Should i meet her???
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been thinking... broke up wif my 1st luv almost 2 yrs back. i found a new gf since then. been together for 7mths already. somehow in my head, i kept thinking of asking my 1st luv out for a chat (ie. catch-up session). our r/s din end well. she broke up wif me, promised that there is no 3rd party involved in her decision and she wun get into a r/s for at least half a yr. den a few wks later, she got together wif tis guy she became close to b4 we broke up. i was very very hurt but being e anti-wishy-washy person i was, i was determined not to see her or call her as i want to get out of her life. it was not easy at dat time, but i was determined to hav a clean break. a few months back, she sms me say whether i am free to meet up. i din reply her cos i dun realli wan to see her den. but recently, had this thought dat mayb we shld meet up, talk abt it n move on. but shld i tell my gf abt tis?? scared she might b jealous. she sure say "meet ur ex for wat???" aiyo... how?? pls kindly advise.
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Its up to you really. I guess maybe you are still perplexed about your ex-gf's separation. If this matters a lot to you, i think you shld meet her up and clear up the air. But, of course, let your gf know abt your meeting. Unless you still show signs of thinking of your ex, I dun think any girl will mind.
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if u wanna mit her, wat r u expectin..??
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tell her better ba...
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I think he juz want to know the reason of their breakup.
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i already knw e reason y we broke up. seriously i dunno wat to expect when we do meet up. i m very happy wif my gf nw n i tink she is happy wif her bf too. dunno whether there is even a need to meet her... *confused*
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since you say you noe the reason for breakup...
and you're happy with your current gf...
then dun meet you ex...
dun go round looking for trouble...
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by all means go & meet her...make sure your zip is undone...see if she grabs your lanjiao...
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Ehh... wat is there to talk abt, since you oredi noe the reason for your breakup?!Originally posted by LAN^keith^CER:been thinking... broke up wif my 1st luv almost 2 yrs back. i found a new gf since then. been together for 7mths already. somehow in my head, i kept thinking of asking my 1st luv out for a chat (ie. catch-up session). our r/s din end well. she broke up wif me, promised that there is no 3rd party involved in her decision and she wun get into a r/s for at least half a yr. den a few wks later, she got together wif tis guy she became close to b4 we broke up. i was very very hurt but being e anti-wishy-washy person i was, i was determined not to see her or call her as i want to get out of her life. it was not easy at dat time, but i was determined to hav a clean break. a few months back, she sms me say whether i am free to meet up. i din reply her cos i dun realli wan to see her den. but recently, had this thought dat mayb we shld meet up, talk abt it n move on. but shld i tell my gf abt tis?? scared she might b jealous. she sure say "meet ur ex for wat???" aiyo... how?? pls kindly advise.
Dun create more troubles for yourself... Unless you are not satisfied with the reason, and trying to find a "real" reason behind it. But, even if you know the "real" reason, will it help? -
Ask for her opinion.... If she's truly agreeable to it, then maybe you can just meet up with your ex for 'dun know wat'.... But if she minds, kindly try to respect her decision as you also don't know what for you need to meet up with your ex yeah...?Originally posted by LAN^keith^CER:i already knw e reason y we broke up. seriously i dunno wat to expect when we do meet up. i m very happy wif my gf nw n i tink she is happy wif her bf too. dunno whether there is even a need to meet her... *confused*
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"Let sleeping dogs lie."
You said you are anti-wishy-washy. Don't break your own rules. -
You can always be friends after you broken up with your gf. Meeting up for a catching up session is nothing wrong. Of course, i think you should at least tell your current gf abt the meeting. If she have trust in you, she shouldn't have any doubts abt your feelings or have the unnecessary emotion of jealousness.Originally posted by LAN^keith^CER:been thinking... broke up wif my 1st luv almost 2 yrs back. i found a new gf since then. been together for 7mths already. somehow in my head, i kept thinking of asking my 1st luv out for a chat (ie. catch-up session). our r/s din end well. she broke up wif me, promised that there is no 3rd party involved in her decision and she wun get into a r/s for at least half a yr. den a few wks later, she got together wif tis guy she became close to b4 we broke up. i was very very hurt but being e anti-wishy-washy person i was, i was determined not to see her or call her as i want to get out of her life. it was not easy at dat time, but i was determined to hav a clean break. a few months back, she sms me say whether i am free to meet up. i din reply her cos i dun realli wan to see her den. but recently, had this thought dat mayb we shld meet up, talk abt it n move on. but shld i tell my gf abt tis?? scared she might b jealous. she sure say "meet ur ex for wat???" aiyo... how?? pls kindly advise.
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tks all! if realli do meet up, its will be indeed a catching up session. we used to b best of frens b4 we started e r/s, nw thinking back e friendship like quite wasted. anyway i got a gem with me now...
wonder hw many couples realli carry on their friendship after they break..?? muz b those who break on amicable terms i tink... 
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how do you know whether they are still together?Originally posted by LAN^keith^CER:i already knw e reason y we broke up. seriously i dunno wat to expect when we do meet up. i m very happy wif my gf nw n i tink she is happy wif her bf too. dunno whether there is even a need to meet her... *confused* -
Sadly, very few. Often, a broken relationship ends up with a broken friendship. Thats why i never wana date my close female friends..Originally posted by LAN^keith^CER:wonder hw many couples realli carry on their friendship after they break..?? -
how can a break be amicable i wonder? lolOriginally posted by LAN^keith^CER:tks all! if realli do meet up, its will be indeed a catching up session. we used to b best of frens b4 we started e r/s, nw thinking back e friendship like quite wasted. anyway i got a gem with me now... wonder hw many couples realli carry on their friendship after they break..?? muz b those who break on amicable terms i tink...
anyway just tell ur gf the truth la... dun try to hide... -
happened to chance on her n her bf pix on friendster. anyway glad for her that she found someone her type n loves her.Originally posted by gal gal:how do you know whether they are still together?
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u can b amazed to find out there r such examples. some couples break cos they r simply too bored with one another n they still go out as frens.. my female cousin has so many bfs b4 dat once in a while she will call them out cheong. its depends on hows ur mentality.Originally posted by Axelheat755:how can a break be amicable i wonder? lol
anyway just tell ur gf the truth la... dun try to hide... -
tats true...Originally posted by Axelheat755:how can a break be amicable i wonder? lol
anyway just tell ur gf the truth la... dun try to hide... -
why regret about breaking up when you have already caused so much pain to yourself and ex.
are you going to hurt another person now by going back to your ex? -
What is the point since u are happy with your present gf.
U will have problems later if your ex keeps contacting u.
Since u met her once, she may want to keep on meeting up.
She may be bored with her present guy & looking for some attention. -
BRING UR GF GO ALONG LA! Y CANT MEET ?? haha
unless u have somethings up ur SLEEVES!!!
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This is ironic, you're happy with your new gf having fun lada lada and you suddenly want to meet your ex knowing that you might REKINDLE your flame towards her and making your girlfriend JEALOUS.. BS.. total BS