My ex doesn't want to patch with me..

• Nelstar

  11 Apr 05, 12:25

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  i dumped her..then i want patch

  Eat well, you're not doing yourself any good starving yourself. Go for short walk. If you want someone to talk to anytime, gimme a ring.
  
  
• Puremilk28

  11 Apr 05, 12:26

  it's your fault man how can you do this kind of thing patch and eagers to recouncil what do you treat your ex as a toy??? just play if you wish to and so forth alamak guys man
• Omega-broly

  11 Apr 05, 12:28

  You must have acted irrationaly probably in a fit of anger or confusion or anything.Try explaning to yr gf.
• hyuuga neji

  11 Apr 05, 14:00

  why dun you say the reason for breakup???
  cuz you 2 timed her... tats rite???
  
  move on lah... you broke her heart already...
  you think she'll let you break it again?
  once bitten twice shy...
• Axelheat755

  11 Apr 05, 14:02

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  i don't want to move on yet...haiz..
  what should i do...

  u open a thread in sgforum and see all the crap ppl tell u inside lor
• SMAPLionHeart

  11 Apr 05, 14:08

  She doesn't want to listen to me, i know her new bf, her new bf is a jerk..
  no phone call, no sms or whatever..haiz..
  
  how??
• Axelheat755

  11 Apr 05, 14:09

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  She doesn't want to listen to me, i know her new bf, her new bf is a jerk..
  no phone call, no sms or whatever..haiz..
  
  how??

  to her, u r a jerk too...
  
  think she prefers tat jerk to u this jerk...
  
  so how?
• SMAPLionHeart

  11 Apr 05, 14:10

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  to her, u r a jerk too...
  
  think she prefers tat jerk to u this jerk...
  
  so how?

  im a worser jerk
  
  
  
• hyuuga neji

  11 Apr 05, 14:12

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  She doesn't want to listen to me, i know her new bf, her new bf is a jerk..
  no phone call, no sms or whatever..haiz..
  
  how??

  in wat way is he a jerk???
  jerk as in will dump her for another gal???
  then you are a jerk too...
  
  move on... you lost her liao...
  if you really love her...
  wish her good health...
  wish her happiness...
• SMAPLionHeart

  11 Apr 05, 14:15

  Originally posted by hyuuga neji:

  in wat way is he a jerk???
  jerk as in will dump her for another gal???
  then you are a jerk too...
  
  move on... you lost her liao...
  if you really love her...
  wish her good health...
  wish her happiness...

  cause he take my gf of course he is a jerk
• hyuuga neji

  11 Apr 05, 14:22

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  cause he take my gf of course he is a jerk

  dude... you dumped her...
  she's free to find someone who will take care of her...
  and she has...
  
  ask yourself...
  do you really love her???
  if you do... be happy for her...
  
  you've hurt her already...
  if she's happy with her new guy now..
  wish her happiness...
• SMAPLionHeart

  11 Apr 05, 14:28

  Originally posted by hyuuga neji:

  dude... you dumped her...
  she's free to find someone who will take care of her...
  and she has...
  
  ask yourself...
  do you really love her???
  if you do... be happy for her...
  
  you've hurt her already...
  if she's happy with her new guy now..
  wish her happiness...

  knn wish her happiness.....................................
  you crazy is it???????????
  arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
  
  feel like hooting that farker..
• Nelstar

  11 Apr 05, 14:36

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  knn wish her happiness.....................................
  you crazy is it???????????
  arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
  
  feel like hooting that farker..

  First of all, the guy may be a jerk, but it does not give you the rights to attack him. Secondly, you cannot enforce your own beliefs into another's life. She had chosen to be with him, so you had to learn to cope with that fact.
  
  I acknowledge that it's hard to accept her with another guy, but you are not her. So you should not judge what is good for her.
• hyuuga neji

  11 Apr 05, 14:41

  Originally posted by Nelstar:

  First of all, the guy may be a jerk, but it does not give you the rights to attack him. Secondly, you cannot enforce your own beliefs into another's life. She had chosen to be with him, so you had to learn to cope with that fact.
  
  I acknowledge that it's hard to accept her with another guy, but you are not her. So you should not judge what is good for her.

  the guy's a jerk only coz he's with SMAP's ex...
  to me... tat dun make him a jerk...
  SMAP--you are the jerk...
  
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  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:
  
  cause he take my gf of course he is a jerk
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• shinta

  11 Apr 05, 14:53

  do u love her?
• Axelheat755

  11 Apr 05, 14:55

  Originally posted by shinta:

  do u love her?

  and the next question is : u want her back bcos u love her or u buey song she with another now??
• shinta

  11 Apr 05, 14:59

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  and the next question is : u want her back bcos u love her or u buey song she with another now??

  no lar...
  
  wanna ask... if he feels happy when she is happy...
• SMAPLionHeart

  11 Apr 05, 15:04

  I DON'T KNOW LAH!
  
  THIS AUNT AGONY FORUM is here for what want?
  
  i post here oso nothing can be done to help!
  
  WT.F!!
• Nelstar

  11 Apr 05, 15:19

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  I DON'T KNOW LAH!
  
  THIS AUNT AGONY FORUM is here for what want?
  
  i post here oso nothing can be done to help!
  
  WT.F!!

  chill. first of all, you can vent your anger at us but it wouldnt help. I understand your hurt, because the first is the most complicated one. There are many of us here who had been through that bad patch before.
  
  You must understand no one owes you a living and not everyone sympathize with you and this is an open forum. I will recommend you to neglect those offensive posts and try to calm down. We can't help you, if you wont listen. Every case is unique and I know you are feeling devastated.
  
  Call me, or else we can talk tonight after my work. I can only offer a listening ear and whatever advice I think is good for you. Eventually you are the one that has to shake it off.
  
  
• SMAPLionHeart

  11 Apr 05, 15:24

  haiz you all help me but i treat you all so badly..
  i really feel bad..
  
  
• Nelstar

  11 Apr 05, 15:30

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  haiz you all help me but i treat you all so badly..
  i really feel bad..
  
  

  Don't worry, I'm not taking it to heart.
  
  
• Devil1976

  11 Apr 05, 16:45

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  I DON'T KNOW LAH!
  
  THIS AUNT AGONY FORUM is here for what want?
  
  i post here oso nothing can be done to help!
  
  WT.F!!

  Well... At least for a start, AA probably didn't much of an advice to dump your gf for no good reason...?
  
  ACTION is taken by YOU. Learn to be RESPONSIBLE for it...
• mahai102

  11 Apr 05, 16:57

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  What done cannot be undone.

  yes, oh wise one...such wise words...should i put up an altar & pray to you every day, oh confusius...shall i put up some dog poo for you to eat at your altar?
  
  
• SGpork

  11 Apr 05, 16:58

  dont patch...
  
  got virus..
  
  wait awhile...more...
  
  
• LazerLordz

  11 Apr 05, 17:18

  It's natural to see the other guy as the evil fellow.But if you want to prove that you are better than him, you should not try and cast aspersions on him, unless he is really mistreating and abusing her.
  
  Be yourself, get rid of the bad stuff she disliked about your character if any, and just pray.No guarantees, but your chances are better if you are in still her good books.