you both can open an account together if u are to that stage of settling down with each other. every beginning or month end, both deposit the same amt into the account and no one is to touch it.Originally posted by zichuan:as the above topic, i very hard to talk to her about money matters, she always stress and we quarrell over the matter, how can i slowly talk into her about all this because if we married, all this things comes in .. we need to pull ourself together to face all this problems? any experience people her? share? thanks
your comment hurts me.Originally posted by dragg:obviously your girlfriends are not mature enough!!!![]()
It's not whether his gf is matured enough or not. Different people view things differently.Originally posted by dragg:obviously your girlfriends are not mature enough!!!![]()
Originally posted by dejour:My currently GF suggest opening an account together recently.. but e sad thing is.. she nt going to contribute a single cent to tat account.. I feel she want to control my fincial.. i dun reali like e idea~! Also always quarrel over money issues..
you both can open an account together if u are to that stage of settling down with each other. every beginning or month end, both deposit the same amt into the account and no one is to touch it.
[b]provided both really have plans to settle down together[/b]
hmmm sounds like a good ideaOriginally posted by Peppermint:when u go out on dates who does the paying?
me and my gf have a 'dating fund'
every beginning of the month...we each contrinute 100 into this. so its abe 200. since we meet on weekends...50 per week is quite enuff
so say if we want to go for a short trip, we make sure there is enuff, if not either we spend less, or we top up an equal amount so that we can go...
this solves 2 issues...
1st- before she can spend, her spending power is reduced by 100...so she has to live with this restriction...
2nd- indirectly u encouraging her to save
hope this helps...and looking at your situation its better u hold the funds
open an account together but she's not goin to contribute...Originally posted by Gwy85:My currently GF suggest opening an account together recently.. but e sad thing is.. she nt going to contribute a single cent to tat account.. I feel she want to control my fincial.. i dun reali like e idea~! Also always quarrel over money issues..![]()
Both 20 years old.. Giv her my ATM? cannot la..Originally posted by shinta:one question, how old's the both of u?
haha.. God bless us..Originally posted by zichuan:my gf 22 i 21.
Dating fun seems to be a good idea for me..but currently i do not have any gf so i think better not to think of it firstOriginally posted by Peppermint:when u go out on dates who does the paying?
me and my gf have a 'dating fund'
every beginning of the month...we each contrinute 100 into this. so its abe 200. since we meet on weekends...50 per week is quite enuff
so say if we want to go for a short trip, we make sure there is enuff, if not either we spend less, or we top up an equal amount so that we can go...
this solves 2 issues...
1st- before she can spend, her spending power is reduced by 100...so she has to live with this restriction...
2nd- indirectly u encouraging her to save
hope this helps...and looking at your situation its better u hold the funds