should i teach her?
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hi ppl,i used to be a frequent hangout here
ok,let me get the story on the road
I used to have a crush on this girl,we were good friends and we argued(personal matter) and didn't talk for 2 years and now we are just normal friends.....
ok....now a few days ago,she asked me if i could give her tution for english.As my stand of a friend,i said yes...after all,she needs help and i am avaible to help her.
The thing is this,i no longer like her,and basically we got nothing to talk about..i am not saying i am anti-social but when it comes to girls,i am a klutz in it unless they start the topics.(quiet and loner guy when it comes to girls)
Anyway what i am afraid is i might start liking her again due to the tution stuff but i want to help her as a friend,i know she doesn't like me,i am only afraid that i might like her again...what do i do?
p.s:my friends said my offer to teach her english was a wrong move as it showed that i still like her,i wonder if it is true(maybe i just can't sense it?Hmmm....) -
send her to me .. I teach and earn $
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you too much into the future. It is good to help her but don't dig too deep into the situation. If you are afraid thing might happen the way you think... then let her know of your kind intention to help as a friend and nothing more in the begining. Don't do anything that give her the wrong idea. I alway believe that there are friendship between the two sexes ... Act normal lor... all the best to you.
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if all you want is to offer her tuition why let other people's opinion bother you.
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but she asked me for help,shouldn't she already tot of mine kind intention,what else would she be thinking?Originally posted by ORIGAMIST:you too much into the future. It is good to help her but don't dig too deep into the situation. If you are afraid thing might happen the way you think... then let her know of your kind intention to help as a friend and nothing more in the begining. Don't do anything that give her the wrong idea. I alway believe that there are friendship between the two sexes ... Act normal lor... all the best to you. 
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So she asked u and u want to help. Since u have agreed, do it but let her know u r helping cos, she is a frend and nothing more than tat..... be diplomatic ... if she really want to come back and find that as an excuse and u didn't put it nicely and properly, u may be in for some trouble. so be careful... also it make thing easy when you both meet to study lor ...Originally posted by StarPuppy:but she asked me for help,shouldn't she already tot of mine kind intention,what else would she be thinking? -
If you feel that you can't handle the situation...Originally posted by StarPuppy:hi ppl,i used to be a frequent hangout here
ok,let me get the story on the road
I used to have a crush on this girl,we were good friends and we argued(personal matter) and didn't talk for 2 years and now we are just normal friends.....
ok....now a few days ago,she asked me if i could give her tution for english.As my stand of a friend,i said yes...after all,she needs help and i am avaible to help her.
The thing is this,i no longer like her,and basically we got nothing to talk about..i am not saying i am anti-social but when it comes to girls,i am a klutz in it unless they start the topics.(quiet and loner guy when it comes to girls)
Anyway what i am afraid is i might start liking her again due to the tution stuff but i want to help her as a friend,i know she doesn't like me,i am only afraid that i might like her again...what do i do?
p.s:my friends said my offer to teach her english was a wrong move as it showed that i still like her,i wonder if it is true(maybe i just can't sense it?Hmmm....)
Make up an excuse and decline her offer? -
Just tell her the truth loh... Let her know your dilema. I think she will understand lah...
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Originally posted by Devil1976:If you feel that you can't handle the situation...
Make up an excuse and decline her offer?
Precisely.
If you can't handle the situation, it really helps by NOT implicating yourself into it.
Cheers -
wats wrong with u liking her?
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Yoz...
If U r afraid U cant control Ur feelings...dun go lah...it juz makes tins more complicated...
But giving her tution means U 2 gt more chances together...maybe U will haf a chance with her lehz...U nv know...
No matter wat...gd luck dude...lolx...
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U are only thinking about liking her again because U havent really let her go.if U really did,then there wouldnt be an issue of giving her tuition without liking her romantically again.Originally posted by StarPuppy:p.s:my friends said my offer to teach her english was a wrong move as it showed that i still like her,i wonder if it is true(maybe i just can't sense it?Hmmm....)