how?
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i'm a very demanding person. how to change?
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be less demanding!!
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Originally posted by akino:i'm a very demanding person. how to change?
find a gf who is even demanding than u -
cannot... i tried. but still... haiz
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cannot! i'm not a les. i've got a bf. he is a good bf but he is always angry with me. coz wat i want i want it now. i know itz bad tats y i wan to changeOriginally posted by Ferguson:
find a gf who is even demanding than u -
then he will have to accept you as you are. guys are to be controlled by their wives. just be yourselfOriginally posted by akino:cannot! i'm not a les. i've got a bf. he is a good bf but he is always angry with me. coz wat i want i want it now. i know itz bad tats y i wan to change -
What other things do you wish to change?Originally posted by akino:cannot! i'm not a les. i've got a bf. he is a good bf but he is always angry with me. coz wat i want i want it now. i know itz bad tats y i wan to change
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hum change ...
I am working on a new method to help people like you.
See if this works.
Method
Change role. What I mean is instead of you being demanding one take a step back and let you boyfriend be the demanding one.
Try it for a hour. In this hour you cannot demand anything from him at all. But he gets to order you around and demand this and that.
This method is to help you feel what he is experiencing now from you. It also helps you to understand why he so angry with you. Sometimes is hard to see from other people point of view unless you are the one who is experiencing it first hand.
I admire your courage to knowledge you have a problem and willing to solve it.
P.S. If this does not work, just feedback to me in the tread I will teach you more ways to change. -
you a virgo?Originally posted by akino:i'm a very demanding person. how to change? -
nia i'm a capriconOriginally posted by thoreldan:you a virgo? -
mi 2....Originally posted by akino:nia i'm a capricon
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woah... ok i'll try. thanks by the wayOriginally posted by drx:hum change ...
I am working on a new method to help people like you.
See if this works.
Method
Change role. What I mean is instead of you being demanding one take a step back and let you boyfriend be the demanding one.
Try it for a hour. In this hour you cannot demand anything from him at all. But he gets to order you around and demand this and that.
This method is to help you feel what he is experiencing now from you. It also helps you to understand why he so angry with you. Sometimes is hard to see from other people point of view unless you are the one who is experiencing it first hand.
I admire your courage to knowledge you have a problem and willing to solve it.
P.S. If this does not work, just feedback to me in the tread I will teach you more ways to change. -
Yes, this is a gd way to change.Originally posted by drx:hum change ...
I am working on a new method to help people like you.
See if this works.
Method
Change role. What I mean is instead of you being demanding one take a step back and let you boyfriend be the demanding one.
Try it for a hour. In this hour you cannot demand anything from him at all. But he gets to order you around and demand this and that.
This method is to help you feel what he is experiencing now from you. It also helps you to understand why he so angry with you. Sometimes is hard to see from other people point of view unless you are the one who is experiencing it first hand.
I admire your courage to knowledge you have a problem and willing to solve it.
P.S. If this does not work, just feedback to me in the tread I will teach you more ways to change.
Bottomline is, if you don't people to treat you in a certain way, then don't do the same towards them too. -
Finally someone asking this question apart from me!Originally posted by thoreldan:you a virgo? 
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Down to earth...practical kind of gal...Originally posted by akino:nia i'm a capricon
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Depends... Not all things would turn out with the results you expect them to be... In some cases, pulling such an act would only further complicate things unnecessarily....Originally posted by grief00:Yes, this is a gd way to change.
Bottomline is, if you don't people to treat you in a certain way, then don't do the same towards them too. -
Demand yourself to be less demanding!
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its definitely not easy!! i'm taurus.. a stubborn and demanding lover.
I try to put myself in my partner's shoes, i feel its quite unfair to him that i give too little and take too much. So one day, i try to give more than usual and not demand anything from him. Amazingly, it feels really good to just love him unconditionally. it does take alot of effort to constantly remind ourselves to not be demanding ( esp when we're so used to it! eeks!) but it does pay off well.
make a little effort everyday and u'll see the difference le -
Since u are demanding, then make sure u get a submissive partner who is willing to give in to u.
But beware, everyone has his limit.
U must learn to change cos u may lose him if someone better comes along. -
wu yao ke zui.
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Just learn to relax...Originally posted by akino:i'm a very demanding person. how to change? -
dun worry, you'll get sick of being demanding and not getting the demands soon enuff.
