true love?! mai gong la~~~
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do u guys think there is something call true love? ok la..maybe in the beginning of a rs u guys think is true love true love, sweet sweet de..but eventually? hai bu shi pi pia~~~
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believe, and you shall find it
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i guess u don have have a gd time with ur ex gf...Originally posted by HaRou:do u guys think there is something call true love? ok la..maybe in the beginning of a rs u guys think is true love true love, sweet sweet de..but eventually? hai bu shi pi pia~~~ -
find? haha...great..even if u think that u have found ur true love, it may not true love for the other party...
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love will only come with faith. Without that in you, you will never see it even if it hits you in your eyes. So instead of trying so hard to find true love, cultivate the faith in it first in yourself.Originally posted by HaRou:find? haha...great..even if u think that u have found ur true love, it may not true love for the other party...
i.c.y -
ya..i really dun have a gd time with them.. when i started each and 1 rs, i always have 1 thinking in mind.. that is to, treat her as my last gf ( as in wife la )... i give them all sort of surprises i can think of, so that their days with me will not be boring.. so that they will feel that they are special to me.. and they are important enough for me to give them this surprises... but..true enough.. they took me for granted.. and broke my heart... wat is this? isit really that nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai?
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Originally posted by HaRou:
"'Tis better to have loved and lost
ya..i really dun have a gd time with them.. when i started each and 1 rs, i always have 1 thinking in mind.. that is to, treat her as my last gf ( as in wife la )... i give them all sort of surprises i can think of, so that their days with me will not be boring.. so that they will feel that they are special to me.. and they are important enough for me to give them this surprises... but..true enough.. they took me for granted.. and broke my heart... wat is this? isit really that nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai?
Than never to have loved at all."
- Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Not necessarily. It may also mean you have not met the right one yet. If the girls you've gone after didn't appreciate all that you've done for them, that's their loss, not yours. What's more, you are fortunate they left before you made any greater commitment, as in marriage.
Lighten up. Cynicism gets people nowhere. -
haiz........true bah... maybe if something cock up again.. i will use ur line to comfort myself
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Originally posted by HaRou:
Haha... "jing cheng suo zhi, jin shi wei kai" (perseverance opens golden stone).
haiz........true bah... maybe if something cock up again.. i will use ur line to comfort myself
Good luck!
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If you are below 18, Sorry, the girl is just exploring the depths of love.
And you would be just like a dog. I used to be one, although she treats me very nice, think further, think much much deeper. Instead of spending resources and time on a girl, why you focus more upon achievements? That way, you would feel more satisfied.. ANd girls would go to you instead of you going to them.
Don't be fooled by them.. One of the primary contributing factors on why we go onto relationships when during teenage period is because of man's raging hormones.
Why was i such a fool,
to ever believe in you?
Why couldn't you scram,
and let me live alone and fly.
Hopes dashed when the bittersweet of jealousy burns into my mind
Agony felt when you couldn't give me a proper reason
Fatality struck when you told me it was over
Hell manifested when you went steady with another guy
right in front of me.
I hate ya. You wrecked my sane life
I detest love. It made suffer through my life
I ignored care, as it made me more soft
I Killed myself, My evil side would stay forever
Written by me, when i Felt displaced by my GF ..
Take care manz... Guys are destined to be taken control by women
after all, who doesn't get borned by a woman? -
Originally posted by HaRou:ya..i really dun have a gd time with them.. when i started each and 1 rs, i always have 1 thinking in mind.. that is to, treat her as my last gf ( as in wife la )... i give them all sort of surprises i can think of, so that their days with me will not be boring.. so that they will feel that they are special to me.. and they are important enough for me to give them this surprises... but..true enough.. they took me for granted.. and broke my heart... wat is this? isit really that nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai?
It's not healthy to dwell into the Ideal person you wish to see.Originally posted by Tuatau:"'Tis better to have loved and lost
Than never to have loved at all."
