what you've studied for during your exams, you're probably not studying the right way or efficiently... Try to revise your studies method. -
mi stress too sia...
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so long nvr see u..thought u roasted liaoOriginally posted by hopy:mi stress too sia... -
can't be help wat.. now exam period wor.. must tie 'gambadei' on forehead u knowOriginally posted by bismarck:so long nvr see u..thought u roasted liao