Should i go?
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My diploma grad ceremony... i want to go actually, prob is i've no frens, always feels uneasy in social settings lately...
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why no friends? are you anti-social?
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Go lor, it's something you should be proud of.
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I agreed go.
Is your day you have work hard for it for 3 years.
Even if there is no friends for you at least have the pride which helped you throughtout the 3 years from the day you have entered the school and exiting it in grand style.
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i'm proud of what i've achieved... but not proud of myself. I nv did anything wrong but always had this feeling something's wrong with myself... inferiority complex i guess?
The most likely scenario, if i went, would be seeing most of my frens with their families or bringing their gf/bf along. I'm fine with being by myself actually... but i always had this uneasy, unnatural look if i am sitting alone in public, like i'm apologetic for being alone?
anyone feels the same way? -
i presume you will be joining the work force soon. it really does not help if you feel that way.
maybe you should seek help. no offense intended. -
Yep, I always have this empty feeling in my stomach whenever i'm alone in a complete unfamiliar surroundings. Anyway, if you don't want to go, it's still up to you.Since you say you are proud of what you ahve achieved, who knows, the principle might even praise you. Friends unexpectantly came flocking to you.
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I know how it feels. But this is after all a rare moment in your life which will probably not repeat itself.Originally posted by john nash:i'm proud of what i've achieved... but not proud of myself. I nv did anything wrong but always had this feeling something's wrong with myself... inferiority complex i guess?
The most likely scenario, if i went, would be seeing most of my frens with their families or bringing their gf/bf along. I'm fine with being by myself actually... but i always had this uneasy, unnatural look if i am sitting alone in public, like i'm apologetic for being alone?
anyone feels the same way?
I forgot about your other posts, but i believe its about your inferiority complex also. Seems you still haven't gotton over it?
Just take it as you're watching a movie alone, and that you've paid for this movie 1 year ago. Just watch it and leave.
You'll be fine John. -
IMO, if u really feel so uptight and uneasy, then dont go.
altho i have to agree that you might wanna try to open up abit more, perhaps step by step ba
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if you dont feel like gg ... juz dont go ... dont have to force yrself ....
I never go to my graduation also .......
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Yoz...Originally posted by Oyster Omelette:Yep, I always have this empty feeling in my stomach whenever i'm alone in a complete unfamiliar surroundings. Anyway, if you don't want to go, it's still up to you.Since you say you are proud of what you ahve achieved, who knows, the principle might even praise you. Friends unexpectantly came flocking to you.
Relax lah...alone means alone lohz...I also go alone for my grad ceremony mah...
U still gt Ur classmates there rite...
Poly grad ceremony once in Ur lifetime lehz...
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sometimes is best for us not to think too much lar.
The more people think the more we will be scare to do it.
I sometimes wish I was alone too but I had no choice from young, yes even in kidergarden, I was always chosen to be a leader, head, perfect so on becos of my size. I really envy people like you cos u get a lot of privacy which i do not enjoy. As leader I had to work hard to meet everybody's expectation and even higher than the standard. I had to be a role model in every way possible. Is not easy as you think. My love life is like the latest news in the whole school until gals are even afraid of going near me.
I am only here to advice only
Is up to you to decide for wat you really want in life. -
Doesn't really matter...? Just go for it...?? You could be expecting more of such events in the future...?Originally posted by john nash:i'm proud of what i've achieved... but not proud of myself. I nv did anything wrong but always had this feeling something's wrong with myself... inferiority complex i guess?
The most likely scenario, if i went, would be seeing most of my frens with their families or bringing their gf/bf along. I'm fine with being by myself actually... but i always had this uneasy, unnatural look if i am sitting alone in public, like i'm apologetic for being alone?
anyone feels the same way?