- Alfred, Lord Tennyson
Not necessarily. It may also mean you have not met the right one yet. If the girls you've gone after didn't appreciate all that you've done for them, that's their loss, not yours. What's more, you are fortunate they left before you made any greater commitment, as in marriage.
Lighten up. Cynicism gets people nowhere.
Yes, to Love and be loved is the Best.
To Love and lost is the second best.
It's all about Learning process. Harou, you need to reflect back and learn from your past failures.
You cannot prevent failures, but you can prevent from falling hard.
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No leyyy, my guy v. guai, & I ai him to pieces wat.
FeowFeowOriginally posted by HaRou:ya..i really dun have a gd time with them.. when i started each and 1 rs, i always have 1 thinking in mind.. that is to, treat her as my last gf ( as in wife la )... i give them all sort of surprises i can think of, so that their days with me will not be boring.. so that they will feel that they are special to me.. and they are important enough for me to give them this surprises... but..true enough.. they took me for granted.. and broke my heart... wat is this? isit really that nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai? -
some have good girlfriends and they think they have found true love.
some got married and think they have found true love.
dont most of the people in love or newly wed think that way?
then who are those that eventually divorced and end up hating each other?
then who are those that remained married but hardly have anything to say to each other?
the list just goes on and on......
whether true love exist depends on each individual's perception of true love.
those who remained married for life dont necessarily do it out of love. some do it out of responsilbility. some just to keep the status quo.
what happens around us tell us so.
in order to have a 'successful marriage' true love alone is not enough. then why bother about true love? -
just because u haven seen/find it does not mean that it does not exist. if that is how u think then i doubt that u have a brain cos no 1 here have seen it.
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are you reply to my post?Originally posted by dzylim:just because u haven seen/find it does not mean that it does not exist. if that is how u think then i doubt that u have a brain cos no 1 here have seen it. -
Agreed with HaRou true love sucks man is just all crap that woman use to bluff you. Seen people wait whole life for a gal only to be make use by her and dump becos she is just tired of him. Woke to real life long ago! We work so hard to please them only to be treated worst then a dog. A dog at least get a pat on the back when they obey. I say is time to fight back we no longer need their so call " true love " or I should say" true use "for us. Why treat them good when all they want is bad guys. Sucks rite? But is true life has no place for us good guys anymore. GOod guys sucks!
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Actually thread starter has a point,it is hard to find true love,stop being dumb,so called 'mai be gong la'.
But you cant find true love doesnt mean it does not exist.
For me,I will just let nature takes its own course.It is all fated afterall...... -
You guys are fustrating.
lol!
Cmon be a man and dun whine like a girl in here.
Move on
There's so many girls in this planet.
Obviously your dating game sucks and you frame sucks big time.
Your confident sucks big time.
GROW UP.
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you should know by now that girls like assertive and confident guys, not a yes-man who say yes to her requests everytimeOriginally posted by drx:Agreed with HaRou true love sucks man is just all crap that woman use to bluff you. Seen people wait whole life for a gal only to be make use by her and dump becos she is just tired of him. Woke to real life long ago! We work so hard to please them only to be treated worst then a dog. A dog at least get a pat on the back when they obey. I say is time to fight back we no longer need their so call " true love " or I should say" true use "for us. Why treat them good when all they want is bad guys. Sucks rite? But is true life has no place for us good guys anymore. GOod guys sucks!
i.c.y -
i agree with you la.....Originally posted by HaRou:do u guys think there is something call true love? ok la..maybe in the beginning of a rs u guys think is true love true love, sweet sweet de..but eventually? hai bu shi pi pia~~~
but then just to add 2cents worth..........
without past failure/experience.....how then can u verify the one u found is finally the true love of ur life ...........
or ..........
without past failure/experience.....how then can u be sure that the previous guy/gal is ur true love le.........
life is full of U-turn and regrets de ...rite??
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nope. its for the thread starter.Originally posted by dragg:are you reply to my post?