I am a guy who can't quit wearing ling*rie...

• pumpy

  21 Apr 05, 09:46

  hi.
  
  i am 20 yrs old... a chinese guy. But i have a problem...an addiction.
  
  i cant stop myself from wearing gals clothes. i have been wearing it so often dat i feel like i cant ever stop wearing... i am afraid i will grow up to b a addicted to crossdressig, and make a mess of my life...
  
  
• Ayukat

  21 Apr 05, 09:54

  Chill out..
  
  There used to be a man that took pills and grew breasts and got addicted to wearing Bra...
  
  
• dragg

  21 Apr 05, 10:00

  go for therapy before it is too late.
  
  
• Oyster Omelette

  21 Apr 05, 10:02

  Take some masculine pills before your feminine hormones take control of you
• Tuatau

  21 Apr 05, 10:34

  Do you enjoy thinking and behaving like a girl as well when you are not in drag? If you do, you may need to seek professional help. A therapist should be able to help you decide what you really want for yourself.
  
  If not, it could probably just be a harmless outward expression of an inner fixation with women clothing. As long as it does not affect your social life, especially your relationships with your partner and family, you should not be too bothered by general public opinion on cross-dressing. You'll probably outgrow it when the thrill wears off.
  
  However, be aware that the public would not be as tolerant as your loved ones may be, so in order not to cause offense unintentionally, it is not recommended that you wear the lingerie to school or work.
• Devil1976

  21 Apr 05, 11:50

  Originally posted by pumpy:

  hi.
  
  i am 20 yrs old... a chinese guy. But i have a problem...an addiction.
  
  i cant stop myself from wearing gals clothes. i have been wearing it so often dat i feel like i cant ever stop wearing... i am afraid i will grow up to b a addicted to crossdressig, and make a mess of my life...
  
  

  See a professional for counseling.
  
  Meanwhile, try to occupy yourself with other activities... Stick around closely with others from time to time so that you cannot do anything undesirable to yourself....
• ShutterBug

  21 Apr 05, 13:48

  Be yourself. Just be yourself.
  
  What's important, is that you believe in yourself, respect yourself, and feel content.
  
  If you're comfortable wearing lingerie, then carry on by all means. But denying yourself, pent up frustration can be dangerous.
  
  So long as, you don't outwardly cause others any harm, and are capable of normal living, I don't see why you should stop.
  
  There is enough people who puts on a facade, and living a pent up life.
  
  Life passes once only, what's comfortable and agreeable to you, need not necessarily be likewise for others. So long as you cause no harm to others.
  
  We all have our rights to be our selves.
• frosterbeer

  21 Apr 05, 13:52

  Originally posted by pumpy:

  hi.
  
  i am 20 yrs old... a chinese guy. But i have a problem...an addiction.
  
  i cant stop myself from wearing gals clothes. i have been wearing it so often dat i feel like i cant ever stop wearing... i am afraid i will grow up to b a addicted to crossdressig, and make a mess of my life...
  
  

  Cant help but notice that theres an errie resemblance of this F_U_C_K face with caramon.
  
  Come on dic_k head! Leave stuck this moronic threadings up urs, and quit blaming ur retarded behavouir for ur mongolia syndrome upbringing
• shadowlunar

  21 Apr 05, 14:10

  Originally posted by pumpy:

  hi.
  
  i am 20 yrs old... a chinese guy. But i have a problem...an addiction.
  
  i cant stop myself from wearing gals clothes. i have been wearing it so often dat i feel like i cant ever stop wearing... i am afraid i will grow up to b a addicted to crossdressig, and make a mess of my life...
  
  

  You ARE addicted to crossdressing. You ARE making a mess of your life. Get a psychiatrist, you can't solve your problem by asking advice from here.
• Tuatau

  21 Apr 05, 14:22

  Originally posted by frosterbeer:
  Cant help but notice that theres an errie resemblance of this F_U_C_K face with caramon.
  

  Now that you mentioned it, this is not the first time pumpy has posted such threads. If this poster is truly a clone posting inane threads to exploit other genuinely concerned posters' sympathies, a pity to those who have wasted time to bother with replies.
• Devil1976

  21 Apr 05, 17:19

  Originally posted by Tuatau:

  Now that you mentioned it, this is not the first time pumpy has posted such threads. If this poster is truly a clone posting inane threads to exploit other genuinely concerned posters' sympathies, a pity to those who have wasted time to bother with replies.

  I don't find it a total waste of time to reply some of such cases... Some people with genuinely similar problems might just come along and read this thread... Hope they'll find the advices helpful in a way....?
• frosterbeer

  21 Apr 05, 21:40

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  I don't find it a total waste of time to reply some of such cases... Some people with genuinely similar problems might just come along and read this thread... Hope they'll find the advices helpful in a way....?

  Hello Kiddo? How many of the freak cases do u actually come across?
  
  So naive that u actually fall for this 3yr old scam...Wat u live in the net or somthing? Go out DO / LEARN SOMETHING!
  ON WaT I call LIFE
• _Aaron_

  21 Apr 05, 22:16

  Well lets see...
  Considering the fact that Devil has been here for abit more than 5 years.. (or has it been that long?)
  
  And that there are slightly in excess of 4 million people in Singapore... and 1% of Singapore men are gay, how are you so sure that one of the people reading this thread, if not the thread setter himself, is suffering from this?
  
  Who knows what fate will bring?
• Omega-broly

  21 Apr 05, 22:19

  there r a lot of "weird"/"usual" guy in this world that do weird or usual thing.
• HENG@

  21 Apr 05, 22:20

  ???
  
  pumpy i thought i've accepted it already? u did mention that back in 2004 didn't u?
  
  

  Originally posted by pumpy:

  Hi.
  I am now more acceptable of myself crossdressing. N I noe i want to continue doing it...
  For those who want to start getting into tis type of life, be prepared to spend alot alot...on clothes...etc.
  
  Anyway, me was doing for dis guy dat dae...n my mum came home to see me on my knees, wearing a pink bra n red panty, kneeling in front of a naked man... Me felt soooo damn paiseh n scared, but at da same time...i was v v turned on... abit sick rite? I mean my mum was like dere all shocked n screaming...but i was quite thrilled to b caught...
  
  Now i am already given in to being controled by crossdressing...i even quit sch le...
  Hope if u want to do it, pls make sure u can control urself.

• Tuatau

  21 Apr 05, 22:59

  Originally posted by Devil1976:
  I don't find it a total waste of time to reply some of such cases... Some people with genuinely similar problems might just come along and read this thread... Hope they'll find the advices helpful in a way....?

  True. Let's first look at the posts from pumpy (some are repeat posts):
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=90326
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=80006
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=77459
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=124605
  
  Yes, clones and trolls -- a necessary evil of open forums everywhere -- could serve as entertaining flame-bait. However, here in AA where sincere posters could approach with real problems, the clones and trolls just annoy and disgust, burning everyone's time and bandwidth with no constructive purpose.
  
  Not much we can do of course, but one does hope such insincere posts, especially the repeat ones, could be identified early by the sharp-eyed so that the keyboard Good Samaritans could better help those with genuine problems first.