why? no way to improve the situation?Originally posted by TulipSs:i no longer have feelings for my hubby yet i stay on and sacrifice my life because of the kids?if u were me, will u do dat? please advise!
there is really nothing you can do to improve this situation? from what i see,all problems lies with money..but as you've said,its already been 10years and im sure that your kids are also quite big right now...have you tot of their future? like they don't have any daddy?Originally posted by TulipSs:nope....he is a very selfish person...i married him at a v young age...he is 10yrs my senior...he a v stingy towards me and my kids....when i ask him to pay fer kid's tuition fees....he keep saying he got no money...and he always blame me dat i did not help pay bills...yet he can buy a car and go drinking everyday and somtimes he dun even come n slp. He control me since e day i married him..he dun allow me to work but i insist i wanna go out n work to make some money..cos all along i am leading a hand to mouth basis...i have to ask him for money everyday even to buy a pkt of salt. it been 10over yrs. somtimes i ask myself y should i waste my time on him..i m still young...
Originally posted by TulipSs:nope....he is a very selfish person...i married him at a v young age...he is 10yrs my senior...he a v stingy towards me and my kids....when i ask him to pay fer kid's tuition fees....he keep saying he got no money...and he always blame me dat i did not help pay bills...yet he can buy a car and go drinking everyday and somtimes he dun even come n slp. He control me since e day i married him..he dun allow me to work but i insist i wanna go out n work to make some money..cos all along i am leading a hand to mouth basis...i have to ask him for money everyday even to buy a pkt of salt. it been 10over yrs. somtimes i ask myself y should i waste my time on him..i m still young...
Strangely her type of cases is actually quite common. I know of at least 2 failed marriage whereby the guy over control the lady and in the end physically abused her. Both cases ends up in divorce whereby the lady bring up the kids alone. Wonder why girls keep falling for such overdominating jerks.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Complicating past brings forth complicating future.
If you married for reasons other than love... you will end the marriage reasons other than love.
Then WHY got married in the first place?
Shotgun?
Cheers
I would advise you to do that, but also spare a thought for yourself and create a part of life where at least a portion of your own well-being is being concerned... That will just do everybody more good ultimately....?Originally posted by TulipSs:i no longer have feelings for my hubby yet i stay on and sacrifice my life because of the kids?if u were me, will u do dat? please advise!