Problem with my gal
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actually, by the way you phrase your post, it's clear that you know what you should do. so do it, be a man, and dun act like a girl who asks for advice just cos she needs assurance. good luck.
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bartender i suggest u better give up this girl and go out and find a better one..
i guarantee you that you'll find one whom can appreciate u more and NOT exploit you
actually i sympathise wif you too...coz i met wif a similiar scenario
i met a girl B whom was my ex-colleague at a supermart..
then the girl got into financial difficulties..i actually gave her money..even though she is not even my gf but i liked her so wanted to help her
then i even begged my auntie to give her a job in her office.. but by that time i was getting close to another girl and just treated B like a normal friend. Just wanted to help her. .
turns out the *bitch not only has a really bad attitude at work and even ragged about me being not enough good for her and all sorts of things at my auntie's workplace..even doing nonsence with the people there
meanwhile on the other hand.. she tried to cheat more money from me saying she wants to go study..
two-headed snake she is
i found how she ragged abt me through my auntie.my auntie got so angry she sacked her and i got scolded by my auntie
my trust in other people reli changed at that time...dun wanna trust anyone from there on.. -
Most of the women love money more than love. Cos if no money cannot survive in s'pore. Maybe she love you b'cos of $. Forget her.............
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Hey sympathise with the kinda gal u met.. move on and look for greener pastures... be a man...
btw, there are still TRUE LOVE ard... dun listen to drx... may u find ur perfect one...
Originally posted by drx:F liao
dump liao
siam liao
u still want love? haha even five year boy also laugh at you.
True love? Are you a man btw? You got no more pride is it ?
Sorry man looks like a boys to wimps case !!
wah another super sad example of a man kena con by gal.
Hope this is a warning to guys out there never to believe in true love! -
Well.. wonder how old is this girl u're talking about.Originally posted by bartenderx:hi
just want to ask for some advise
i met this gal in the internet, she tells me all her family problems
and says she need money etc
we share some stories , mostly about hers
then we went out , i always pays for the outing
when on her birthday i bring her go clubbing
she is very happy, after that because i spend too much
i need to work in bars to be bartender
i did not keep her company
slowly she becomes dissatisfied with me
want me to buy her many things
because i love her so i give in to her
now i am broke , but she still complains
want to join contest to win some money
and says she likes older man
cos they are financially more better than me
she threatens to break with me
if i dont give her monthly allowance
should i give her or not?
i also broke now, i am working very hard
today my off day, cos i work weekends
and weekdays i got another job
First of all, she seems dependent on u. (oops.. NoNo. she's dependent on ur $$) Secondly, by the way u describe her... no financially stable man can earn enough to provide for her needs.
Thirdly.. u guys are not married.. why in the world u wanna give her monthly allowance?!
If u continue allow urself to provide for her in this way.. there's only 1 outcome.
u'll die of exhaustion and U're living a lie -
she want money? its no different from what i did in niteclub throwing $$ at gals for a free f**k. ask her be a pr then.
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Loser la, get a life