Dear Galtwenty,
If someone accepts me for any reasons other than love, it wouldn't be the best reason for someone to be with me. If a guy is moved to accept you because of pity, he may actually be feeling a sense of obligation. Would you feel good to have him obligated to be with you, or would you prefer if he's with you because he's in love with you & is fully willing?
Just because you're "suffering" due to your love for him doesn't mean that you're the only person in the world "suffering". There're millions in the world in the same situation as you. And just because you're "suffering" due to your love for him doesn't mean he has to give up a girl he loves for you outta pity.
If 1 day he realises he loves you, then he'll be moved by your emotions. Otherwise, don't expect anything more.
Added: Oh by the way, your "suffering" may Not even come close to the love another has for him, if he's already in another relationship.
Sorry if I'm harsh, but time for some home truths, girl.
FeowFeow
Originally posted by GaLtwenty:
anyone thinks likewise?
Will a person who formerly didnt respond to your advances eventually reciprocate later as he/she will pity for u?
Will the person finally realise and accept u that u are suffering so much emotionally because of him or her?