Give them the benefit of doubt!Originally posted by dragg:time and again we hear people say they are too busy..... so much so it has now become a cliche.
wonder what makes them so busy?
call me skeptical if you want.Originally posted by ILPSY:Give them the benefit of doubt!
Some are really too busy, whereas the others are juz finding excuses!![]()
Originally posted by tan_william:How many of the people here will spend some time in the day just to totally concentrate and listen to what your gf/bf/wife/hubby/family got to say??me have been getting alot of complains from my friends that they felt neglected and seen some of my friends breaking up just because their partners couldn't even give them 5 mins of their time to listen to them..giving them a 'am i not even worth 5 mins' kinda feeling..most of the time the other party will be doing something else when my friends are talking to them..yes..they could really be listening..but the doing other things action will turn off the speaker..giving them a 'I am not interested' feeling..thus the speaker will end up not saying anything..or go find other person to pour out what they wanna say..in the long run this will become a very big gap/drift to the couple..
Me just feel that in each day..there are 1440 mins..so just concentrate 5-10 mins each day to listen to what your other half have to say is not alot of your time..think it will help you both understand each other more..
that's the way mdm!!Originally posted by FeowFeow:*grinz* Dun haf tt problem wif my guy
We take time out to listen to each other's day, & we made it a routine so tt both of us can unwind & tok out problems or happee & farnie moments @ work.
THEN, we start tokking or doing other thgs : )
FeowFeow
Originally posted by dragg:that's the way mdm!!![]()