help..help
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dear all, i got to know this girl few months back and we got started off quite well as ordinary friends(i do like her abit). Although she was the one who asked for my no. first, however the impression she gave me was that she just treats me as a friend and said that we could meet up when she's free or vice versa...(BTW she has a BF). I've sms her 4 times to ask her out for dinner---she gave me a valid reason for not being able to go out with me for the 1st 2 times and for the last 2, she did 'nt reply at all. Each sms i sent her is about 1 to 1 1/2 weeks apart...and i get to see her about every 3 weeks....NOW the problem is she has been avoiding me and treating me like a total stranger everytime i get to see her and this happen ever since she did'nt reply my 3rd sms....
B4 we exchanged numbers i did hinted to her (in an indirect and not serious) that i like her....
I ask my peers and some said that i might have offended her by IRRITATING her...but how is that possible?? i dun see her very often and i dun sms her very often as well..i have not even tried calling her before....someone pls help... -
just let her know that you are her good friend as she already has a bf... maybe it will help... but you must also really treat her as a friend and nothing more...
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Yes. If u treat her something more..than just friends.. then To hell I'll like to welcome you. She has a bf liao..so chill...Originally posted by icecloud:just let her know that you are her good friend as she already has a bf... maybe it will help... but you must also really treat her as a friend and nothing more... -
Dun be desperate 1st. Chill. She dunno how to appreciate u. find someone else who does.
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er...sounds like a situation i was in b4.Originally posted by nameuser:dear all, i got to know this girl few months back and we got started off quite well as ordinary friends(i do like her abit). Although she was the one who asked for my no. first, however the impression she gave me was that she just treats me as a friend and said that we could meet up when she's free or vice versa...(BTW she has a BF). I've sms her 4 times to ask her out for dinner---she gave me a valid reason for not being able to go out with me for the 1st 2 times and for the last 2, she did 'nt reply at all. Each sms i sent her is about 1 to 1 1/2 weeks apart...and i get to see her about every 3 weeks....NOW the problem is she has been avoiding me and treating me like a total stranger everytime i get to see her and this happen ever since she did'nt reply my 3rd sms....
B4 we exchanged numbers i did hinted to her (in an indirect and not serious) that i like her....
I ask my peers and some said that i might have offended her by IRRITATING her...but how is that possible?? i dun see her very often and i dun sms her very often as well..i have not even tried calling her before....someone pls help...
but dun worry i am not the ger in question. 
if she rejects ur dinner invitations so many times & doesnt even want to reply to ur smses, chances are tat u stand no chance lor...she is avoiding u so as to let u 'si xin'(die heart). mebbe at first she treat u like an ordinary fren, but when she noes u dun think likewise, she wants to tone down ur feelings lor. -
there are so many nice girls out there. why make yourself so miserable. get out before you get too involved.
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Chill out- this girl obviously has no romantic interest in you. It's time to go out & meet other gals.
If she wants to avoid you, just put on that cool act and act as though you are not bothered by it-and that you have better things to worry about. Eventually, she'll feel silly and stop avoiding you. -
"Back off. You're too close for comfort." The signals are pretty obvious.
Some girls have boyfriends, and they have other male friends. The latter are just friends to keep them company when the boyfriend is busy, when they need opinions from another male perspective on certain matters, or when they just simply need a listening ear. Read some of the posts in this forum, you may understand more from their experiences.
She is not the only pebble on the beach. -
thanks all, i know what to do now
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Since she already have a bf.. i suggest u move on...just like others said..there are still many gals out there.
Good luck...hold on to this friendship...tell her u only treat her as friend and nothing else
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When girls like you they will call and call
When girls tired of you they cannot even stand the sight of you.
Final Result is that she sian of you liao
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"and said that we could meet up when she's free or vice versa..."
u know wad it means? it is a way of talking/chitchating. i got friends whom i have lost contact with, normally they will add this kind of line during the conversation is abt to finish.
then normally i will reply yes to this type of question.
and i think u got no chance to get into advance stage with her. please, she got bf liao. dun disturb her