advise me too
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someone send my gf home today by car. i called her hp wanting to talk to her, then she say explain to me next time y her friend send her home todae. then i ask y now cant explain then she say dun wei nan her.
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do you trust her?
slowly hear her out. -
do you trust her?
slowly hear her out. -
Have a little faith in urself lah.
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i going to see wad she going to say loh..haiz..
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be patient. Let her have her space. You also remain calm and if anything happens, you can also handle ah
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haiz..i sms her, nvr reply, called her, hung up then now nvr on hp..
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She is probably tired or busy. Give her time.
Maybe it is also a good opportunity for you to reflect on yourself and the relationship. If she had a change of heart, it wouldn't be just because the guy sent her home by car. -
patience is a virtue.
rushing onto things may make it worse. give a little space and time to both of u. -
she now haven reach home...
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Sorry if i sound pessimistic guys... but it sure sounds fishy... Keep us in view.
Meanwhile, be calm and try to act as per normal. (=nonchalant?) -
mayb handphone low batt le...dun tink so much...
love is all abt trust. -
thanks for all ur advice..
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She's being intimidated. You can't do anything except to stand strongly by her. She will have to stand up against the advances of this guy by herself... If you interfere it would turn into a more messy situation and your GF may end up hating you for it. This guy probably experienced a broken relationship and is telling your GF all about it.. Your GF's most probably a nice and kind girl.. Who listens attentively, take cares of all her friends.. blar blar.. Give her time anyway.. If you are really that persistent in trying to know what happen, ask her good friends lor.
Oh well.. Whatever happens, Stay firm! Do not weaken! 
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I agree with all of the above posts. Don't think too much about things that hasn't happen yet....whatever it may be. You do need to be calm and be patient. For your sake, for your girlfriend's sake as well as for the sake of the relationship. She will definitely appreciates your understanding. Like the earlier post, have faith in yourself. You cannot control how others speak or react but you can control your ownself.....your speech, your attitude and your reactions.
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Are you always asking her about such things?Originally posted by usck:haiz..i sms her, nvr reply, called her, hung up then now nvr on hp.. -
Originally posted by usck:someone send my gf home today by car. i called her hp wanting to talk to her, then she say explain to me next time y her friend send her home todae. then i ask y now cant explain then she say dun wei nan her.
haiz..
Only to have someone send her back home by car... and you have already shaken the entire trust foundation of your relationship.
Unless you are telling me that there are already problems in your relationship, (she is showing signs of drifting for example) you ought to focus more on important aspects of your love instead of worrying over silly things like this.
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probably that someone likes her, and she is trying to be diplomatic about it by accepting the ride but doesn't want to say it straight out that she doesn't fancy the guy in that way. u worry too much. u know how much it pisses gals off when u start coming up with conspiracy theories that she's cheating on u? it pisses gals off so much that she starts wondering if she should be with you. so well done i say.
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maybe i too rush liao. but there is nth wrong with me and my gf. haiz..maybe is think too much. just now she reply me, say that is her friend, go out eat supper and thats it. and she also say dun restrict her freedom..
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she's scared she later yue4 miao3 yue4 hei1, explain to you later scared you'll even more dun trust her. give her assurance loh...
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Yoz...
Maybe she have her reasons for accepting the car ride...it doesnt mean anitin...relax...
Listen to wat she has to say before deciding on Ur next course of action...
Haf faith in Ur relationship...dun stress her by being overly sensitive to such tins...tok to her...explain to her abt Ur worries n doubts...ask for an explanation...I mean ask...nt demand an explanation...give her space...
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It's always good to trust your partner in a relationship...cos that is positive to your relationship growth.Originally posted by usck:someone send my gf home today by car. i called her hp wanting to talk to her, then she say explain to me next time y her friend send her home todae. then i ask y now cant explain then she say dun wei nan her.
haiz..
Negatively, you could suspect her for all you want...but it will only lead to misunderstanding and minus to your relationship growth.
Well, put it this way...if she really wants to leave you, there's nothing you can do about it except to beg her to stay on a bit longer..which she will still leave you eventually. The same applies to you too...if you really want out of this relationship, nobody can stop you from doing so. :p
Believe her and she will definitely tell you her reasons later. If she keeps avoiding on that topic, ignore her and start looking for someone else who will be honest in a relationship.
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then give her the freedom.Originally posted by usck:maybe i too rush liao. but there is nth wrong with me and my gf. haiz..maybe is think too much. just now she reply me, say that is her friend, go out eat supper and thats it. and she also say dun restrict her freedom.. -
to cut the story short..i will summarise it
this morning we break up le..
but she called me and told me that she crying for the whole morning and 'she bu de wo'!!! we have patched up le!!!
now she going to tell that guy to give up liao
me so happy!! feel like crying!!! -
lub lub my stefanie!!!
paiseh me too happy liao. please pardon me